Most women are fond of doing things secretly with thier ex after marriage. Like chatting on BBM and facebook etc without d knowlegde of thier spouse. Am asking my naijapals dudes,will u allow this to happen right before ur face?
Posted: at 21-01-2012 03:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dirtykid at 21-01-2012 10:06 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Why not, is all about understanding each other and having trust. Unless the lady gave u some reasons to think otherwise.
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Posted: at 21-01-2012 10:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
hardwayonlyway at 22-01-2012 06:44 AM (13 years ago) (m)
WHICH LEVEL? COMMUNICATION WITH DE EX-BOYFRIEND MYTH BE DANGEROUS, SOME WOMEN ARE LOW IN MENTALITY, AND AS WELL BE FUNNY AT TIMES, IS NOT ADVISABLE BEFORE IS TOO LATE.
Posted: at 22-01-2012 06:44 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Well, I still maintain a very close relationship with my ex-girl friend even after she abandoned me for a more accomplished man during our final year at the
University. She thought I was just a players and so she left when another man showed up during our last days at sch and got pregnant. But that man prove to
be even more of a player than she had thought and left her while she was still pregnancy. That was when she started looking for me and sending letters
that I shouldnt see her as a foe. I still love her cos she is one kind of a girl that is rare to come by but I dont know how to Father a child that is not mine especially now that I left town and have seen her face to face for a long time only through text and calls.
I WANT advice from Pals too
Posted: at 22-01-2012 07:13 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Well, I still maintain a very close relationship with my ex-girl friend even after she abandoned me for a more accomplished man during our final year at the
University. She thought I was just a players and so she left when another man showed up during our last days at sch and got pregnant. But that man prove to
be even more of a player than she had thought and left her while she was still pregnant. That was when she started looking for me and sending letters
that I shouldnt see her as a foe. I still love her cos she is one kind of a girl that is rare to come by but I dont know how to Father a child that is not mine especially now that I left town and have not seen her face to face for a long time only through text and calls.
I WANT advice from Pals too
Posted: at 22-01-2012 07:22 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
HiddenGenuis at 22-01-2012 07:55 AM (13 years ago) (m)
honestly speaking, i,ll say, wot is not rgt ain,t rgt,some said No big deal, others said once yoh married datz it.bottom line is it,s absolutely wrong,it,z a bad previledge,( wen u talk bout EX) mind u, 95% of them involves SEX,meaning @ one point in time, they ave slept with each other,so be honest guyz, will u enjoy ur legally married wife to be chattg with her Ex, knowing fully they were ones segxwal matez, commmmmmon! Igbo Man go say..(tófíá ápá), Yoruba man will say ( Ólórún máá jéé) Hausa man go say,(Dán bó róóón bááá) Mind u, other way round, wooo-un-to-men (women) will not take it laying downnnnnnnnnn ábí....
Posted: at 22-01-2012 07:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
amokwiththis at 22-01-2012 08:07 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Its not a bad thing before, but due to the things that is happening now adays it is not advisable, and i will not allowed my wife to even say hi to her ex if i know the guy.
Posted: at 22-01-2012 08:07 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Nsikakabasidan at 22-01-2012 08:38 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: dirtykid on 21-01-2012 10:06 PM
Why not, is all about understanding each other and having trust. Unless the lady gave u some reasons to think otherwise.
To me all links should be set to off both paties are married.Bibilicaly too bad,and what dealing do one still have by this holy time,one should let the relationship go.
Posted: at 22-01-2012 08:38 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
getting in touch with ur ex_boyfriend is not a big deal cos u never can tell where help can be coming from but not tresspassing ur boundary with him or her
Posted: at 22-01-2012 08:54 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
some time most X help each other when they are in trouble ooo. for women is not advisable because most women cant controll their urg. but for men the percentage that would stick to their word of being married, is very high compare that of a women. so for women is No. while for men yes but with carefullness.
Posted: at 22-01-2012 09:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
truenaija2 at 22-01-2012 09:24 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: amokwiththis on 22-01-2012 08:07 AM
Its not a bad thing before, but due to the things that is happening now adays it is not advisable, and i will not allowed my wife to even say hi to her ex if i know the guy.
lol dis guy you dey vex ooh, well i think its not alright cos it might result to sex, not i n all cases but it can go that far, so if u can avoid it , it is beta to avoid it, if u r talking of help ur hubby is there to help u , old things have passed away
Posted: at 22-01-2012 09:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
TRENDING GISTS 
::)I WILL EVEN MAKE SURE SHE FORGET EVERYTHING ABOUT THE EX BF
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