Good thing you have already identified your problem I think it is half solved I have to add to what pals have said ensure u develop the culture of saving 25% of your salary each month. take that out each month and then work your expenses on the remaining 75% Go for NEEDS only and remember u can not please every one!
I have to commend you for investing in people never mind that you didnt get those monies back but one day when you lest expect it, you will reap the fruit of your labour May God help you, Amen Posted: at 10-04-2012 12:04 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Adikpe at 10-04-2012 12:05 PM (13 years ago) (m) My advice is that you need to consult a financial manager for an advice. Or you need some form of deliverance. Posted: at 10-04-2012 12:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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gloxxy98 at 10-04-2012 12:12 PM (13 years ago) (f) that is his business Posted: at 10-04-2012 12:12 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ajanni at 10-04-2012 12:15 PM (13 years ago) (m) Reply |
Amugbo at 10-04-2012 12:18 PM (13 years ago) (m) ; Did you say you have two fathers? I am not surprised if you fail.
Posted: at 10-04-2012 12:18 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Neglito at 10-04-2012 12:29 PM (13 years ago) (m) U TOO LIKE WOMEN DAT'S WHY. Posted: at 10-04-2012 12:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Chinnys at 10-04-2012 12:45 PM (13 years ago) (f) try and save more at least u can buy a land and build ur own house Posted: at 10-04-2012 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Trizio at 10-04-2012 01:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) My advice to you will be that you remember that "a man is the architect of his own life". What u earn in naija is much to give u a debt free life. Now, start to set up imaginary boundaries to govern your daily undertakings (eg limit communications to anybody and consider you immediate family first ie your wife, children n yourself). The boundaries must include a fiscal budget which u must diligently follow. For instance, when u collect this month salary, thrash only the do-without-needs, after u have segmented the salary into two parts. Be sure to fix half(compulsory) of the salary in a fix deposit of a long standing bank. Remember u cannot please all and u don't need to be right all the time. CONSIDER YOUR FAMILY FIRST. The truth is that if u fall, the same people u fed will laugh u to scorn. Don't forget to agree with your wife in prayers through Jesus Christ Our Lord and Savior, the unchanging changer, the Alpha and the Omega as He said in His Words..."beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health even as thy soul prospereth" 3 John vs 2. Do your best, leaning on God always. ciao! Posted: at 10-04-2012 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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do you pay your tithe, do you give offering that is commensurate with your salary, the earlier you start doing that the better for you. Posted: at 10-04-2012 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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i'd advice u stop helpin and borrowin for now,,,,spend less,and above all go n see ur pastor tell him/her ur ordeals so that he will pray for u n mk sure u pray hard..GOD LL C U TRU Posted: at 10-04-2012 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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sexyBishop at 10-04-2012 01:52 PM (13 years ago) (m) Row, row, row your boat, Gently down the stream. Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily, Life is but a dream. Singing...and wakaring. No vex @ poster, dis matta big pass me.  my love i been wun fez 4 u but as i see ur prity face i cool down anyway u talk true the matter pass u lets leve mtter for matryas Posted: at 10-04-2012 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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sexyBishop at 10-04-2012 01:53 PM (13 years ago) (m) just stop by to smoke weed ...but spend as u earn hope in God he will see u true Posted: at 10-04-2012 01:53 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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hardonsky at 10-04-2012 01:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) WHY IS EVERYONE CALLING GOD ON THIS MATTER. GOD HAS DONE JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING FOR THIS GUY. A DECENT JOB , WIFE KIDS, RELATIVES. AND YOU HEAR HIM SAY HE DOESN'T WOMANIZE/DRINK. GUY, ITS GOOD YOU ASKED FOR ADVISE... THE BIBLE SAYS MY PEOPLE PERISH FOR LACK OF. KNOWLEDGE. . WHAT TO DO :GO AND READ THE "THE RICHEST MAN IN BABYLON" TO START WITH..START A SAVINGS SCHEME THAT DEDUCTS PART OF YOUR EARNINGS AT SOURCE OR WRITE POST DATED CHEQUES. THERE ARE BANKS FIXED DEPOSITS ,INSURANCE, COOPERATIVE SOCIETIES THAT DO THIS. YOU SAVE AND WITHDRAW SAVINGS ONCE A YEAR. DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO SAVE 200K PER MONTH. AT THE END OF THE FIRST YEAR YOU'LL HAVE 2.4M, PAY YOUR DEBTS AND HOUSE RENT...READ INVESTMENT AND MANAGEMENT BOOKS, INVEST,MANAGE. EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO SUCCEED GOD HAS ALREADY PROVIDED Posted: at 10-04-2012 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Hey man if it is true thing you said here, then know it clearly that you have a spiritual problem, then look for a very nice living church near u please before looking for church or man of God to pray for u first of all pray that God will direct u to a real one not false one pls, then go there and prayer will be made for u , make sure you don't eat God own money i mean ur tithes is your financial power God will see u through as u do so in JESUS NAME AMEN! take heart u r very poor in spirit wake up guy. Posted: at 10-04-2012 02:15 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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SWORDMAN at 10-04-2012 02:41 PM (13 years ago) (m) learn to pay Ur tithe.10 percent of Ur total income Posted: at 10-04-2012 02:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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OYA REPHRASE!!! Posted: at 10-04-2012 02:43 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Diamond4u at 10-04-2012 02:54 PM (13 years ago) (m) my dear brother, is ONLY prayer can solve ur problem. don't gv up continue to pray until something happen Posted: at 10-04-2012 02:54 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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youngk at 10-04-2012 03:07 PM (13 years ago) (m) i will just pass Posted: at 10-04-2012 03:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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verah at 10-04-2012 03:37 PM (13 years ago) (f) wetin i for talk ?  d guy nids deliverance
IF U TINK D DEVIL IS A LIAR, THEN LET A GUY LIE TO U AND U WILL KNW DAT D DEVIL IS A LEANER ........ Posted: at 10-04-2012 03:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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daddison at 10-04-2012 03:42 PM (13 years ago) (m) Blame your papa, his blood runs in your vein! Posted: at 10-04-2012 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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