what do i do?

Date: 09-07-2012 9:13 am (11 years ago) | Author: Pauline Akpa
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- at 9-07-2012 09:13 AM (11 years ago)
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Am in relationship wit dis guy but we often disagree about matters that i personally think could be overlook or should not cause problems. For example after a long day, we are talking and den i fall asleep he gets very angry that i don't love him den he brings up lot of stuff am not concerned bout hez work that wen i show concern its outa convinience and am asking to fufil all righteousness. Am tired of this it happens so often lyk evry 2 days.wen he complains i appologise bt it mks matters worse cos he wud say am throwing the sorry at his face, if we finally settle d nxt tym it happens he wud kip bringing up tins in d past and it kud take hours,he wud kip pointing out my rongs d conversation jst neva ends,it gets very boring and annoying . I dnt know what to do am so confused and I love him. Please help


Posted: at 9-07-2012 09:13 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- sophiebaby at 9-07-2012 09:50 AM (11 years ago)
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Just try ur possible Best to make him happy or rather please Him always

Posted: at 9-07-2012 09:50 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Adikpe at 9-07-2012 09:58 AM (11 years ago)
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for any relationship to work, the two parties must learn how to communicate tolerate and one another and some sacrifices will have to be made too, show him that you love not by jst saying it but acting it also. love is better shown by doing rather than saying it. Best of luck.
Posted: at 9-07-2012 09:58 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 9-07-2012 10:01 AM (11 years ago)
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i mean to say: and tolerate one another
Posted: at 9-07-2012 10:01 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 9-07-2012 10:02 AM (11 years ago)
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 Cool

Posted: at 9-07-2012 10:02 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Idbabe at 9-07-2012 10:32 AM (11 years ago)
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Sit him down and speak out ur mind.  If he does not change then give him chance for some months, if he comes back he must hv been a changed person.  On your own part work on every areas u think could offend him.  But if every area is taken k of and he still never change, i would rada advice u walk out, a broken courtship they say, its beta than a broken marriage.  The choice is yours, take ur stand
Posted: at 9-07-2012 10:32 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-07-2012 10:36 AM (11 years ago)
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 Cool weldone counselor

Posted: at 9-07-2012 10:36 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- solojaro at 9-07-2012 10:54 AM (11 years ago)
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The chioce is yours. But if where the one, I will give him chance for some time.
Posted: at 9-07-2012 10:54 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- franel at 9-07-2012 11:13 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on  9-07-2012 09:58 AM
for any relationship to work, the two parties must learn how to communicate tolerate and one another and some sacrifices will have to be made too, show him that you love not by jst saying it but acting it also. love is better shown by doing rather than saying it. Best of luck.

true. in fact this is the best time to show more love to him by doing things he never dreamt of be it in his absent or present.
I will pause here cos I dont know the level/extent of your relationship. There is something he is likely hiding from you and if you keep on pampering him, you will surely find a way out in solving your problem

Posted: at 9-07-2012 11:13 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- tresRuby at 9-07-2012 11:29 AM (11 years ago)
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Tnxs a lot guys. every word means so much to me.I'd do wot U̶̲̥̅̊ guys av suggested. After today's argument  he said we shud take 3 days off to pray nd tink about our problems, it wud be hard bt we wud try.
Posted: at 9-07-2012 11:29 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- franel at 9-07-2012 11:41 AM (11 years ago)
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you are welcome

Posted: at 9-07-2012 11:41 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 9-07-2012 11:41 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on  9-07-2012 10:32 AM
Sit him down and speak out ur mind.  If he does not change then give him chance for some months, if he comes back he must hv been a changed person.  On your own part work on every areas u think could offend him.  But if every area is taken k of and he still never change, i would rada advice u walk out, a broken courtship they say, its beta than a broken marriage.  The choice is yours, take ur stand

Good one Wink

Posted: at 9-07-2012 11:41 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Sophyrocks at 9-07-2012 12:15 PM (11 years ago)
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4rm wat u jst said,it seems d more u do more 2 please n assure him,d more he nags. Dere r guys dat r lyk dat. Alwys naggin. U guys both hav communicatn probs. He on d oda hand has insecurity issues n he is also d naggin n unappreciative type. He's actin lyk a woman.Sit him down wen he's in a gud mood n tel him exactly hw u feel wen he nags.give him somtym alone bcos he has askd 4 it jst as odas hav said. If tins remain d same,den its obvious u both r nt compatible at all. U got 2 move on wit ur lyf. U cnt kill urself. Uve got only 1 lyf 2 live.Lyf goes on.

Posted: at 9-07-2012 12:15 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- zoe61 at 9-07-2012 12:18 PM (11 years ago)
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2 wrong does not make it right, try to let him know how u feel, before u know what to do,
Posted: at 9-07-2012 12:18 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- jamesbondchick at 9-07-2012 12:57 PM (11 years ago)
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Hmmmm ok o!

Posted: at 9-07-2012 12:57 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- naturalqueen at 9-07-2012 01:23 PM (11 years ago)
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Whwn u do ur best, and it is not good enough, Life continues.
Posted: at 9-07-2012 01:23 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aso4life1 at 9-07-2012 01:34 PM (11 years ago)
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Be subjective first then he should understand he is behaving wrongly to you and that will make him treat you better,

Posted: at 9-07-2012 01:34 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- aso4life1 at 9-07-2012 01:36 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: aso4life1 on  9-07-2012 01:34 PM
Be subjective first then he should understand he is behaving wrongly to you and that will make him treat you better,

sorry for my Oyinbo catastrophe I wanted to say, it's not me, it's the problems going on in Naija " be submissive"

Posted: at 9-07-2012 01:36 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- ifye2012 at 9-07-2012 01:40 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Sophyrocks on  9-07-2012 12:15 PM
4rm wat u jst said,it seems d more u do more 2 please n assure him,d more he nags. Dere r guys dat r lyk dat. Alwys naggin. U guys both hav communicatn probs. He on d oda hand has insecurity issues n he is also d naggin n unappreciative type. He's actin lyk a woman.Sit him down wen he's in a gud mood n tel him exactly hw u feel wen he nags.give him somtym alone bcos he has askd 4 it jst as odas hav said. If tins remain d same,den its obvious u both r nt compatible at all. U got 2 move on wit ur lyf. U cnt kill urself. Uve got only 1 lyf 2 live.Lyf goes on.


RIGHT POINT YOU SAID
Posted: at 9-07-2012 01:40 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- ifye2012 at 9-07-2012 01:51 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on  9-07-2012 10:32 AM
Sit him down and speak out ur mind.  If he does not change then give him chance for some months, if he comes back he must hv been a changed person.  On your own part work on every areas u think could offend him.  But if every area is taken k of and he still never change, i would rada advice u walk out, a broken courtship they say, its beta than a broken marriage.  The choice is yours, take ur stand

YOU SOUND TO BE A GOOD WIFE MATERIAL !!! WELL SAID OF YOU
Posted: at 9-07-2012 01:51 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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