Top Reasons Why Women Date Older Men

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The look of love is cast differently from one person to the next and, sometimes, a woman’s eyes land on a charming guy a few years her senior. If you are her age, it might seem a bit odd for you to understand why she goes for the gray hair but, after reading this list of the top reasons why women date older men, you might be able to see why they do it. For younger guys, this list can be a lifesaver you could figure out what it really takes to win the girl you have had your eye on  Grin
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* Confidence and Stability
No matter how you slice it, women are attracted to an air of self-belief that makes a man seem impenetrable.  Older men, having been through a bit more than their younger counterparts, carry themselves in an assured manner.  The confidence is no longer fake, guys who have been around a while are more comfortable in their skin, which helps women feel more relaxed around them.

* Financial Security
Money isn’t everything, but the fact an older guy often has a solid career will bring women in by the boatloads. Cool  Sad as it is, the men who are in the first few years out of college are often the ones who end up trampled on when a company decides to go in a different direction.  The illusion of a steady paycheck is much stronger when a man has been working for the same company for a decade or more.  Ultimately, that sort of reliability draws on a woman’s need to feel she and her children (if she wants to have some) will be provided for no matter what.

* Intellect Impresses
If you’re a younger guy, chances are you are not dumb.  That said, you probably haven’t figured out how to sound smart just yet, either.  One of the reasons why women date older men, strange as it may seem, is the fact guys seem to get more intelligent as time passes.  This might be due to reading more books or just being around other sharp minds, but your average twenty-something is often way outpaced by a forty-something when it comes to wisdom.  Ladies like to have deep conversations  that’s no real shocker  and there’s a better chance they’ll find it with an older man.



* Romance Comes to the Fore
Though you are probably pretty smooth, it’s just a matter of fact that older men have a better feel for those moments that make a woman’s heart sing  Cool Cool  Grin.  While you are out finding a beautiful bouquet of flowers, he’s looking for a quiet nature trail where the birds sing.  As you plan an evening at the most expensive restaurant in town, he’s preparing a quiet dinner for two at home while the sun sets.  These are small cues, yet they make a real impression.

* Expects Something Different
Look, let’s be honest, younger guys are well-known for the tendency to be controlled by their hormones instead of their brains  Tongue.  Jumping from woman to woman isn’t uncommon and, frankly, the gals get tired of waiting for your attention span to fade.  An older man, because he values the connection more, is frequently looking to let a relationship develop naturally.  He is more at ease emotionally, hoping for a partner that complements him instead of a flash-in-the-pan attraction.

* Fewer Games – If Any at All
Men and women have long known the thrill of the chase is part of dating.  The cat-and-mouse game of calling first, playing hard-but-not-too-hard to get and so forth is a hallmark of the courtship process.  Older men are less likely to attempt to seem distant in order to make a woman beg them for affection.  Because he has been to the well a few times, he knows exactly what he wants to get.  He won’t waste his time or hers along the way.

* Support and Affection Come First  Grin  Tongue
Mature relationships allow two people to grow together and as individuals, something that an older guy will know far better than the average younger man will.  The price of his experience has been coming to grips with what is really important in life  how to make women happy  and putting those lessons into practice. For her, it may be the first time in her life a guy has helped her feel like she could accomplish something or called her “beautiful” instead of “sexy.”  Those subtle changes infuse her with confidence in herself, which pulls her all that much closer to him.

* More Respect  Tongue
You might feel like you have it all together when it comes to the ladies, but chances are you are still stuck in that “frat boy caveman” phase where you get caught up in lust of the eyes more often than not.  Even if you are aware women aren’t pieces of meat, you probably aren’t quite able to articulate that yet.  Older men have a knack for displaying respect in many ways man-to-man, man-to-woman, man-to-child, etc. acquired over the years.  Much like the confidence she receives from him, the respect bolsters her self-evaluation and makes her want to be with an older guy more.

* Understands the Value of Appreciation  Tongue
Humans are, by nature, incredibly social creatures.  The manner in which we communicate to each other says a lot about who we are and what we find important.  Women, who are less secure emotionally than men, require a steady diet of compliments to help them feel like everything is going well.  This could be as basic as describing why dinner was so excellent or as complex as noting the psychological effects her very presence elicits. Being more in touch with what you think and how you feel comes with age, which is why an older man is more likely to hit all the right notes when he tells her what he loves about her.  And, when those thoughts are communicated, it makes her more likely to reciprocate, which deepens the relationship.

