4 Reasons Why Women Fear Intimacy

Date: 23-05-2012 5:36 pm (12 years ago) | Author: psalmmy
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- at 23-05-2012 05:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Although almost everyone brings some emotional baggage to a new relationship; however, one of the most common though least talked-about issues is a woman’s fear of intimacy. If you believe despite having an otherwise satisfying relationship, your girlfriend is somewhat apprehensive about coming close to you, here are four reasons why women fear of intimacy.
 
1. She has a poor body image

Every woman has an issue with some part of her body, such as her stomach, butt, wide hips or Bosom s; however, she may feel victimized by her own body and think that you will judge her imperfect body as harshly as she does. If she is self-conscious about certain body parts, and you happen to love them, tell her so often. Eventually, she’ll feel less self-conscious and will let you take a closer look.

2. She’s inexperienced in the bedroom

Although many of today’s women have enough experience to hold their own in the bedroom, there are still some women who don’t have much or any experience when it comes to lovemaking. Even if she’s not a virgin (yes, they do still exist), she may have only had one partner or a couple of short-lived relationships and the thought of being with someone completely new may scare her. Whatever the case, awaken her segxwality slowly and do all the sensual things way before you even think about engaging in the ultimate act of love.

3. She suffers from a broken heart

A woman could also be hesitant to give her heart away if it has recently been broken. Intimacy is synonymous with pain, and if her last boyfriend didn’t treat her properly or cheated on her, she’s probably in self-protect mode and only a great guy who she feels is trustworthy and not out to hurt her will be able to snap her out of it.

4. She has a traumatic past

Past dysfunctional relationships and romantic disasters may have also contributed to her lack of confidence and intimacy. An inability to open up may also stem from deeper, more serious wounds. For instance, a victim of domestic violence or segxwal abuse may experience an aversion to closeness with men that is difficult to overcome. Under such circumstances, you need to check your segxwal advances and wait for girlfriend to heal herself before she can be comfortable with you in an intimate setting.

Posted: at 23-05-2012 05:36 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- interpo77 at 23-05-2012 06:11 PM (12 years ago)
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mostly the first point, all those fat guls would not keep confortable while doing it with u  with light on, they would say ,,,pls off the light,,,,,,,,,,,, Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 23-05-2012 06:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Sophyrocks at 23-05-2012 06:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Dey r all true.

Posted: at 23-05-2012 06:29 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mizcollins1 at 23-05-2012 06:33 PM (12 years ago)
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nice1
Posted: at 23-05-2012 06:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- toibeli at 23-05-2012 06:47 PM (12 years ago)
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I agree with you wholeheartedly.
Posted: at 23-05-2012 06:47 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- queenrukky at 23-05-2012 06:53 PM (12 years ago)
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kul
Posted: at 23-05-2012 06:53 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- babydesire at 23-05-2012 07:03 PM (12 years ago)
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OK
Posted: at 23-05-2012 07:03 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Solidstonez at 23-05-2012 07:24 PM (12 years ago)
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NICE ONE

Posted: at 23-05-2012 07:24 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jossy4reall at 23-05-2012 07:44 PM (12 years ago)
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una dey try ooo...... I hail una

Posted: at 23-05-2012 07:44 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- mickky21 at 23-05-2012 08:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Poster you gather experience for sex matter ooohhh, lecturer go fit u. anyway i agree with u
Posted: at 23-05-2012 08:00 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Beauti4 at 23-05-2012 08:03 PM (12 years ago)
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The same thing goes to the men. If their thin is too small
Posted: at 23-05-2012 08:03 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- mallorca at 23-05-2012 08:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on 23-05-2012 07:44 PM
una dey try ooo...... I hail una

Posted: at 23-05-2012 08:06 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 1daful at 23-05-2012 08:12 PM (12 years ago)
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i feel you.

Posted: at 23-05-2012 08:12 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ray1234 at 23-05-2012 08:45 PM (12 years ago)
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True Talk
Posted: at 23-05-2012 08:45 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Senegal at 23-05-2012 09:02 PM (12 years ago)
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NICE ONE
Posted: at 23-05-2012 09:02 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 23-05-2012 09:05 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 23-05-2012 08:03 PM
The same thing goes to the men. If their thin is too small

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 23-05-2012 09:05 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 23-05-2012 09:17 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin why are u raghing?
Posted: at 23-05-2012 09:17 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 23-05-2012 09:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Grin Grin i neva laff finish..i dey com
Posted: at 23-05-2012 09:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- hody081 at 23-05-2012 09:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Mr Love
Posted: at 23-05-2012 09:39 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Beauti4 at 23-05-2012 10:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 23-05-2012 09:30 PM
Grin Grin i neva laff finish..i dey com

 Grin Grin plz come make u finish d raghing...
Posted: at 23-05-2012 10:09 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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