U were in love with a gurl, u truelly and really loved d gurl and would want to do anything for her. u two were lovers until d day u proposed to her and she joyfully accepted to marry u. As time went on, one thing led to another thing and the disappeared (either kidnapped or she died or she relocated but wasnt her intention to disappear) that u couldnt reach her for months (maybe 8 months and above). now u found another girl and loved her the way u loved the former one. u proposed to her as usual and she gladly accepted to marry u. as the wedding preparation preceded, three days to the wedding, the former gurl came back to u nd was feeling very sorry for not keeping in touch all those while; with reason being that robbers stole her handbag containing everything she went out with that day and she was later kidnapped when she tried to retrieve her hand bag from d robbers.
for the guys, what are u gonna do in respect to the wedding? for the ladies, if it were to be the reverse, what will u do?
for me, i really dont know what to do. matured answers pls..................................
Am absolutely so made of what i cannot actually decode
Posted: at 4-12-2011 09:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
truenaija2 at 4-12-2011 09:28 PM (13 years ago) (f)
you can cancel the wedding if u r still inlove with her, cos when u r married u cant change things anymore
Posted: at 4-12-2011 09:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
you can cancel the wedding if u r still inlove with her, cos when u r married u cant change things anymore
I do agree, I have seen a similar case where the groom cancelled his wedding about 4days to the date cos his GF of many years appeared from no where after been out of the picture for more than 18 months. The chick just appeared from no where to speak with him. Wetin crazy people na say his present fiancee was there with him. She begged his brothers 4 hours to allow her speak 2 him but the refused but luckily for her he came out and so her by chance. Anyway, he gave her the chance 2 say what she wanted and they were indoor 4 more than 3 hours taking. When he came outside, he just told his brothers and family that he wasn´t marrying the fiancee anymore. The girl just fainted. He told his people he was going 2 marry his GF simple. It was just crazy. He married her actually, they live in ph and have 2 wonderful children.
So guy it can happen. I have seen it happen.
Confucius says: Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do.
Posted: at 4-12-2011 09:40 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
truenaija2 at 4-12-2011 09:48 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Skypon2002 on 4-12-2011 09:38 PM
but if u are d lady and ur guy wants cancel d wedding for another lady, what will u do?
i wont like it, n i dont wish my sister the same , but everybody deserves happiness , n if he is sure his ex will make him happy , why marry someoneelse
Posted: at 4-12-2011 09:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I do agree, I have seen a similar case where the groom cancelled his wedding about 4days to the date cos his GF of many years appeared from no where after been out of the picture for more than 18 months. The chick just appeared from no where to speak with him. Wetin crazy people na say his present fiancee was there with him. She begged his brothers 4 hours to allow her speak 2 him but the refused but luckily for her he came out and so her by chance. Anyway, he gave her the chance 2 say what she wanted and they were indoor 4 more than 3 hours taking. When he came outside, he just told his brothers and family that he wasn´t marrying the fiancee anymore. The girl just fainted. He told his people he was going 2 marry his GF simple. It was just crazy. He married her actually, they live in ph and have 2 wonderful children.
So guy it can happen. I have seen it happen.
Posted: at 4-12-2011 09:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Follow ur heart when u must ve answered dis questions to urself? Do u still luv her to wnt to go bk to her or that u feel pity for her as a result of wat happened to her? Or do u genuinely love dis present one or feel pity for her dat she wll feel bad if u dump her for ur ex lover? Do u feel love or pity?
Posted: at 5-12-2011 03:24 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
wandepope at 5-12-2011 10:22 AM (13 years ago) (m)
if its NIgeria...where did all the busines centre go to before she was kidnapped.If series of bad events happen to one person i'll assume that the person is cursed,besides i love the new girl just as i loved the previous one.when its over in my heart it is over for real.if i claim to love this new girl i won't go back.
Posted: at 5-12-2011 10:22 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 5-12-2011 10:27 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: wandepope on 5-12-2011 10:22 AM
if its NIgeria...where did all the busines centre go to before she was kidnapped.If series of bad events happen to one person i'll assume that the person is cursed,besides i love the new girl just as i loved the previous one.when its over in my heart it is over for real.if i claim to love this new girl i won't go back.
u right man...
she claims she loves him..and agreed marrying him..but robbers stole her bag and she was later kidnapped..did the robbery and kidnapping enter her brain that she couldnt Stick her man mobile digit in her head? some kain babes sef..
poster..he shld marry the new gurl..the old gurl can get her ass out and look for anoda man..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 5-12-2011 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
wandepope at 5-12-2011 10:34 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 5-12-2011 10:27 AM
u right man...
she claims she loves him..and agreed marrying him..but robbers stole her bag and she was later kidnapped..did the robbery and kidnapping enter her brain that she couldnt Stick her man mobile digit in her head? some kain babes sef..
poster..he shld marry the new gurl..the old gurl can get her ass out and look for anoda man..
yeah...did the kidnappers kidnap her for free,didn't they ask her to call her relative to pay any ransome? why didn't she tell her relative to tell her guy of the situation if she was so in love with him?
Posted: at 5-12-2011 10:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 5-12-2011 10:40 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: wandepope on 5-12-2011 10:34 AM
yeah...did the kidnappers kidnap her for free,didn't they ask her to call her relative to pay any ransome? why didn't she tell her relative to tell her guy of the situation if she was so in love with him?
i wonder o
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 5-12-2011 10:40 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
........yu already no that 
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