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Quote from: erikaakpan on 5-09-2009 12:55 AM
POSTER! the truth will set u FREE!
Yeah... TOTALLY freedom, it will also free/seperate her from husby
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 5-09-2009 12:55 AM POSTER! the truth will set u FREE! Yeah... TOTALLY freedom, it will also free/seperate her from husby My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
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Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:18 PM Quote from: SexyJuly on 7-09-2009 05:03 PM Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 04:58 PM Quote from: SexyJuly on 7-09-2009 04:08 PM Quote from: rectify on 3-09-2009 05:50 AM I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt. I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father. My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas. I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague. It was 30 minutes of madness. whta do ya 'll think? hmmnn.........Cant think for now! Confused!!  Finding it hard to either tell him or not cos i wont take it if i were to be the husband. The best i'll say is to keep it a secret as long as the third doesnt know about it, its safe! But, it'll also take a lot of courage to keep it to herself! Goodluck, God is in charge!! You are correct. This is a very difficult case. For safety reasons, she should keep it secret as long as she can. She needs to talk to God constantly to know when it is right if ever. Glad u reason with me. Except if she's ready to break her home, she should do otherwise.
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Quote from: odibs on 5-09-2009 07:19 PM another bastard coming to the world? Chai!.. the father is known na My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
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Quote from: AKINREFE on 5-09-2009 07:23 PM u are not serious am sure u already dig the guy, the drink only makes it easier. How are we sure u were drunk! No ways to be sure? maybe the guy was but she wasn't...  no sure, still investigating My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
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Quote from: emmyG on 5-09-2009 07:32 PM Quote from: odibs on 5-09-2009 07:19 PM another bastard coming to the world? are u d 1st bastard?Why you ask?.. abi because him no get face? My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
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Quote from: omatu on 6-09-2009 09:05 AM Quote from: rectify on 3-09-2009 05:50 AM I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt. I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father. My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas. I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague. It was 30 minutes of madness. whta do ya 'll think? Keep your mouth shut until you have safely delivered your baby. Your husband is a big liar. He knows that he is not able to get you pregnant and he has been keeping that a secret. He is in the navy and got a disease while sleeping with different women while travelling. He lost the ability to get a woman pregnant a long time ago. Keep your baby, that is your blessing. It was meant to be that way. If you husband does not want you after the baby is born and you tell him, see if the co-worker will make a life with you if he is not married or at least help you out financially. If not, proudly raise this child by yourself. Do not pay mind to all these people that are judging you. You waited long enough for your husband to tell you the truth and he never did and now you are being forced to tell him the truth before you give birth. Your husband can wait a little longer. Give birth to the baby first before any further drama. You bring this matter up before you give birth, that wicked husband of yours will demand abortion and promise you that will save your marriage. Do not trust nor believe him. Once you get that abortion, he will leave your ass. Have your baby. He may want to hide his shame and raise the baby with you. You are not the first woman that went outside your marriage to give birth to children because the husband could not have. Mature men understand you had to do what you had to and they are usually very proud of you for your wisdom. Make sure you plan your life and the baby very well right now. If your marriage is going to end after you tell the truth, make sure you have enough money, properties, etc. Go and sin no more woman. I judge you not. I didn't finish reading this but the first line make me go WTF!..  My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
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Quote from: macgreat on 7-09-2009 05:31 PM Quote from: AKINREFE on 5-09-2009 07:23 PM u are not serious am sure u already dig the guy, the drink only makes it easier. How are we sure u were drunk! No ways to be sure? maybe the guy was but she wasn't... no sure, still investigating Guees she couldnt cheat on him with her eyes open. So had to get drunk first so as to be deceived!
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Quote from: onchedu on 6-09-2009 05:25 PM What's going on here sef, Ehn? You tell us My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
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Quote from: SexyJuly on 7-09-2009 05:21 PM Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:18 PM Quote from: SexyJuly on 7-09-2009 05:03 PM Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 04:58 PM Quote from: SexyJuly on 7-09-2009 04:08 PM Quote from: rectify on 3-09-2009 05:50 AM I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt. I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father. My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas. I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague. It was 30 minutes of madness. whta do ya 'll think? hmmnn.........Cant think for now! Confused!! Finding it hard to either tell him or not cos i wont take it if i were to be the husband. The best i'll say is to keep it a secret as long as the third doesnt know about it, its safe! But, it'll also take a lot of courage to keep it to herself! Goodluck, God is in charge!! You are correct. This is a very difficult case. For safety reasons, she should keep it secret as long as she can. She needs to talk to God constantly to know when it is right if ever. Glad u reason with me. Except if she's ready to break her home, she should do otherwise. Wisdom you have sexyjuly. Amen.
