Preshpat at 26-10-2012 07:10 PM (11 years ago) (f) once the bride price is a paid,u can copulate with her at anytime,its just that this modern day women get caught up in their career and ambitions and dictate to the man when she wants to intercourse,absolute nonsense i know someone who didnt sleep with his bride for 14 years not until he had paid her dowry,once the dowry is paid, the woman becomes subject to the man
"A Woman becomes a subject to a man", REALLY? Well, depends on the lady in question.Mind you, It doesn't go down like that in some cases. Both parties should respect each other rather than subjecting................ Posted: at 26-10-2012 07:10 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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trolling at 26-10-2012 07:14 PM (11 years ago) (m) "A Woman becomes a subject to a man", REALLY? Well, depends on the lady in question.Mind you, It doesn't go down like that in some cases. Both parties should respect each other rather than subjecting................
Final word to u....and your desire shall be to your husband and he shall rule over u genesis 3:16 Posted: at 26-10-2012 07:14 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Preshpat at 26-10-2012 07:18 PM (11 years ago) (f) so when He said we should be fruitful and multiply, what happens to our body after we have done it? is He gonna be displeased with them for doing it, what happened to Hebrews 13:4
Hey! i understand where you are coming from with these questions, but first you must remember that i was making reference to a Lady's comment which did support sex in marriage.. I felt i didnt have to go over that line again...So when i said, "YOU DO IT TO PLEASE GOD", I definitely meant you keeping yourself till marriage to please GOD (cos man should be secondary to that DECISION and God first!)...And definitely, you still get to multiply and be fruitful but in MARRIAGE... Posted: at 26-10-2012 07:18 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Preshpat at 26-10-2012 07:31 PM (11 years ago) (f) Final word to u....and your desire shall be to your husband and he shall rule over u genesis 3:16
FINAL WORDS TIME..... ...........EPHESIANS 5:33.....Pls read this...But mind you, it said "LOVE YOUR WIFE AS YOURSELF...would you want to for any reason SUBJECT YOURSELF...Love her and respect her and she likewise doing same...Communicating with her and talking things over perhaps will be the way out of such a situation and not trying to subject her to your will..... Posted: at 26-10-2012 07:31 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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trolling at 26-10-2012 07:32 PM (11 years ago) (m) Hey! i understand where you are coming from with these questions, but first you must remember that i was making reference to a Lady's comment which did support sex in marriage.. I felt i didnt have to go over that line again...So when i said, "YOU DO IT TO PLEASE GOD", I definitely meant you keeping yourself till marriage to please GOD (cos man should be secondary to that DECISION and God first!)...And definitely, you still get to multiply and be fruitful but in MARRIAGE... , Posted: at 26-10-2012 07:32 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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papadip at 26-10-2012 07:51 PM (11 years ago) (m) Never, never, never and never, never and never….. Sex is part of Hierarchy of NEEDS…. Who does not like it?..... Nobody…!!! Posted: at 26-10-2012 07:51 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sanggoN22 at 27-10-2012 12:10 AM (11 years ago) (m) I have seen how far this penticostal churches has succeeded in decieving you. With all the preaching, my question is. are you a virgin and can you swear you stay 2weeks with a man, bulshit. Posted: at 27-10-2012 12:10 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Isokynase1 at 27-10-2012 02:48 AM (11 years ago) (m) My Dear, its possible, its just a matter of discipline that you can do that if the two of you just agree to stay on the Lord's side of the relationship? Posted: at 27-10-2012 02:48 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie | |
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multiple at 27-10-2012 03:09 AM (11 years ago) (m) Good to have value and uphold same. Sex b/4 marriage is really not ideal. Posted: at 27-10-2012 03:09 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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moriztuos at 27-10-2012 09:49 AM (11 years ago) (m) hahahahahaha, i no fit laugh. Sha na testimoni u jst dey testify.
