![-]( "Aknankanan") Aknankanan at 22-01-2012 10:44 AM (13 years ago)  (m) Reply |
![-]( "Aknankanan") Aknankanan at 22-01-2012 10:47 AM (13 years ago) (m) Well, I still maintain a very close relationship with my ex-girl friend even after she abandoned me for a more accomplished man during our final year at the
University. She thought I was just a players and so she left when another man showed up during our last days at sch and got pregnant. But that man prove to
be even more of a player than she had thought and left her while she was still pregnant. That was when she started looking for me and sending letters
that I shouldnt see her as a foe. I still love her cos she is one kind of a girl that is rare to come by but I dont know how to Father a child that is not mine especially now that I left town and have not seen her face to face for a long time only through text and calls.
I WANT advice from Pals too
THAT 1 WAS STUPID AND NOT MARRIED,THE POSTER IS ASKING OF THE SAME SITUATION WITH MARRIED WOMEN..AS 4 THE ADVICE U ASKED,DNT DO IT..! | Posted: at 22-01-2012 10:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Aknankanan") Aknankanan at 22-01-2012 10:49 AM (13 years ago) (m) honestly speaking,
i,ll say, wot is not rgt ain,t rgt,some said No big deal, others said once yoh married datz it.bottom line is it,s absolutely wrong,it,z a bad previledge,( wen u talk bout EX) mind u, 95% of them involves SEX,meaning @ one point in time, they ave slept with each other,so be honest guyz, will u enjoy ur legally married wife to be chattg with her Ex, knowing fully they were ones segxwal matez, commmmmmon! Igbo Man go say..(tófíá ápá), Yoruba man will say ( Ólórún máá jéé) Hausa man go say,(Dán bó róóón bááá)
Mind u, other way round, wooo-un-to-men (women) will not take it laying downnnnnnnnnn ábí....
MY MAN,U BE THE BOMB! | Posted: at 22-01-2012 10:49 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "oliyide") oliyide at 22-01-2012 11:18 AM (13 years ago) (m) Hmmmm ... very good question. I believe communication with an ex should be drastically reduced if not completely. Being in talking and chatting, hanging out level with an ex (someone whom you have once shared your body with, emotionally involved and whatever else you can say) is a dangerous thing I will not encourage for an healthy marriage. Like someone just claimed upstairs (above I mean) that you might need their help at some point .. I say this is a trick of the mind and an excuse by the lady or the guy to still keep in touch with an ex (whose company they enjoy anyway). It is very difficult for you to remain close to an ex and not at some point be emotionally entangled. If you cherish your marriage I'll advice you stay away from ex's. If they do genuinely need your help at some point then discuss it with your spouse before you take any step in that direction. The bible says flee from temptation .. don't debate with it. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "boye143") boye143 at 22-01-2012 11:25 AM (13 years ago) (f) I agree there is no reason to keep n touch unless there r children involved...that i believe should b the ONLY reason to communicate with an x when married!!!!!!! | Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:25 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "oliyide") oliyide at 22-01-2012 11:26 AM (13 years ago) (m) getting in touch with ur ex_boyfriend is not a big deal cos u never can tell where help can be coming from but not tresspassing ur boundary with him or her
This is more like digging a grave for your marriage. I'll say cut of communication and face your marriage. If he or she needs help in the future or you need your ex's help in the future talk it over with your spouse before you take any step. Above all confirm how your spouse feels about you staying in touch with the person. Involvement with ex's has a 99% chances of starting an extramarital affair. God help us ooo. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:26 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "oliyide") oliyide at 22-01-2012 11:27 AM (13 years ago) (m) I agree there is no reason to keep n touch unless there r children involved...that i believe should b the ONLY reason to communicate with an x when married!!!!!!!
gbam .. i agree with this. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Neglito") Neglito at 22-01-2012 11:28 AM (13 years ago) (m) Old firewood can easily catch fire, if u know what I mean | Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:28 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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To me it's absolutely wrong, once u are marry u re marry, i dnt xpect u to still get intouch with ur ex cos dere must be a reason y d person is nt d 1 dt u re marry, so i dnt see any reason y u guyz shld get intouch again.. lai lia nt on dis earth dt will take dt from wife.. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:29 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "oliyide") oliyide at 22-01-2012 11:30 AM (13 years ago) (m) haba why should we be smiling knowing that trailer fit dey cross our backyard and we no know .... lol .. me i no want am oooo. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "iyke63") iyke63 at 22-01-2012 11:57 AM (13 years ago) (m) @ truenaija2 NO NEED OF SMELLING MY SISTER,IF YOU GIVE THEM ALLOW THEY WILL START LOOKING FOR ALLOWANCES  | Posted: at 22-01-2012 11:57 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Aknankanan") Aknankanan at 22-01-2012 12:45 PM (13 years ago) (m) haba why should we be smiling knowing that trailer fit dey cross our backyard and we no know .... lol .. me i no want am oooo.
I WONDER O MY BROTHER! | Posted: at 22-01-2012 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "malvin2525") malvin2525 at 22-01-2012 12:54 PM (13 years ago) (m) hmm it depends | Posted: at 22-01-2012 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-01-2012 01:09 PM (13 years ago) (m) Most women are fond of doing things secretly with thier ex after marriage. Like chatting on BBM and facebook etc without d knowlegde of thier spouse. Am asking my naijapals dudes,will u allow this to happen right before ur face?  There a lot of things people needs to put into consideration(life in general) before taking any decision..Now what are the advantages & disadvantages for a married woman still getting in touch with an 'Ex'?.If we carefully look into it,we'll realize that,the disadvantages is way too big and therefore should not by any means acceptable,not even from the male counterpart. 'Marriage is a sacred bond not a kindergarten and so therefore be respected'. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "babaronke") babaronke at 22-01-2012 01:12 PM (13 years ago) (m) there is 80% tendecy dat they will still b meeting themselves secretly. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:12 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Well, I still maintain a very close relationship with my ex-girl friend even after she abandoned me for a more accomplished man during our final year at the
University. She thought I was just a players and so she left when another man showed up during our last days at sch and got pregnant. But that man prove to
be even more of a player than she had thought and left her while she was still pregnant. That was when she started looking for me and sending letters
that I shouldnt see her as a foe. I still love her cos she is one kind of a girl that is rare to come by but I dont know how to Father a child that is not mine especially now that I left town and have not seen her face to face for a long time only through text and calls.
I WANT advice from Pals too
GO TO ADVICE PAGE.... HERE IS TO COMMENT ON ISSUES | Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:30 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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4 WHAT REASON | Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "toibeli") toibeli at 22-01-2012 01:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) Why not? I will not have a problem with it ,unless she gives me a reason to. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "italianjob") italianjob at 22-01-2012 01:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) All these depends on mentality and understanding, most of us living in the western world knows that this is nothing, if a womwn or man is not faithful he or she will never be faithful, being a sex mate before has nothing to do with his or her present life. it cost only to be segxwally controlled no matter what, must love be always involve sex? for me is no. | Posted: at 22-01-2012 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "princewho") princewho at 22-01-2012 02:22 PM (13 years ago) (m) is too bad my people use to say , old fire wood easily cache fire | Posted: at 22-01-2012 02:22 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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