Will u allow your wife to in touch with her married or single ex-boyfriend? (Page 2)

THAT 1 WAS STUPID AND NOT MARRIED,THE POSTER IS ASKING OF THE SAME SITUATION WITH MARRIED WOMEN..AS 4 THE ADVICE U ASKED,DNT DO IT..!

Posted: at 22-01-2012 10:47 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Hmmmm ... very good question. I believe communication with an ex should be drastically reduced if not completely. Being in talking and chatting, hanging out level with an ex (someone whom you have once shared your body with, emotionally involved and whatever else you can say) is a dangerous thing I will not encourage for an healthy marriage. Like someone just claimed upstairs (above I mean) that you might need their help at some point .. I say this is a trick of the mind and an excuse by the lady or the guy to still keep in touch with an ex (whose company they enjoy anyway). It is very difficult for you to remain close to an ex and not at some point be emotionally entangled. If you cherish your marriage I'll advice you stay away from ex's. If they do genuinely need your help at some point then discuss it with your spouse before you take any step in that direction. The bible says flee from temptation .. don't debate with it.

Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:18 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

This is more like digging a grave for your marriage. I'll say cut of communication and face your marriage. If he or she needs help in the future or you need your ex's help in the future talk it over with your spouse before you take any step. Above all confirm how your spouse feels about you staying in touch with the person. Involvement with ex's has a 99% chances of starting an extramarital affair. God help us ooo.

Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:26 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Old firewood can easily catch fire, if u know what I mean

Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:28 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

haba why should we be smiling knowing that trailer fit dey cross our backyard and we no know .... lol .. me i no want am oooo.

Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:30 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

I WONDER O MY BROTHER!

Posted: at 22-01-2012 12:45 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

There a lot of things people needs to put into consideration(life in general) before taking any decision..Now what are the advantages & disadvantages for a married woman still getting in touch with an 'Ex'?.If we carefully look into it,we'll realize that,the disadvantages is way too big and therefore should not by any means acceptable,not even from the male counterpart.
                                    
                              'Marriage is a sacred bond not a kindergarten and so therefore be respected'.

Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:09 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

GO TO ADVICE PAGE.... HERE IS TO COMMENT ON ISSUES

Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:30 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Why not? I will not have a problem with it ,unless she gives me a reason to.

Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:47 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

is too bad my people use to say , old fire wood easily cache fire

Posted: at 22-01-2012 02:22 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie