How to handle breakups in relationships

Date: 15-06-2009 10:42 pm (14 years ago) | Author: King Samuel O Dguy
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- at 15-06-2009 10:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Breakups are inevitable in relationships that are not built on true love, these kind of relationships are very easy to indentify because the people involve usually dont have total peace of the mind tha the relationship was meant to bring, as such it is advisable that you should be able to handle breakups once you are in such a relationship.

Here are few tips for such situation:

Make sure you accept the fact that theres a better person waiting to show you love

Do not get into physical contact with your ex - this is very important, if you live together before you have to "break-up" toally, move apart.

Treat yourself (and your own friends, not friends you two had in common) to some nice time.

Do not rush into another relationship, because your ex did same -  it might be trouble for you.

Make up your mind on what you want to do - either staying single or just keeping casual friend of the opposite sex or falling back on your "plan B"

Relax and realise that the world is big enough for you and your ex wasnt worth you.


If you try all these and you still having problems, then you might need to special help...


Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Beauti4 at 15-06-2009 10:44 PM (14 years ago)
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chei! this man have a good heart oooo
Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Dguy at 15-06-2009 10:45 PM (14 years ago)
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tot it might help people that just or are about to break up

Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 15-06-2009 10:47 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:42 PM
Breakups are inevitable in relationships that are not built on true love, these kind of relationships are very easy to indentify because the people involve usually dont have total peace of the mind tha the relationship was meant to bring, as such it is advisable that you should be able to handle breakups once you are in such a relationship.

Here are few tips for such situation:

Make sure you accept the fact that theres a better person waiting to show you love

Do not get into physical contact with your ex - this is very important, if you live together before you have to "break-up" toally, move apart.

Treat yourself (and your own friends, not friends you two had in common) to some nice time.

Do not rush into another relationship, because your ex did same -  it might be trouble for you.

Make up your mind on what you want to do - either staying single or just keeping casual friend of the opposite sex or falling back on your "plan B"

Relax and realise that the world is big enough for you and your ex wasnt worth you.


If you try all these and you still having problems, then you might need to special help...


oh really ...in fact i just tried them....but its not working..need special help....can u help... Tongue Cheesy

Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:47 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 15-06-2009 10:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:45 PM
tot it might help people that just or are about to break up

its a good tips...am sure some ll love to try it sha...but is goin to hurt ooo esp d Ex issues
Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Dguy at 15-06-2009 10:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 10:47 PM
Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:42 PM
Breakups are inevitable in relationships that are not built on true love, these kind of relationships are very easy to indentify because the people involve usually dont have total peace of the mind tha the relationship was meant to bring, as such it is advisable that you should be able to handle breakups once you are in such a relationship.

Here are few tips for such situation:

Make sure you accept the fact that theres a better person waiting to show you love

Do not get into physical contact with your ex - this is very important, if you live together before you have to "break-up" toally, move apart.

Treat yourself (and your own friends, not friends you two had in common) to some nice time.

Do not rush into another relationship, because your ex did same -  it might be trouble for you.

Make up your mind on what you want to do - either staying single or just keeping casual friend of the opposite sex or falling back on your "plan B"

Relax and realise that the world is big enough for you and your ex wasnt worth you.


If you try all these and you still having problems, then you might need to special help...


oh really ...in fact i just tried them....but its not working..need special help....can u help... Tongue Cheesy


Its for people who just broke up... Roll Eyes

Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 15-06-2009 10:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:49 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 10:47 PM
Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:42 PM
Breakups are inevitable in relationships that are not built on true love, these kind of relationships are very easy to indentify because the people involve usually dont have total peace of the mind tha the relationship was meant to bring, as such it is advisable that you should be able to handle breakups once you are in such a relationship.

Here are few tips for such situation:

Make sure you accept the fact that theres a better person waiting to show you love

Do not get into physical contact with your ex - this is very important, if you live together before you have to "break-up" toally, move apart.

Treat yourself (and your own friends, not friends you two had in common) to some nice time.

Do not rush into another relationship, because your ex did same -  it might be trouble for you.

Make up your mind on what you want to do - either staying single or just keeping casual friend of the opposite sex or falling back on your "plan B"

Relax and realise that the world is big enough for you and your ex wasnt worth you.


If you try all these and you still having problems, then you might need to special help...


oh really ...in fact i just tried them....but its not working..need special help....can u help... Tongue Cheesy


Its for people who just broke up... Roll Eyes

so how u know i did not just break up with my bf... Huh? Undecided Cheesy

Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:53 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Dguy at 15-06-2009 10:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 10:53 PM
Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:49 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 10:47 PM
Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:42 PM
Breakups are inevitable in relationships that are not built on true love, these kind of relationships are very easy to indentify because the people involve usually dont have total peace of the mind tha the relationship was meant to bring, as such it is advisable that you should be able to handle breakups once you are in such a relationship.

Here are few tips for such situation:

Make sure you accept the fact that theres a better person waiting to show you love

Do not get into physical contact with your ex - this is very important, if you live together before you have to "break-up" toally, move apart.

Treat yourself (and your own friends, not friends you two had in common) to some nice time.

Do not rush into another relationship, because your ex did same -  it might be trouble for you.

