Christian Lady marrying a muslim Guy,is it advisable please? (Page 4)

NONENTITY/NINCOMPOOP >:(THWARTED BRAT

CHRISTIAN MARRY MUSLIM MY NICE YASH

Ozu dika gi, you poverty stricken road side mechanic. go and look for job my friend, have you advice your self talk-less of telling someone what to do? morning and night you are here talking trash, how dare you talk to me with your smelling to.to licking mouth yesterday? for pass ten years now you have not do any thing to your family, and you are here advising someone on how to handle matter( coach Rafael Benitez). Ewu kan Beer, i will use to graduate to (Naijapals Hero).i dey wait you, to.to licker. like you.

U shud go and read Amos 3-3,or have u forgotten the verse in the bible that says we shudn't be "unequally yoked with unbelievers?" Wot type of children do u want to raise? Ur children will jst end up being confused as to whether to be xtians or muslims(If the guy doesn't force u to convert). Our partners shud also help us make heaven,can a muslim help u make heaven.we all know that the bible says that"Jesus is the way,the truth and the life",will ur muslim Bf or husband understand this? Ask urself all these questions.

I always enjoy your contribution,u post the way God directed u,but some people post nonsense that u can't learn from it.  in fact I learn from your post a lot. Keep it up nice quote

I once read in a book, ‘Marriages are made in heaven, but the forms are filled on earth.’ Rightly so; when we are in search of a life-partner we create virtual forms in our minds, filling out details of what we want in a partner and what we don’t. Most often than never, we prefer to go with someone who follows the same religious belief as we do so as to make life a lot easier for the two of us. Well, in spite of all our efforts to not marry a person of a different faith, we end up falling in love with someone who does not follow our religion. What’s next? Are we willing to go all out and fight the world (parents and future in-laws) convincing them that the two of us are meant for each other? Are we ready to discuss the issue with our partner on how the two of us will manage the situation once a child comes along? Yes, there are loads of questions that both individuals need to answer to themselves as well as each other and if they are willing to go the whole nine yards to make their inter-religious marriage a success.

There are advantages n disadvantages in an inter religious marriage. now what you are to look at is..What are the steps to be taken for the success of an inter-religious marriage? Before entering into a mixed faith marriage, it is imperative that the both individuals discuss various aspects of such a marriage before they enter into one. Here are a few steps they need to follow:
1. Be true to yourselves and one another: From the very onset of the relationship, it is imperative to be truthful about your religious inclinations and desires. When both individuals are firm on the option of multi-religion, that is, each one not only following their respective religion, but also participating in their spouse’s, or if they choose to form a ecumenical family, then can there be a healthy marriage. Both individuals should respect the other’s religion and remember that every religion teaches goodness and love. Once both individuals discuss which path they wish to take, then only can they approach their parents and seek the latter’s blessings for their marriage.
2. Convince parents: In many cases, individuals who are involved with someone that follows a faith different from theirs, is afraid to approach their parents for fear that their partner will be rejected. It is quite natural that parents would want their child to marry someone of their own faith as they are aware of the various inter religion marriage problems. Parents only want what is best for their children. No parent enjoys seeing their child in pain. They want to make certain that the decision you’ve taken is the right one, which is why the tantrums and buckets of tears. That time will pass. Introduce your prospective partner to your parents and allow them the opportunity to get to know him/her. Let your parents know about your future decisions as far as following a religious faith is concerned.
3. Discuss about children: An important aspect that needs to be discussed by both individuals is their children. This should be discussed before the wedding as this is one of the many inter religion marriage problems. Ask yourselves and each other:

*Do you wish to teach good values and morals to your children referring to both religions?
*Do you want your children to decide on which religion they wish to follow?
*Do you want your first child to follow their father’s religion and the second to follow their mother’s?

Take note: do not force your faith on to your prospective spouse. If they themselves want to convert to your faith, it is their decision.

There are confusions, intolerance, and also there are varieties of Inter religious marriages