Is it prudent to monitor your partner phone/ (Page 3)

Date: 07-04-2009 10:00 am (16 years ago) | Author: Emmett
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- herdeysohjy at 13-04-2009 11:13 AM (16 years ago)
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huh Huh?Huh?
Posted: at 13-04-2009 11:13 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tsega at 13-04-2009 12:24 PM (16 years ago)
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why askin questions u know the answers to?

u dont check nes phones....its like wearing my boxers or usin my shaving stick.....its like goin into my personal life


..thats sickening
Posted: at 13-04-2009 12:24 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- luvvy at 13-04-2009 12:32 PM (16 years ago)
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hope no prob? wat is going on here?
Posted: at 13-04-2009 12:32 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- darkocean002 at 13-04-2009 01:19 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on  7-04-2009 10:32 AM
If you trust your man/lady I don't see any need for any one to be monitoring each other.
There is a saying that says " WHERE THERE IS LOVE THERE IS TRUST" even though alot of people does not believe in  this common saying. But is has a deep meaning.
Coming to what is hapening around us today.... Alot of guys and girls are more interested in looking for faults to dump their gf's or bf's so they go to the extreme in monitoring their man/lady just to find a fault . Aways keep your ears to the ground to know when he/she is cheating on you.

To a point, you are right, but i total disagree to be careless in a relationship. i'll check her cell phone one or two times atleast to know what's going on with her, it might be for cheating purpose alone.. If you refuse to water a rose simply cos it looks beautiful,u might lose it.. Human will remain Human..
Posted: at 13-04-2009 01:19 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Rify at 13-04-2009 01:21 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Percific on  7-04-2009 10:00 AM
Has cellular phone caused your relationship any damage and is it prudent to monitor your partner phone?

Dnt say monitor..........But there is nothing wrong in going thru the fone but not like monitoring ooooooooooooooooo

Posted: at 13-04-2009 01:21 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- darkocean002 at 13-04-2009 01:32 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Rify on 13-04-2009 01:21 PM
Quote from: Percific on  7-04-2009 10:00 AM
Has cellular phone caused your relationship any damage and is it prudent to monitor your partner phone?

Dnt say monitor..........But there is nothing wrong in going thru the fone but not like monitoring ooooooooooooooooo

beign carefull is accepted
Posted: at 13-04-2009 01:32 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mumde at 13-04-2009 01:47 PM (16 years ago)
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Not monitoring as such, there is no problem in having a look at whats in your partner's phone.If partners are faithful to each other, none of them will have a problem with that unless.However respect is important. Cheesy
Posted: at 13-04-2009 01:47 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- atese at 13-04-2009 02:52 PM (16 years ago)
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well. . . . see no evil Grin, hear no evil Grin, cause no trouble Lips Sealed nd lyf goes on Smiley.
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:52 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- d_man at 13-04-2009 03:46 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Percific on  7-04-2009 10:00 AM
Has cellular phone caused your relationship any damage and is it prudent to monitor your partner phone?
no its not
its a sign of insecurity and distrust!!..bad news for a relationship

Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:46 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Rify at 13-04-2009 03:50 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: darkocean002 on 13-04-2009 01:32 PM
Quote from: Rify on 13-04-2009 01:21 PM
Quote from: Percific on  7-04-2009 10:00 AM
Has cellular phone caused your relationship any damage and is it prudent to monitor your partner phone?

Dnt say monitor..........But there is nothing wrong in going thru the fone but not like monitoring ooooooooooooooooo

beign carefull is accepted

Of course u have to be careful

Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:50 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 13-04-2009 03:57 PM (16 years ago)
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If yu don't have anything to hide, why would yu be worried about her/him going thru yur Fone?

If yur Partner can't go thru yur fone, then he or she shouldn't bother dating yu, cos l'm sure yu wouldn't mind if an Ordinary friend of yurs goes thru it

Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:57 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Rify at 13-04-2009 04:03 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 13-04-2009 03:57 PM
If yu don't have anything to hide, why would yu be worried about her/him going thru yur Fone?

