Truth will ruin our joy over baby

Date: 03-09-2009 5:50 am (15 years ago) | Author: Blessing MICHEAL JACKSON
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- at 3-09-2009 05:50 AM (15 years ago)
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I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.

I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.

My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.

I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.

It was 30 minutes of madness.
 whta do ya 'll think?

Posted: at 3-09-2009 05:50 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- erikaakpan at 3-09-2009 07:34 AM (15 years ago)
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please find the courage to tell him.....knowing there is a possibility that he isnt the father will leave a guilty conscious and you dnt want to live like that....things like this have a way of coming back to bite u in the ass...
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:34 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 3-09-2009 07:56 AM (15 years ago)
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duh..........
girl, i don't know what to tell u.
u get get a paternity test to see who the father is.
get a dna test. hurry up cuz ur running out of time and options.
cuz u can't have a baby looking like ur co worker
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:56 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- asaph at 3-09-2009 08:49 AM (15 years ago)
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Since yo not sure just give it time. U might find that the baby is your husband's. But please, like you said it was a mistake dont male it a habit.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 08:49 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 3-09-2009 09:45 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: rectify on  3-09-2009 05:50 AM




I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.

I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.

My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.

I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.

It was 30 minutes of madness.
 whta do ya 'll think?

damn lie

n e ways...i dont think the baby blongs to ur hussy

well...u just hav to keep it secret nd go for a dna/blood test for who owns the baby

first start 4rm the other guy
Posted: at 3-09-2009 09:45 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Dguy at 3-09-2009 09:57 AM (15 years ago)
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Wow ....

Thats so terrible - are you married to your husband? ... this is serious.

For me a lady cant give me a kid that dosnt look like me, its just a matter of time before they find out.

However in the mean time, do you have photos of the 30 minutes of madness? for the viewing pleasure of the guys Grin
Posted: at 3-09-2009 09:57 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- around_d_corner at 3-09-2009 10:02 AM (15 years ago)
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nothin jus keep d baby..
Posted: at 3-09-2009 10:02 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- osituga at 3-09-2009 10:19 AM (15 years ago)
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Why don't u post this on the confessions ?

i m sure there would be traffic on your page by now..

ehm . try to find out the real father of ur child before it gets late.. then move on from there..
Posted: at 3-09-2009 10:19 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- welli at 3-09-2009 10:33 AM (15 years ago)
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In 3 words, I'D say - Tell Your Husband.
It's not gonna be fun doing so . . . .Might even cost You Your marriage but
Actions and corollaries are part of the things human existence is centered upon.
Nuthing is as good as inner Peace and a clear conscience. The Choice is Yours.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 10:33 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- macgreat at 3-09-2009 11:00 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  3-09-2009 09:57 AM


However in the mean time, do you have photos of the 30 minutes of madness? for the viewing pleasure of the guys Grin

Are you planing to go into porn business(movies/pic)
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:00 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- welli at 3-09-2009 11:07 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  3-09-2009 09:57 AM
Wow ....

Thats so terrible - are you married to your husband? ... this is serious.

For me a lady cant give me a kid that dosnt look like me, its just a matter of time before they find out.

However in the mean time, do you have photos of the 30 minutes of madness? for the viewing pleasure of the guys Grin
and the Ladies too. Cheesy
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:07 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- macgreat at 3-09-2009 11:18 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: rectify on  3-09-2009 05:50 AM


I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.



You wanted a piece of him as he you... the alcohol in your systems made it a lot easier and forgot taking precaution.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:18 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- emmyG at 3-09-2009 11:22 AM (15 years ago)
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passing and refused to contribute  ..coz i'm danm faithful
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:22 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 3-09-2009 11:29 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: rectify on  3-09-2009 05:50 AM

I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.

I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.

My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.

I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.

It was 30 minutes of madness.
 whta do ya 'll think?

Ur lucky I dont know Ur husband. I'd have helped U help the devil ruin Ur marriage straight. U got drunk? U never talk true cos U seem to remember the 30mins of madness clearly enough; meaning even if U were drunk U knew exactly what U were doing? I bet this wasn't one random colleague at work but that one U had nursed feelings for.

I hate girls like U. better handle Ur sh*t, shameless thing.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:29 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 3-09-2009 11:42 AM (15 years ago)
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damn yawa don gas
this ur case is a serious one.
since you are sure the baby is not for your husband..tell your husband about the situation,i know is not gonna be easy...but is better you tell the truth to clear your consciene..it may cast you your marriage...i can't advise you to do abortion,,abortion is wrong...since the life of an unborn child is precious in God's eyes.....tell him to hear his own side....he may tell you to keep the baby..
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:42 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- macgreat at 3-09-2009 11:49 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: emmyG on  3-09-2009 11:22 AM
passing and refused to contribute  ..coz i'm damn faithful

passing and doubting
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:49 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- emmyG at 3-09-2009 12:00 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on  3-09-2009 11:49 AM
Quote from: emmyG on  3-09-2009 11:22 AM
passing and refused to contribute  ..coz i'm damn faithful

passing and doubting
y?
Posted: at 3-09-2009 12:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 3-09-2009 12:15 PM (15 years ago)
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All the people saying to tell him, what una want make woman kill man abi make man kill woman?

Keep it to Urself and feel Ur conscience kill U sloooooowwwwly. I hope Ur husband loves U more than U expect in his blissful ignorance. That way Ur death would be slower and more painful. Imagine every agonising day U'l have seeing the child and being loved by the man U wronged.

Ur seriously lucky I dont know Ur husband o. I'd have made it my business to add to Ur pain... unless of course he chooses to forgive U.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 12:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- emmyG at 3-09-2009 12:18 PM (15 years ago)
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amebo
Posted: at 3-09-2009 12:18 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 3-09-2009 12:19 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  3-09-2009 12:15 PM
All the people saying to tell him, what una want make woman kill man abi make man kill woman?

Keep it to Urself and feel Ur conscience kill U sloooooowwwwly. I hope Ur husband loves U more than U expect in his blissful ignorance. That way Ur death would be slower and more painful. Imagine every agonising day U'l have seeing the child and being loved by the man U wronged.

Ur seriously lucky I dont know Ur husband o. I'd have made it my business to add to Ur pain... unless of course he chooses to forgive U.
bros don vex..... Grin Grin ;Dabeg do take it easy with her....adding more pain to her problem
Posted: at 3-09-2009 12:19 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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