Make up your mind on what you want to do - either staying single or just keeping casual friend of the opposite sex or falling back on your "plan B"

Relax and realise that the world is big enough for you and your ex wasnt worth you.


If you try all these and you still having problems, then you might need to special help...


oh really ...in fact i just tried them....but its not working..need special help....can u help... Tongue Cheesy


Its for people who just broke up... Roll Eyes

so how u know i did not just break up with my bf... Huh? Undecided Cheesy

Breakups are for those for have a finace/fiancee

not bf/gf

Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 15-06-2009 10:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:54 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 10:53 PM
Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:49 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 10:47 PM
Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:42 PM
Breakups are inevitable in relationships that are not built on true love, these kind of relationships are very easy to indentify because the people involve usually dont have total peace of the mind tha the relationship was meant to bring, as such it is advisable that you should be able to handle breakups once you are in such a relationship.

Here are few tips for such situation:

Make sure you accept the fact that theres a better person waiting to show you love

Do not get into physical contact with your ex - this is very important, if you live together before you have to "break-up" toally, move apart.

Treat yourself (and your own friends, not friends you two had in common) to some nice time.

Do not rush into another relationship, because your ex did same -  it might be trouble for you.

Make up your mind on what you want to do - either staying single or just keeping casual friend of the opposite sex or falling back on your "plan B"

Relax and realise that the world is big enough for you and your ex wasnt worth you.


If you try all these and you still having problems, then you might need to special help...


oh really ...in fact i just tried them....but its not working..need special help....can u help... Tongue Cheesy


Its for people who just broke up... Roll Eyes

so how u know i did not just break up with my bf... Huh? Undecided Cheesy

Breakups are for those for have a finace/fiancee

not bf/gf

wth......what u mean by that...break up is break up....its the same emotions  weather gf/bf  fiance/fiancee

Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:58 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osituga at 15-06-2009 10:59 PM (14 years ago)
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break up----Make up
Posted: at 15-06-2009 10:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 15-06-2009 11:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 10:59 PM
break up----Make up

hey baby...missed u load....lets not break up ok.. Kiss

Posted: at 15-06-2009 11:01 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osituga at 15-06-2009 11:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 11:01 PM
Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 10:59 PM
break up----Make up

hey baby...missed u load....lets not break up ok.. Kiss

Yeah we need to make up
Posted: at 15-06-2009 11:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 15-06-2009 11:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 11:06 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 11:01 PM
Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 10:59 PM
break up----Make up

hey baby...missed u load....lets not break up ok.. Kiss

Yeah we need to make up

yeah..we sure do...u haven't been around much...and i missed u... Tongue Cheesy

Posted: at 15-06-2009 11:07 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osituga at 15-06-2009 11:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 11:07 PM
Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 11:06 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 11:01 PM
Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 10:59 PM
break up----Make up

hey baby...missed u load....lets not break up ok.. Kiss

Yeah we need to make up

yeah..we sure do...u haven't been around much...and i missed u... Tongue Cheesy

miss u too....

can u come over to ma crib...need u now...
Posted: at 15-06-2009 11:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 15-06-2009 11:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 11:12 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 11:07 PM
Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 11:06 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 15-06-2009 11:01 PM
Quote from: osituga on 15-06-2009 10:59 PM
break up----Make up

hey baby...missed u load....lets not break up ok.. Kiss

Yeah we need to make up

yeah..we sure do...u haven't been around much...and i missed u... Tongue Cheesy

miss u too....

can u come over to ma crib...need u now...

of course baby....whenever u need me i'll be there ... Tongue Tongue

Posted: at 15-06-2009 11:14 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 15-06-2009 11:35 PM (14 years ago)
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passing and breaking bottles....... Shocked Shocked Grin
Posted: at 15-06-2009 11:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 15-06-2009 11:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ceejay58 on 15-06-2009 11:35 PM
passing and breaking bottles....... Shocked Shocked Grin

lol...whats up baby...y r u breaking bottles.. Huh? Undecided Kiss

Posted: at 15-06-2009 11:37 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 15-06-2009 11:54 PM (14 years ago)
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since i couldn't break anyone's heart na.......... abi? Grin
Posted: at 15-06-2009 11:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- johnphillip4u at 16-06-2009 12:02 AM (14 years ago)
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Mr Ceejay Even if you lyk break television it will never hurt like breaking heart..
Posted: at 16-06-2009 12:02 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- myragonza at 16-06-2009 07:05 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 15-06-2009 10:42 PM
Breakups are inevitable in relationships that are not built on true love, these kind of relationships are very easy to indentify because the people involve usually dont have total peace of the mind tha the relationship was meant to bring, as such it is advisable that you should be able to handle breakups once you are in such a relationship.

Here are few tips for such situation:

Make sure you accept the fact that theres a better person waiting to show you love

Do not get into physical contact with your ex - this is very important, if you live together before you have to "break-up" toally, move apart.

Treat yourself (and your own friends, not friends you two had in common) to some nice time.

Do not rush into another relationship, because your ex did same -  it might be trouble for you.

Make up your mind on what you want to do - either staying single or just keeping casual friend of the opposite sex or falling back on your "plan B"

Relax and realise that the world is big enough for you and your ex wasnt worth you.


If you try all these and you still having problems, then you might need to special help...

bad advice.......

Posted: at 16-06-2009 07:05 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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