If yur Partner can't go thru yur fone, then he or she shouldn't bother dating yu, cos l'm sure yu wouldn't mind if an Ordinary friend of yurs goes thru it

Correct boy Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 13-04-2009 04:03 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 13-04-2009 04:07 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Rify on 13-04-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 13-04-2009 03:57 PM
If yu don't have anything to hide, why would yu be worried about her/him going thru yur Fone?

If yur Partner can't go thru yur fone, then he or she shouldn't bother dating yu, cos l'm sure yu wouldn't mind if an Ordinary friend of yurs goes thru it

Correct boy Grin Grin Grin
Grin Grin Cheesy

Posted: at 13-04-2009 04:07 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- d_man at 13-04-2009 04:20 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 13-04-2009 03:57 PM
If yu don't have anything to hide, why would yu be worried about her/him going thru yur Fone?

If yur Partner can't go thru yur fone, then he or she shouldn't bother dating yu, cos l'm sure yu wouldn't mind if an Ordinary friend of yurs goes thru it
dats different from monitoring!
ur fone rings and she wants to pick it up
u get an sms and she wants to read it first
u receiving a call and she wants to listen in
..mehn even if u have nothing to hides its still irritating..nobody likes to stalked or not trusted...expecially by ur partner!

Posted: at 13-04-2009 04:20 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 13-04-2009 04:43 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Rify on 13-04-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 13-04-2009 03:57 PM
If yu don't have anything to hide, why would yu be worried about her/him going thru yur Fone?

If yur Partner can't go thru yur fone, then he or she shouldn't bother dating yu, cos l'm sure yu wouldn't mind if an Ordinary friend of yurs goes thru it

Correct boy Grin Grin Grin

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Na yu know

Posted: at 13-04-2009 04:43 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 13-04-2009 04:44 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: d_man on 13-04-2009 04:20 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 13-04-2009 03:57 PM
If yu don't have anything to hide, why would yu be worried about her/him going thru yur Fone?

If yur Partner can't go thru yur fone, then he or she shouldn't bother dating yu, cos l'm sure yu wouldn't mind if an Ordinary friend of yurs goes thru it
dats different from monitoring!
ur fone rings and she wants to pick it up
u get an sms and she wants to read it first
u receiving a call and she wants to listen in
..mehn even if u have nothing to hides its still irritating..nobody likes to stalked or not trusted...expecially by ur partner!

Well... Depends on what point of view yu're seeing it from

Posted: at 13-04-2009 04:44 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Recoverd at 13-04-2009 05:26 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: exhale on  8-04-2009 12:52 AM
Quote from: Percific on  7-04-2009 10:00 AM
Has cellular phone caused your relationship any damage and is it prudent to monitor your partner phone?
i wont monitor his so he dosent monitor mine Grin......ooooook  if u gonna do it...abeg be discreet abt it lol
  thank you.  Grin
Posted: at 13-04-2009 05:26 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Rify at 13-04-2009 05:50 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 13-04-2009 04:43 PM
Quote from: Rify on 13-04-2009 04:03 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 13-04-2009 03:57 PM
If yu don't have anything to hide, why would yu be worried about her/him going thru yur Fone?

If yur Partner can't go thru yur fone, then he or she shouldn't bother dating yu, cos l'm sure yu wouldn't mind if an Ordinary friend of yurs goes thru it

Correct boy Grin Grin Grin

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Na yu know
Na me suppose know b4 naa Wink Wink Wink

Posted: at 13-04-2009 05:50 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Uche_dede at 13-04-2009 08:48 PM (16 years ago)
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I think trust is very very important in every relationship !! when one start mornitoring the fon of the other means  ...trust is missing and any relationship where trust is missing is bound to break up !!!

The Germans use to say " was mann nicht weiss, macht mann nicht heiss "" meaning  something one does not know, one don`t worry about it . So TRUST IS THE KEY
Posted: at 13-04-2009 08:48 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- itmomoh at 14-04-2009 08:52 AM (16 years ago)
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well for me i don't c any problem wit my gf checkin my fone, infant i feel comfortable wen she check my fone, d tin is dat i don't have secrets. u can only b scard wen u ve secrets to hide, i do at times check her fone but i kn, she always delete her sms b4 i lay hands on her fone. lik wat most pple will say "wat u don't kn wldn't hurt u"
Posted: at 14-04-2009 08:52 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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