* More Likely to Settle Down Quickly
It sounds odd to a lot of guys  he actually wants to commit?  but it’s not unheard of for women to date older men simply because they are ready to get married and have kids.  The biological clock ticks on both sides of the gender fence, guys just have a bit longer to wait before giving up.  If a woman is focused on having children, she could be more inclined to look for someone who would like to pass on his legacy sooner rather than later. Grin Grin

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malvin2525 at 12:57 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Huh?
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lee22 at 01:07 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Cool Cool
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Idbabe at 01:10 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Ok, but y is it seen as a taboo in this part of our world if a younger guy dates/marries an older babe/woman.  Is there any law against a younger man marrying an older partner?
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verah at 01:11 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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older men r more caring   Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed but young dude's r good on bed than older men   Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes  Cool

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Idbabe at 01:15 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: verah on 01:11 PM, 15/08/2012
older men r more caring   Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed but young dude's r good on bed than older men   Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes  Cool

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin naughty gal.  Buh na tru sha
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sophiebaby at 01:21 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: verah on 01:11 PM, 15/08/2012
older men r more caring   Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed but young dude's r good on bed than older men   Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes  Cool

Babes not all younger guys are good in bed.. and not all older men are Bad in bed.. 80% out of a 100% of older men are Superb in bed.. give it a try  Grin

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sophiebaby at 01:23 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: malvin2525 on 12:57 PM, 15/08/2012
Huh?

take it or leave it.. thats d fact  Tongue

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Idbabe at 01:28 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 01:21 PM, 15/08/2012
Babes not all younger guys are good in bed.. and not all older men are Bad in bed.. 80% out of a 100% of older men are Superb in bed.. give it a try  Grin

Shei na from experience or dem tell u ni? Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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adiankpo at 01:31 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Can u aloow ur daughter to date and marry a who is old enough to be her father? hmm nice article though
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sophiebaby at 01:34 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on 01:10 PM, 15/08/2012
Ok, but y is it seen as a taboo in this part of our world if a younger guy dates/marries an older babe/woman.  Is there any law against a younger man marrying an older partner?

thers no law againt such.. every relationship has a reason

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sophiebaby at 01:36 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: adiankpo on 01:31 PM, 15/08/2012
Can u aloow ur daughter to date and marry a who is old enough to be her father? hmm nice article though


Her happiness is my desire

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sophiebaby at 01:37 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on 01:28 PM, 15/08/2012
Shei na from experience or dem tell u ni? Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Experience is d best teacher..  Wink

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exever100 at 01:40 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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where are d old men @,?plz come to babe  Grin
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Idbabe at 01:41 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 01:36 PM, 15/08/2012
Her happiness is my desire

Well answered
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Neglito at 01:51 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Any gurl who likes PONKI will always go for a younger guy. She might find a way to''rob peter to pay paul''
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annastacie at 02:06 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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experience they say is the best teacher am 27 yrs old i don't have a young guy to call my own am dating a married
apart from he is helping me financially he is just like my teacher father adviser is not all about making love which
both of us do he really loves me and am finding it difficult to get hook to a younger guy because of their way of life
which is promiscuous double dating liars and so on
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sophiebaby at 02:17 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: annastacie on 02:06 PM, 15/08/2012
experience they say is the best teacher am 27 yrs old i don't have a young guy to call my own am dating a married
apart from he is helping me financially he is just like my teacher father adviser is not all about making love which
both of us do he really loves me and am finding it difficult to get hook to a younger guy because of their way of life
which is promiscuous double dating liars and so on


point 11  Cool

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sophiebaby at 02:20 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Neglito on 01:51 PM, 15/08/2012
Any gurl who likes PONKI will always go for a younger guy. She might find a way to''rob peter to pay paul''

 Grin Grin Grin Grin   Undecided

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clems4u126 at 02:47 PM, 15/08/2012 (7 years ago)
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, u gals jst av to date anybody that is 3  , 5 yrs ahead  of u, that is my own advice to u all..........
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