Women's Forum: How Do I Get Him to Tell Me What's Wrong?

Date: 05-03-2012 9:48 am (13 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
- at 5-03-2012 09:48 AM (13 years ago)
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Do you feel like you're walking alone whenever your boyfriend or husband is in a bad mood? Are you often tempted to talk it through with him, but he just brush you off? How can you help him feel better without making him more angry?

Posted: at 5-03-2012 09:48 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- 50scent at 5-03-2012 10:00 AM (13 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
Posted: at 5-03-2012 10:00 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 5-03-2012 10:30 AM (13 years ago)
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No comment
Posted: at 5-03-2012 10:30 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 5-03-2012 10:48 AM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 5-03-2012 10:48 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 5-03-2012 11:03 AM (13 years ago)
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if he brushes me off when m trying to talk him through,
ill still pet him to tell me sha but if e keeps brushin me off,ill let him be..who r u brushin off poster?
Posted: at 5-03-2012 11:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 5-03-2012 11:05 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on  5-03-2012 11:03 AM
if he brushes me off when m trying to talk him through,
ill still pet him to tell me sha but if e keeps brushin me off,ill let him be..who r u brushin off poster?

is u all dis while where were u  Sad
Posted: at 5-03-2012 11:05 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 5-03-2012 11:16 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on  5-03-2012 11:05 AM
is u all dis while where were u  Sad
oh dear 50,i was there,right behind u..
Posted: at 5-03-2012 11:16 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 5-03-2012 11:23 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on  5-03-2012 11:16 AM
oh dear 50,i was there,right behind u..

 Kiss Kiss Kiss
Posted: at 5-03-2012 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 5-03-2012 02:34 PM (13 years ago)
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 Cheesy
Posted: at 5-03-2012 02:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 5-03-2012 02:53 PM (13 years ago)
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sweet u
Posted: at 5-03-2012 02:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 5-03-2012 04:37 PM (13 years ago)
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well when he is not in the mood...and the woman try to have a say and he refuses her assistant...the best thing the woman can do is to give him his space...let him be the man and solve whatever it is...when he comes back to his mood he will tell her whatever it is.
Posted: at 5-03-2012 04:37 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- katung44 at 5-03-2012 09:23 PM (13 years ago)
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It is a very delicate matter to try anfd point out a man's faults without making him feel disrespected. Your chances of pointing out his faults and he asspeting it without another arguement differs from Man to Man. Some Men are very reasonable when you explain their faults to them respectfully while others will never accept they are wrong. One of the keys to doing this is timing. If You and the man in question were having a heated argument, you may need to leave him to simmer down then later in the day or as early as possible try to reason out with him as friendly as you can. Most men are like Tigers. When you corner them into a confrontation, they'll lash out and try their best to hurt you even though they're wrong. After he has cooled down, if he is the reasonable type he may listen to you. That is just a few men who do not let their pride control them much. There are the ones that telling them they are wrong for whatever reason is completely impossible without them completely shutting you out. You just have to understand the man that you are dealing with. If he is arrogant, then trying to make him see his faults is only going to always bring out the worst in him with you people making any progress. If he is just the proud type, you may be able to make him see reason with some amount of diplomacy. Just let him know that you are not trying to make him feel small or that you do not love him any less even though he may be in the wrong.
Posted: at 5-03-2012 09:23 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 6-03-2012 11:58 AM (13 years ago)
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 Cheesy
Posted: at 6-03-2012 11:58 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jossy4reall at 7-03-2012 05:36 AM (13 years ago)
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sue him to court
Posted: at 7-03-2012 05:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 7-03-2012 12:10 PM (13 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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- 50scent at 16-04-2012 04:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-03-2012 04:37 PM
well when he is not in the mood...and the woman try to have a say and he refuses her assistant...the best thing the woman can do is to give him his space...let him be the man and solve whatever it is...when he comes back to his mood he will tell her whatever it is.


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Posted: at 16-04-2012 04:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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