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Quote from: Kennee on 6-09-2009 11:06 PM Quote from: welli on 6-09-2009 05:09 PM I din't realise Onchedu is now into sugar mummy things.  My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
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Quote from: macgreat on 7-09-2009 05:35 PM Quote from: omatu on 6-09-2009 09:05 AM Quote from: rectify on 3-09-2009 05:50 AM I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt. I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father. My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas. I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague. It was 30 minutes of madness. whta do ya 'll think? Keep your mouth shut until you have safely delivered your baby. Your husband is a big liar. He knows that he is not able to get you pregnant and he has been keeping that a secret. He is in the navy and got a disease while sleeping with different women while travelling. He lost the ability to get a woman pregnant a long time ago. Keep your baby, that is your blessing. It was meant to be that way. If you husband does not want you after the baby is born and you tell him, see if the co-worker will make a life with you if he is not married or at least help you out financially. If not, proudly raise this child by yourself. Do not pay mind to all these people that are judging you. You waited long enough for your husband to tell you the truth and he never did and now you are being forced to tell him the truth before you give birth. Your husband can wait a little longer. Give birth to the baby first before any further drama. You bring this matter up before you give birth, that wicked husband of yours will demand abortion and promise you that will save your marriage. Do not trust nor believe him. Once you get that abortion, he will leave your ass. Have your baby. He may want to hide his shame and raise the baby with you. You are not the first woman that went outside your marriage to give birth to children because the husband could not have. Mature men understand you had to do what you had to and they are usually very proud of you for your wisdom. Make sure you plan your life and the baby very well right now. If your marriage is going to end after you tell the truth, make sure you have enough money, properties, etc. Go and sin no more woman. I judge you not. I didn't finish reading this but the first line make me go WTF!..
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Quote from: macgreat on 7-09-2009 05:40 PM Quote from: Kennee on 6-09-2009 11:06 PM Quote from: welli on 6-09-2009 05:09 PM I din't realise Onchedu is now into sugar mummy things. hmnnn.......
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Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM Hope you are ready for a very good fight. An intelligent and a good ''fight'' . . . .Excuse me, Yes I'm equal to the task.   Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM You are neither detached nor are you reasonable in this discussion. Going by my definition of detachment . . . .No, I'm not detached nor partial -I'm putting both parties into consideration. As for being reasonable . . . .That makes us 4 - You, Your sister (Omatu),Kenyawest and myself. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM You have not made a single suggestion to the poster as to what you think she should do. I'm sure the glasses You have on aren't serving their duties. . . . . . Give your own advise to the poster and move. How would You see my first advice to the poster when You are too impatient to read and too absorbed in defending Your sister even though everything she said is DUST. Lemmie help You . . . .This was my advice: Quote from: welli on 3-09-2009 10:33 AM In 3 words, I'D say - Tell Your Husband. You'll agree with me that I was nice even when others were throwing e-stones at her.It's not gonna be fun doing so . . . .Might even cost You Your marriage but Actions and corollaries are part of the things human existence is centered upon. Nuthing is as good as inner Peace and a clear conscience. The Choice is Yours. Compare my comment to that of Your sister and tell me which reeks of nescience. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM stop dwelling on other people's advise. The word is not dwell but challenge.As an enlightened Young lady . . . .T'is my human right to demur every illogical act or statement. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM The poster should never tell her husband, and should keep it a secret for the rest of her life. Jesus wept!I'm forced to weep for mankind. :'( :'( Are You this wicked? If You were the man how would You feel - loving anatha man's child with an innocent thought that the child is Yours? Where is Your God given conscience? I don't fear You but I fear who doesn't fear You. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM If you do not like my suggestions, go eat a pig. Why would I eat a pig when my mouth is busy on something else? Give Your mind rest . . . .Don't start cursing now, save it. You would need it when I start spitting fire . . . .Enjoy my calm side for now. SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
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Quote from: macgreat on 7-09-2009 05:40 PM Quote from: Kennee on 6-09-2009 11:06 PM Quote from: welli on 6-09-2009 05:09 PM I din't realise Onchedu is now into sugar mummy things.
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Quote from: welli on 7-09-2009 06:50 PM Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM Hope you are ready for a very good fight. An intelligent and a good ''fight'' . . . .Excuse me, Yes I'm equal to the task. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM You are neither detached nor are you reasonable in this discussion. Going by my definition of detachment . . . .No, I'm not detached nor partial -I'm putting both parties into consideration. As for being reasonable . . . .That makes us 4 - You, Your sister (Omatu),Kenyawest and myself. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM You have not made a single suggestion to the poster as to what you think she should do. I'm sure the glasses You have on aren't serving their duties. . . . . . Give your own advise to the poster and move. How would You see my first advice to the poster when You are too impatient to read and too absorbed in defending Your sister even though everything she said is DUST. Lemmie help You . . . .This was my advice: Quote from: welli on 3-09-2009 10:33 AM In 3 words, I'D say - Tell Your Husband. You'll agree with me that I was nice even when others were throwing e-stones at her.It's not gonna be fun doing so . . . .Might even cost You Your marriage but Actions and corollaries are part of the things human existence is centered upon. Nuthing is as good as inner Peace and a clear conscience. The Choice is Yours. Compare my comment to that of Your sister and tell me which reeks of nescience. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM stop dwelling on other people's advise. The word is not dwell but challenge.As an enlightened Young lady . . . .T'is my human right to demur every illogical act or statement. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM The poster should never tell her husband, and should keep it a secret for the rest of her life. Jesus wept!I'm forced to weep for mankind. :'( :'( Are You this wicked? If You were the man how would You feel - loving anatha man's child with an innocent thought that the child is Yours? Where is Your God given conscience? I don't fear You but I fear who doesn't fear You. Quote from: joyjumper on 7-09-2009 05:11 PM If you do not like my suggestions, go eat a pig. Why would I eat a pig when my mouth is busy on something else? Give Your mind rest . . . .Don't start cursing now, save it. You would need it when I start spitting fire . . . .Enjoy my calm side for now.
