Seven Signs That He Might Never Propose To You

Date: 12-03-2012 7:45 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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It is very important for a woman to know how the man she is dating feels and whether he will eventually step up and propose. These 7 signs help you clarify if he thinks your relationship is for keeps or just fun for right now.



1. He only makes plans for the immediate or short term. He is always ready to make a date for tonight or this weekend but rarely makes plans for the distant future. For instance, you ask him to plan a romantic vacation for next year and he acts hesitantly telling you, "That sounds great, but let's wait until it gets closer before booking the flight and hotel."

2. He rarely sings your praises to his friends and family. This can be spotted when you are around those closest to him and they say something to the effect of, "Wow, Bob never told us how smart and talented you are!" A man who is serious about you and your future together raves about you.

3. In social settings, when the topic of marriage or children comes up, he quickly changes the subject. In addition, if he cannot change the subject, he will try to distract you or remove you from the conversation. He may mention the buffet and that he is hungry so he can avoid having to face any questions from the conversation.

4. He tells you he is too stressed at work to think about getting married now but maybe in a few months he can focus on it. He is doing this to buy more time with you before being cornered into dealing with the subject of marriage.

5. He avoids talking about a deeper commitment and tells you he is "happy the way things are -- why ruin it?" When a man tells you this, it is a big red flag that he does not have the intention of taking your relationship to the next level.

6. He avoids serious talks about the future by diverting your attention. Often a man will do this by trying to make you laugh or engage you in a fun activity. Remember his goal is to keep you happy and around without having to further the commitment.

7. He will compliment you without adding himself in the mix. He will tell you how great you are and how much he admires you but will not say anything like, "I am so lucky to be with you ... You are the woman for me!"


If you are nodding your head thinking to yourself, "My guy does that," then it's time to take a good, hard look at the reality of your relationship's future.


Posted: at 12-03-2012 07:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- wandepope at 12-03-2012 08:00 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmmmm
Posted: at 12-03-2012 08:00 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 12-03-2012 08:01 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmn,noted poster..let me fink...
Posted: at 12-03-2012 08:01 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- wandepope at 12-03-2012 08:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 12-03-2012 08:01 PM
hmmn,noted poster..let me fink...

hmmm...What is she thinking...?
Posted: at 12-03-2012 08:09 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Jamesaino at 12-03-2012 08:13 PM (12 years ago)
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Okay oo.
Posted: at 12-03-2012 08:13 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ANTYNGO at 12-03-2012 08:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Hmmn, TRUE TALK.
Posted: at 12-03-2012 08:52 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Neglito at 13-03-2012 12:35 AM (12 years ago)
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Propose ko propose ni, na today? Me i no dey propose anythingooo. I no wan stress.( the guy seems to be saying within)
Posted: at 13-03-2012 12:35 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- southpool16 at 13-03-2012 12:38 AM (12 years ago)
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what about lades,  Huh?
Posted: at 13-03-2012 12:38 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 13-03-2012 12:40 AM (12 years ago)
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I love this. But keep in mind that not all r/ship leads to marriage. It does not take a man more than 2yrs to know if you are his wife.
Posted: at 13-03-2012 12:40 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 1daful at 13-03-2012 12:44 AM (12 years ago)
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Seconded

Posted: at 13-03-2012 12:44 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 13-03-2012 12:54 AM (12 years ago)
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  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 13-03-2012 12:54 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 13-03-2012 12:56 AM (12 years ago)
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who cares?

Posted: at 13-03-2012 12:56 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 13-03-2012 12:58 AM (12 years ago)
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someone else cares!

Posted: at 13-03-2012 12:58 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- toibeli at 13-03-2012 01:54 AM (12 years ago)
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I agree with you all the way.
Posted: at 13-03-2012 01:54 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jud4kul at 13-03-2012 02:07 AM (12 years ago)
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Really!
Posted: at 13-03-2012 02:07 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Ifemylove at 13-03-2012 02:34 AM (12 years ago)
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9ice1 mr poster
Posted: at 13-03-2012 02:34 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- malvin2525 at 13-03-2012 04:00 AM (12 years ago)
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 Huh?
Posted: at 13-03-2012 04:00 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DarkCoco at 13-03-2012 04:09 AM (12 years ago)
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mehhnn...that sucks if someone thinks that the person who does all dis is ready for marriage....NEXXXTTT

Posted: at 13-03-2012 04:09 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moralemike07 at 13-03-2012 06:55 AM (12 years ago)
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The ladies would like it. Grin
Posted: at 13-03-2012 06:55 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jialoba at 13-03-2012 07:26 AM (12 years ago)
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@poster
boy why are u  trying to stop our source of ice cream?
Posted: at 13-03-2012 07:26 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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