What are the differences

12 years ago by: Yemi A.
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-- (m) at 3-04-2008 07:17PM

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From my experience her in the US, and the way I see Niaja women....this is a question to the naija honeys wey dey for here....what do you think the differences are between Akata women and Nigerian Women...ladies pls reply......Vixen I gotta hear from you cos I know u gon have an opinion about this and myragonza too..... Wink
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-- ugodaniels (m) at 3-04-2008 09:35PM
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Am i in the wrong room. are only girls expected to reply...brb Roll Eyes

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-- majr2675 (m) at 3-04-2008 09:53PM
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Oh and did I mention....guys are welcome to comment to, so Ugodaniels go ahead man and drop me a line
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-- ugodaniels (m) at 3-04-2008 10:01PM
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First i need a definition of Akata. I'm not in the states, i'm in england so my view of them might be different from yours there. Assumind we share same view of wat akata means, then i see ONLY a very thin liine separating akata women and nigerian women. They've both got a lot in common than difference. for instance, a typical Nigerian woman LOVES MONEY!!! in teh broadest sense of the word!...brb Cool

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-- at 3-04-2008 10:54PM
Akata women are brought up differently from nigerians, meaning their views on certain things varies.
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-- majr2675 (m) at 4-04-2008 05:17AM
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Ugo.....I agree that they are a little similar, however they still got they differences...that $$$ boy is hard to resist by Nigerian women. I tend to think that a Nigerian woman, would handle a Nigerian woman better than an Akata woman would.....everyone got an opinion though
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-- myragonza (f) at 4-04-2008 10:34AM
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Nigerian women have roots and traditions....Akata women don't....Akata women don't respect elders especially their husbands...

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-- majr2675 (m) at 4-04-2008 08:53PM
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myra ........ U got a point ...... to Akata people or America in general....men tend to dispensable or these villains that society has made them to be...especially black men...well that's what I think.
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-- Vixenx (f) at 4-04-2008 09:10PM
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WHOA!! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Well the difference is that Nigerian women are much more respective and hardworking and will struggle to get theirs. While American women will rather sit or stand in government lines for free handouts.. social securities and section 8 housing assistance. They have no disciplinary guidelines for their children or whatsoever. They let their children run all over and disrespect them, you will never see that with a Nigerian woman. I know what i'm talking about cause all my friends are akatas(remember that there ain't naija's round here)..so thats my excuse..lol..But anyways, and we are more involved with our children's education than they are too. In fact, there are so many to list. Grin
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-- myragonza (f) at 7-04-2008 04:44AM
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and akatas don't have that family bonding that naija have....

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-- Vixenx (f) at 8-04-2008 02:19AM
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yeah that too..infact, you can never compare akatas to Nigerian women.
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-- 2HT2TCH (f) at 8-04-2008 02:29AM
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yep...but i think the reason naija women are persived to lobve money is because we need security. we feel the most tangible form of this security is money. plus we deserve to be appriciated for the hard work we do n all.naija men arent big on showing affection so we turn to the money. plus akata boys are better lovers.
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-- myragonza (f) at 8-04-2008 03:59AM
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well as for me,i prefer naija guys than Akatas...Yes they are better lovers and stuffs but i also need a kind of family bonding and i want a man who regard my family especially my parents.... Undecided

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-- Vixenx (f) at 8-04-2008 11:56AM
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see i would choose a naija guy too, but ya know the story. Lips Sealed
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-- ugodaniels (m) at 8-04-2008 02:35PM
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wats da story again..vixen Cool

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-- Vixenx (f) at 8-04-2008 07:53PM
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addicted to something because of its size..humongous Grin
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-- 2HT2TCH (f) at 9-04-2008 02:46AM
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ill never marry an akata guy(well maybe),but ...
vixen knows best Wink
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-- lucabracci (m) at 9-04-2008 04:21AM
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i think akata are more unhibited in everything...myra/vixen ;)and also they dont have the moral or family hang ups like nigerian girls making them take some decisions whitout giving two potatoes  what the guy's family or what people ll think of it our nigerian gurls no matter the fronting  are not only fyne are morally upright and u ll get a nigerian gurl thinking of what this or that will think of her before taking any action and most nigerian girls no matter where they are will rather marry naija than any other tribe..abeg u r too much my naija sistuhs Smiley
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-- myragonza (f) at 9-04-2008 07:31AM
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Quote from: lucabracci on  9-04-2008 04:21AM
i think akata are more unhibited in everything...myra/vixen ;)and also they dont have the moral or family hang ups like nigerian girls making them take some decisions whitout giving two potatoes  what the guy's family or what people ll think of it our nigerian gurls no matter the fronting  are not only fyne are morally upright and u ll get a nigerian gurl thinking of what this or that will think of her before taking any action and most nigerian girls no matter where they are will rather marry naija than any other tribe..abeg u r too much my naija sistuhs Smiley


i am not akata abeg... Sad

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-- ugodaniels (m) at 9-04-2008 08:04PM
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myra is not akata ooo...vixen too Cheesy

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