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@shitjumper or whatever you call yourself. Its disappointing that you, being a man is joining the league of perverts with their ill conscience to corrupt the mind of the innocents here. You are challenging the lil girl without taking consideration of her first post and that of... (whats that her name again?). ReplyYour myopic view of life won't let you see the panorama of this post. Consider:- 1. The poster only gave us an unverified version of the rapport btwn her and the biological father of the baby she's carrying. What if she had deliberately tried her luck on various males before the lock on this last fella? 2. If you were in her husband's shoes you'll applaud her efforts of cheating on you ain't it? 3. If she so much in need of a baby and her husband medically couldn't give her one, she might as well seek his approval for getting it from someone else or divorce him other than deliberately cause the guy a heartbreak. 3. If their case were reversed and her husband took another wife cos she couldn't bear him a child, she won't be here rattling it out as if the devil could care less. Before attempting to lash it out at welli (though she'll beat you at that), why not go through the thread carefully to understand her point? Speach is silver, silence is Gold!
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Quote from: welli on 7-09-2009 06:50 PM Going by my definition of detachment . . . . laughing and passing. Silence always being the best answer to a fool. Kolamental Welli No, I'm not detached nor partial -I'm putting both parties into consideration. As for being reasonable . . . .That makes us 4 - You, Your sister (Omatu),Kenyawest and myself.
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Quote from: black_samurai on 7-09-2009 07:35 PM @shitjumper or whatever you call yourself. Its disappointing that you, being a man is joining the league of perverts with their ill conscience to corrupt the mind of the innocents here. You are challenging the lil girl without taking consideration of her first post and that of... (whats that her name again?). Your myopic view of life won't let you see the panorama of this post. Consider:- 1. The poster only gave us an unverified version of the rapport btwn her and the biological father of the baby she's carrying. What if she had deliberately tried her luck on various males before the lock on this last fella? 2. If you were in her husband's shoes you'll applaud her efforts of cheating on you ain't it? 3. If she so much in need of a baby and her husband medically couldn't give her one, she might as well seek his approval for getting it from someone else or divorce him other than deliberately cause the guy a heartbreak. 3. If their case were reversed and her husband took another wife cos she couldn't bear him a child, she won't be here rattling it out as if the devil could care less. Before attempting to lash it out at welli (though she'll beat you at that), why not go through the thread carefully to understand her point? Samurai, the poster had not fooled around on her husband before. She was drunk and this accident happened. I am here to render my own advise. I do not think that she should ever tell her husband.
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Na Wa Ooo!.. ReplyI'm beginning to sense multiple profile here :'( My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
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Quote from: black_samurai on 7-09-2009 07:35 PM @shitjumper or whatever you call yourself. Its disappointing that you, being a man is joining the league of perverts with their ill conscience to corrupt the mind of the innocents here. You are challenging the lil girl without taking consideration of her first post and that of... (whats that her name again?). Your myopic view of life won't let you see the panorama of this post. Consider:- 1. The poster only gave us an unverified version of the rapport btwn her and the biological father of the baby she's carrying. What if she had deliberately tried her luck on various males before the lock on this last fella? 2. If you were in her husband's shoes you'll applaud her efforts of cheating on you ain't it? 3. If she so much in need of a baby and her husband medically couldn't give her one, she might as well seek his approval for getting it from someone else or divorce him other than deliberately cause the guy a heartbreak. 3. If their case were reversed and her husband took another wife cos she couldn't bear him a child, she won't be here rattling it out as if the devil could care less. Before attempting to lash it out at welli (though she'll beat you at that), why not go through the thread carefully to understand her point? The correct name is joyjumper "junkyard samurai". I am raising a child that is not mine. The unborn baby is innocent. I love my wife and the baby came from my wife. I accept the child and have legally adopted the child. This topic is a very difficult topic. The poster finds it easier to share her pains with strangers before knowing what to do at the end. Everybody is allowed to render their advise whether you like it or not. This discussion can be done amicably if one chooses, but some people like you and "ugly welli" have chosen to take things to a level and direction it should not go. We all have different finger prints and eye prints, etc. We should also have different gifts when it comes to advise giving. My interest is basically on the unborn child. The husband and the wife are both adults we hope. Married people should be able to know how they should handle this matter. Something close happened to me and I accepted the child and my wife. None of the commentators in my view have shown perversion in their views. If you claim that "welli" is innocent, and a little girl, don't you think you should retire her and ask her to stop participating in married people discussions?
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