I Need Your Help: My wife just deleted her name from my phone.

Date: 27-06-2012 1:59 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Emmanuel Tawah
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- at 27-06-2012 01:59 PM (11 years ago)
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My wife just deleted her name from my phone.



Reasons: she entered mine in her phone as "My Love" whereas I entered her as "Solange" which is her name.

Honestly, I see nothing special in those lovy-lovy pet names. I am faithful not for her sake but for the fear of the Lord!
Since she did that over two weeks ago, I have not replaced it with any other name.

This is serious, not the usual play-play issues!

Is there any special meaning in pet names?

Posted: at 27-06-2012 01:59 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- elton at 27-06-2012 02:04 PM (11 years ago)
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just live it that way and don't feel sorry for it

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:04 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Emmandazie at 27-06-2012 02:08 PM (11 years ago)
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@elton, don't get you right, just leave it without a name? Sorry over???
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:08 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- giftmurphy at 27-06-2012 02:12 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 27-06-2012 01:59 PM
My wife just deleted her name from my phone.

Reasons: she entered mine in her phone as "My Love" whereas I entered her as "Solange" which is her name.

Honestly, I see nothing special in those lovy-lovy pet names. I am faithful not for her sake but for the fear of the Lord!
Since she did that over two weeks ago, I have not replaced it with any other name.

This is serious, not the usual play-play issues!

Is there any special meaning in pet names?
give her a pet name,some women feel loved callin her d unique pet name.. Roll Eyes
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:12 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 27-06-2012 02:14 PM (11 years ago)
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Common...call her sweetie..it not a big deal

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:14 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Emmandazie at 27-06-2012 02:16 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 27-06-2012 02:14 PM
Common...call her sweetie..it not a big deal

No big deal either calling sweetie or sweetest & keeping extra relations!
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:16 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wandepope at 27-06-2012 02:18 PM (11 years ago)
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IF calling her a pet name will make her happy i think you  better do it and preserve your marriage.Infact as her her name is SOLANGE maybe cut the name and add something sweet to the other part...i know you understand.
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:18 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Emmandazie at 27-06-2012 02:19 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 27-06-2012 02:12 PM
give her a pet name,some women feel loved callin her d unique pet name.. Roll Eyes

Pet name?Huh??hien, I once called a lady- the one I loved before marriage "Honey" but she showed me pepper!
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:19 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 27-06-2012 02:21 PM (11 years ago)
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U are just be sting or should I say ...u not really such about your feels for her...
First of all ...she called u darling or whatever pet name..but u do love when she doesn't call u by your name?

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:21 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- globala at 27-06-2012 02:22 PM (11 years ago)
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please face front cuz am naked!

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:22 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Emmandazie at 27-06-2012 02:22 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: wandepope on 27-06-2012 02:18 PM
IF calling her a pet name will make her happy i think you  better do it and preserve your marriage.Infact as her her name is SOLANGE maybe cut the name and add something sweet to the other part...i know you understand.

Can't she also make me happy by taking things as they are? I had that name in my phone ever since before marriage, why did she not complain about it then?
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:22 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 27-06-2012 02:22 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 27-06-2012 01:59 PM
My wife just deleted her name from my phone.

Reasons: she entered mine in her phone as "My Love" whereas I entered her as "Solange" which is her name.

Honestly, I see nothing special in those lovy-lovy pet names. I am faithful not for her sake but for the fear of the Lord!
Since she did that over two weeks ago, I have not replaced it with any other name.

This is serious, not the usual play-play issues!

Is there any special meaning in pet names?

Using a pet name is a sweet sentiment, no matter how silly, weird or abstract the name is.  Cos to her its a sign that the two of you have a very healthy and strong relationship. Emma go apologize to her now..and use Cuppycake,strawberry,or even Jollof Rice.. or sweet mango baby  Grin

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:22 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 27-06-2012 02:24 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: wandepope on 27-06-2012 02:18 PM
IF calling her a pet name will make her happy i think you  better do it and preserve your marriage.Infact as her her name is SOLANGE maybe cut the name and add something sweet to the other part...i know you understand.

yeah.. like Lange  Grin Grin Grin Grin lange lange baby.. Langy  Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:24 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Emmandazie at 27-06-2012 02:26 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 27-06-2012 02:21 PM
U are just be sting or should I say ...u not really such about your feels for her...
First of all ...she called u darling or whatever pet name..but u do love when she doesn't call u by your name?

It means nothing to me, call me Emma, honey, bitter kola etc changes nothing in my sentiments. She choosed a name for herself and I choosed mine, why wahala now?Huh??
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:26 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 27-06-2012 02:26 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: elton on 27-06-2012 02:04 PM
just live it that way and don't feel sorry for it

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:26 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 27-06-2012 02:29 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: wandepope on 27-06-2012 02:18 PM
IF calling her a pet name will make her happy i think you  better do it and preserve your marriage.Infact as her her name is SOLANGE maybe cut the name and add something sweet to the other part...i know you understand.
of course e doesnt
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:29 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 27-06-2012 02:31 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 27-06-2012 02:22 PM
Using a pet name is a sweet sentiment, no matter how silly, weird or abstract the name is.  Cos to her its a sign that the two of you have a very healthy and strong relationship. Emma go apologize to her now..and use Cuppycake,strawberry,or even Jollof Rice.. or sweet mango baby  Grin

Na name go keep marriage intact? I fit apologize call am the sweetest of names but start cheat na?
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:31 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- elton at 27-06-2012 02:35 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 27-06-2012 02:26 PM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

NWA TEACHER  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:35 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- wandepope at 27-06-2012 02:37 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 27-06-2012 02:22 PM
Can't she also make me happy by taking things as they are? I had that name in my phone ever since before marriage, why did she not complain about it then?

oh My friend,i think you need to be a bit flexible...ok,lets be rational about this,
1.count the number of times that your wife went out of her way to please you and count the number of times you've done the same for her.
2.Ask yourself "IF I WAS THE ON DEMANDING FOR THIS PET NAME WOULD SHE DESPISE MY DESIRE"?

marriage has sacrifices,sometimes no matter how much one tries not to be demanding that effort only makes him more demanding.
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:37 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- wandepope at 27-06-2012 02:39 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 27-06-2012 02:29 PM
of course e doesnt

Who told you it doesnt?
Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:39 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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