hmmmmm wait till wen u like 32 dey ll come running 2 u besides which ll u prefer...no sex wiv ur bf b4 marriage but he is been serviced well outside or ve sex wiv him huh? Posted: at 27-10-2012 09:49 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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moriztuos at 27-10-2012 09:52 AM (11 years ago) (m) i agreee , no sex before marriage.
those types of relationships are extremely hard to find.It's mostly the guys that pressure the girls,and the girls so willingly gives up her virginity for love but not commitment.
this has almost happened to me, i had to dump my last boyfriend because of it.He agreeed no sex b4 marriage, but ASKED FOR 4PLAY(oral sex,and anal sex). i said no to both then he insisted if he could rub his private parts on me(Bosom and outisde my v*g*na) but not go inside my private part. I then again said no.Then one day i told him all that he was saying was a sin,and he claims to be a man of god.Yet he tells me that sex before marriage is an outdated sin,and 4play is ok its human nature.After he said that i knew i was dating a man that did not respect my value to God ,AND that he could not control his desires until after marriage.
so i left him to go find a girl who will engaged in pre marital sex with him.
i am 23 now and still a virgin,but i am now single and searching for a true man of God.
hmmmmm wait till wen u like 32 dey ll come running 2 u besides which ll u prefer...no sex wiv ur bf b4 marriage but he is been serviced well outside or ve sex wiv him huh? Posted: at 27-10-2012 09:52 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kennynaija at 27-10-2012 11:11 AM (11 years ago) (m) To be frank, IT IS NOT EASY TO SHUN, but love of GOD is the most, so abstain!!!
There is no diety worthy of worship except Allah, take it or leave it! Posted: at 27-10-2012 11:11 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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The best way to get married is just this way Posted: at 27-10-2012 07:02 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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chisparlis at 28-10-2012 01:51 AM (11 years ago) (m) NEVER TRUST A WOMAN, IF YOU HAVE THE CHANCE ENJOY SEX WITH HER NOTHING LAST FOREVER..... Posted: at 28-10-2012 01:51 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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See, it is vry simple..if u neva ready to hav sex then stay away frm relationship.
No b by force now Posted: at 28-10-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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babybluee at 28-10-2012 05:57 PM (11 years ago) (f) See, it is vry simple..if u neva ready to hav sex then stay away frm relationship.
No b by force now
you've said it all dear...
Work Hard, Play Harder, Stay Humble... Posted: at 28-10-2012 05:57 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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dlimelite at 30-10-2012 06:37 PM (11 years ago) (f) Yes its possible. Not forever but until you know it's right, if that's what matters to you. Or if you want to save it for marriage. If someone is fully committed & really loves you, he or she should love you enough to wait. If someone merely likes you, he or she isn't going to wait. It takes commitment & discipline for it to work out. Sex is a natural thing and as human beings we have urges and instincts to want to f*ck each other. If you do opt for Pre-marital sex its important to avoid any situations . Cuz premarital sex is a big problem in our generation. When many ppl arnt willing to wait. There are more risk factors in pre-marital sex as to after marriage. When women sell themself cheap to these men believing they're loved but they're later abandoned with babies. And move on they move on to the next chick to f***. You should first ask yourself if is the guy gonna be there for you in the future. If you do find a guy willing to wait, that by no means tells you that he will not break your heart or that there's is not some cryptic underlying segxwal issues on his part. Overall choice is yours Posted: at 30-10-2012 06:37 PM (11 years ago) | Hero | |
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trolling at 30-10-2012 06:59 PM (11 years ago) (m) if sex wasnt pleasurable people wouldnt multiply or fornicate, but dem don abuse am with fornication Posted: at 30-10-2012 06:59 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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pls dont make the guys the devil cuz in my case, my EX and my present gf actually demanded for it. Posted: at 4-11-2012 02:26 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie | |
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HOPEA23 at 4-11-2012 03:10 PM (11 years ago) (f) Some comments make me laugh....
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. Posted: at 4-11-2012 03:10 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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