Welli thank you, sei il numero uno!
Questa donna mi fa incazzare veramente.
but the truth is God has bless you and him with what you have been looking for. so be best thing is to tell him and ask for his forgiveness and make it to understand you never did that internationally and dont try to blame yourself for what as happen. because if you do, you will get yourself hurt the more, pray and ask God to touch him. also be sure you get a DNA test but the question is now how will you get your husband's specimen for the test if he is not around to be sure.. i wish you good luck
The blessings of the LORD. . . addeth no sorrow. This is not a way God woulda blessed 'em with a child.
God doesn't applaud adultery. As for the part written in bold . . . .
Dearie . . . .Don't preach what You can't practice.Human forgiveness is not as easy as You make it sound
Let her hurt herself if she wants. Flipping flip!!! Something about actions and corollaries.
Anyways, Your advice sounds berra than that of madam Omatu.
I am married for over 27 years. I have grown up children that are doing well in their own respective lives. They have their spouses and they are happy.
Can I ask . . . .are these children for the man You're married to or
for some other man and Your 'husband' is made to believe they are his?
I will support my children in whatever decision they choose in live, daughter and sons.
That is to say You would support Your daughter to have a child outside matrimony
while in the marriage? Please, atleast deny in public na. . . . .biko. :'(
I would not advise a divorce.
It's not in the Poster's hands to choose to stay or divorce.
Unless God intervenes . . . .nature will serve her, her deserved punishment. T'is called Karma.
The poster never set out to commit adultery.
What's Your definition of adultery?
Whether she did it intentionally or NOT. . . .She is guilty of adultery.
She was drinking with a co-worker and this happened to her. It was an accident. I am of the opinion that the co-worker slipped something in her drink because I do not believe that under normal circumstances she would have done this.
I'm not trynna judge her but tell me . . . . .
which decent woman would be drinking (to the extent of getting over drunk) with a male co-worker while her husband travelled?
If she had stayed at home and spent her time calling her husband every 2 mins to say ''I LOVE YOU''
or spent that time she used in drinking to pray for a child or read her Bible . . . .all this wouldn't have happened.
This was a mistake on her part and should be forgiven. I will not advocate divorce. I hate divorce, but under this circumstance, if the husband cannot forgive, if he wants a divorce, I will advise her to let him go but to make sure that she is well prepared with money, resources, properties for her and the baby.
This baby is a blessing to this couple if they are mature enough to handle this.
Darling. . . . I expect you to have understood life alot more than this.
Somethings just can't be forgotten or put up with even if they are ''forgiven''.
In life, One has to be extremely carefully . . . . .there are mistakes You make within seconds and
You pay for them with a lifetime. T'is life, You and I can't change it. If she deserves a punishment, she will get it.
By the way . . . .which money, properties and resources are you asking her to get? The man's? I laugh in French.
Now, let me remind You why I'm very bittered about Your advice:
Keep your mouth shut until you have safely delivered your baby.Your husband is a big liar. He knows that he is not able to get you pregnant and he has been keeping that a secret.
He is in the navy and got a disease while sleeping with different women while travelling. He lost the ability to get a woman pregnant a long time ago.
Keep your baby, that is your blessing. It was meant to be that way. If you husband does not want you after the baby is born and you tell him, see if the co-worker will make a life with you if he is not married or at least help you out financially. If not, proudly raise this child by yourself.
Do not pay mind to all these people that are judging you. You waited long enough for your husband to tell you the truth and he never did and now you are being forced to tell him the truth before you give birth. Your husband can wait a little longer. Give birth to the baby first before any further drama.
You bring this matter up before you give birth, that wicked husband of yours will demand abortion and promise you that will save your marriage. Do not trust nor believe him. Once you get that abortion, he will leave your ass. Have your baby. He may want to hide his shame and raise the baby with you. You are not the first woman that went outside your marriage to give birth to children because the husband could not have. Mature men understand you had to do what you had to and they are usually very proud of you for your wisdom.
Make sure you plan your life and the baby very well right now. If your marriage is going to end after you tell the truth, make sure you have enough money, properties, etc.
Go and sin no more woman. I judge you not.
Madam Omatu. . . .Did You see how You quickly put the blame on the man here?
He's the victim but No, You make the Poater see herself as the victim.
Nuffin You say justifies this advice. . . .No parent ought to say this. . . .No parent.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen 
. | Posted: at 6-09-2009 10:05 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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omatu
I must be hitting people's nerves real hard.
You make me start, You will regret it.
sorry u are on ur own i no dey there when the thing dey sweet u. 
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