He that findeth. Some of you understand what that means. For the ladies who don’t get it, I'm about to break it ALL the way down for you. Believe it or not, Black men are actually saying that they can NOT find a woman in this dating environment of 12 women to ONE man. Men are actually single, good black men. Men are SEXING all over the place, but they are single. Why? Because they can’t FIND (key word FIND) a woman, a GOOD woman.
You see, men are hunters, searchers and seekers. Men love the challenge of finding hidden treasure. The reason that they can’t find you is because you’re not hidden. There is no mystic or mystery about you at all. There is nothing to “discover” or search for. Your b00bs are on the table, your butt is showing and your v*g*na is laid out on the 3re date for easy access. You can’t be found, because you don’t hide. You’re not chased, because you NEVER run. You’re not won, because you’re not the PRIZE.
I am ready for the all of you who will say that this is “playing games”. I GOT YOU, LOL.
Well, my dear…dating is a game and you are getting played. Not wanting to be “boxed” into a role, wanting to take charge, be aggressive, sex like a man, get your “NEEDS MET”…get attention by any means necessary, you are LOSING the game that you don’t want to play.
Steve Harvey said “Think Like A Man”…the common sense translation is UNDERSTAND HOW MEN THINK. Understand why in this day and time so many BLACK MEN ARE SINGLE, but getting so MUCH SEX. They don’t even have to LOOK for sex anymore, what they’re looking for is LOVE, relationship and the Michelle to their Barack. A lot of men don’t give you their “BARACK” because you act and look like LIL KIM, so you get LIL WAYNE.
A man can DOG you or love you depending on the behavior that YOU provoke. Queens, you seem to have LOST the understanding that YOU are in control. Allow a man the time to FIND out who you are before you give him access to the PRIZE. Allow him to seek, search and discover your heart, your personality, what’s under your skirt, UNDER your skirt..pull it DOWN and pull your panties UP.
For GOD’s SAKE ladies…HIDE SOMETHING. Nobody leaves their valuables lying around or on display. Put them in THE SAFE. Keep your emotions SAFE, your heart SAFE, your love is a TREASURE, your v*g*na is a treasure. Let a man SEEK and FIND YOU….The one that doesn’t SEEK is not looking for TREASURE. Trash is everywhere….let him have it… be the TREASURE !
Posted: at 11-10-2012 08:55 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
There is sense in your write-up but the problem is most men do not possess that hunter's patience and due to poverty most sisters are EVER ready to bear ''KEZIAH''
Posted: at 11-10-2012 09:15 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
The author only make 10% sense. The problem I have learned about men is that they never caution their women while dating. They are so quick to judge just becos u expect her to know everything. Well, He that findeth...is not for worldly treasure but godly eternity/treasure. So if you haven't seen God yet, you won't knw if what you r lookin 4 is hidden/not. A man can't find a wife if he did not hear a yes from God. Your wife maybe a prostitute, homeless or a dropout.
Next time they will invest in an article call. We Can't Use Umbrella Because There is No Rain
Posted: at 12-10-2012 12:36 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
Can't stop smiling....this is T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊ first time I ladies ganging up to THANK T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊ poster(please don't kill me for this ).@ poster if Ў☺ΰ я still single...brace up for impact *ROTFL*
Posted: at 12-10-2012 04:58 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
There is sense in your write-up but the problem is most men do not possess that hunter's patience and due to poverty most sisters are EVER ready to bear ''KEZIAH''