Believe it or not...love and respect should go hand in hand. He is supposed to love you and you are suppose to respect him. However, too many women aren't finding love because they haven't found respect. Many things go into gaining respect from a man. Men respect the women they love. Most men do not love women they can not respect. The best way to earn respect from anyone is to respect yourself. Respect yourself and others will respect you. If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self respect will you compel others to respect you." Men respect women who love and respect themselves. Holding yourself and your life in high regard is a great way to demonstrate respect for yourself. Set high standards for yourself and do not make choices that are disrespectful to the life you want and who you want to be. Men love women who are authentic and feminine..They like to be the man and pursue. Being true to yourself and not trying to act the way you think a man wants you to act will allow a man to really respect you for who you are. Men don't need women to be like them to get respect, they need women to be like a woman. This doesn't mean you can not be an intelligent, hard-working, out-going or even participate in sports. It just means you should still be a woman in relation to men. Believe it or not, as much as men want to have sex with you, when you give in too soon, you often lose huge respect points..men need time to fall in love with you, They need to get to know you. Honesty and integrity are keys to getting respect form anyone. Never lie. A man can not respect you if he can not trust you. It is also key not to subtly lie by portraying yourself in a way that gives the wrong impression. If you are looking for a relationship, tell the truth. If he isn't looking for one, don't waste your time or his by continuing to engage with him and giving him the wrong idea. Respect is earned through your behavior.When mistakes are made, amends must be made as well. When you are acting out of love and respect for yourself and others, love and respect will be given to you, and if it isn't, just remember some men are narcissists and they can not give respect to anyone. These men should be avoided... #nametalkam#
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Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 13-05-2013 03:15 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
jossy4reall at 13-05-2013 09:48 PM (11 years ago) (m)
Nice but 4 wia una kip d respect?.........dis 1 wey sum women preferr to waka neked on the road...., and they see men as if na dem be dem be dia biological mama....so dat dem go dey direct and instruct dem like kid...especially when they notice dat dis particular man is not financial buoyant...hw dem go get d love if dem no have d respect??
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 13-05-2013 09:48 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 14-05-2013 08:29 AM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 13-05-2013 09:48 PM
Nice but 4 wia una kip d respect?.........dis 1 wey sum women preferr to waka neked on the road...., and they see men as if na dem be dem be dia biological mama....so dat dem go dey direct and instruct dem like kid...especially when they notice dat dis particular man is not financial buoyant...hw dem go get d love if dem no have d respect??
dey sey if u want to be loved, u shud love yasef first, and if u want to respected, respect yasef too
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 14-05-2013 08:29 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero