Truth will ruin our joy over baby (Page 5)

Date: 03-09-2009 5:50 am (15 years ago) | Author: Blessing MICHEAL JACKSON
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- welli at 6-09-2009 04:53 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:49 PM
If I support any woman's daughter, I will support my daughter.  I am a woman, and the daughter is mine.  If it happened to you, I will support you and ask your mother if I can get to her to support you.
I thought as much . . . .I'm not surprise.
Thanks for answering and good day. Grin

Thank God for lovely mothers like mine. Kiss Kiss Kiss

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- onchedu at 6-09-2009 04:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Baby no fight with small people.
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 04:59 PM (15 years ago)
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@Welli -
If I support any woman's daughter, I will support my daughter.  I am a woman, and the daughter is mine.  If it happened to you, I will support you and ask your mother if I can get to her to support you.

This has never happened to me, but I have a heart and I align myself with what Jesus will do.  I cite that as an example with the woman that committed adultery and they wanted to stone her.  Let those without sin cast the first stone.  

There is nothing that has not happened under the sun.  People have different opinions and different understanding and expeirences.  

My own brother completely supports my view.  People have the right to their own opinion.  You have yours and I have mine.

You are not grown enough for me to exchange unpleasantries.  Find your age group to exchange unpleasantries with.  

People who judge this woman so harshly has done worst.  They have even participated in aborting children and does not consider that as a sin.

The adultery part has happened which is a sin, but a blessing came out of it, an innocent child.  We cannot throw out the baby with the birth water.

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- omatu at 6-09-2009 05:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  6-09-2009 04:54 PM
Baby no fight with small people.
Thanks. 
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- welli at 6-09-2009 05:09 PM (15 years ago)
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I din't realise Onchedu is now into sugar mummy things. Grin Lips Sealed

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- onchedu at 6-09-2009 05:12 PM (15 years ago)
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Huh?
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 05:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  6-09-2009 05:12 PM
Huh?
Lord Jesus have mercy
Posted: at 6-09-2009 05:22 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 05:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on  6-09-2009 05:09 PM
I din't realise Onchedu is now into sugar mummy things. Grin Lips Sealed
Lord Jesus have mercy.
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- onchedu at 6-09-2009 05:25 PM (15 years ago)
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What's going on here sef, Ehn?
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 05:27 PM (15 years ago)
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@rectify - my brother wants you to wait till after the baby is born, secretly get a DNA test to confirm whether the child is your husbands or your co-workers before deciding whether you want to tell him or not.  My brother thinks you should not tell your husband ever and not tell your co-worker either.  He believes your husband wants the child so for you not to tell him anything.  My brother is of the opinion that you do not share this information that you have shared in this forum with anybody else.  Only tell your own husband if you want to tell him that he is not the father of the child after the baby is gone.  Do not tell anybody else he says.  

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- omatu at 6-09-2009 05:28 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  6-09-2009 05:25 PM
What's going on here sef, Ehn?
Happy Sunday.
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 05:29 PM (15 years ago)
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baby is born not gone.  sorry.
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- welli at 6-09-2009 05:37 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:59 PM
@Welli -
If I support any woman's daughter, I will support my daughter.  I am a woman, and the daughter is mine.  If it happened to you, I will support you and ask your mother if I can get to her to support you.
I have treated this part before!


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:59 PM
This has never happened to me, but I have a heart and I align myself with what Jesus will doI cite that as an example with the woman that committed adultery and they wanted to stone her.  Let those without sin cast the first stone. 
Whatever makes You think jesus sees this the way You and I do?
One of the most misused, mishandled, and misapplied passages in the Bible
is the narrative of the woman caught in adultery, recorded in John 8:1-11.
PHULEAZE. . . .Don't even allow me go into that 'cause if I do, I won't stop till I completely
wipe out all ignorance. I'm also very enlightened in that area - The Bible. Cheesy

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:59 PM
People have different opinions and different understanding and expeirences. 
I totally agree but trust me, I have EVERY RIGHT to disagree and state my opinion
on any subject/comment I find dangerous to the reading/listening public.
For all I care, my friends or relatives could be using this site and stumble across Your advice and finally act on it.
Atleast, with my li2 approach to Your comments, anybody with an iota of intelligence would have a re-think
before acting on Your advice ma'am.


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:59 PM
My own brother completely supports my view. 
Na Your brotha na. Grin


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:59 PM
You are not grown enough for me to exchange unpleasantries.  Find your age group to exchange unpleasantries with. 
If the advice You gave the poster is the way growth expects one to think . . . .Screw it, I don't wanna grow. Cheesy


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:59 PM
People who judge this woman so harshly has done worst.  They have even participated in aborting children and does not consider that as a sin.
Dearie . . . .If You read my first post on this, In my opinion, I was extra-nice.
You stretched my tolerance to its limit with Your advice.
No one is a saint . . . . the deed is done and can't be changed. . . . .We know.
But trying to applaud her action and give the fault to the man is just not comfy with me . . . .I'm sorry but what is right is right.

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:59 PM
The adultery part has happened which is a sin, but a blessing came out of it, an innocent child.  We cannot throw out the baby with the birth water.
We are not asking her to throw the child away . . . . .all I'm saying is
put the innocent man and his emotions into consideration.
If he is Your brotha, would You take sides with this woman? Undecided
You shall know the truth . . . . . and it shall set You FREEEEEEEEEEE.



Quote from: onchedu on  6-09-2009 05:12 PM
Huh?
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

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- onchedu at 6-09-2009 05:47 PM (15 years ago)
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Does that mean Ur not talking to me? What's the emotcon with the crossed mouth?
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 05:53 PM (15 years ago)
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@Welli - my own brother supports the woman.  
If it happened to my own brother, I will prefer not to know.  It is my brother's business with his wife.  None of my business.  If it happened to my own son, I will prefer not to know.  It is his business with his wife.
People make mistakes.  Nobody is perfect.  The poster came here for advise and not chastisement.  She is already carrying the heavy weight of her actions.  She may think she was drunk, but what if the co-worker slipped a date rape drug to her drink and she participated in something that she may never have done if she was sober and only had alcohol in her system?

A pregnant woman with such stress does not need additional stress because she asked for advise.  You can add your two cents worth, but this is not for your friends.  This advise is strictly tailored to the poster.  Every case is different.

Remain blessed.


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- welli at 6-09-2009 06:05 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 05:53 PM
@Welli - my own brother supports the woman.
I really don't care about what Your brotha thinks . . . .I'm concerned about what the poster does afterwards.

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 05:53 PM
People make mistakes.  Nobody is perfect.  The poster came here for advise and not chastisement.  She is already carrying the heavy weight of her actions.  She may think she was drunk, but what if the co-worker slipped a date rape drug to her drink and she participated in something that she may never have done if she was sober and only had alcohol in her system?
I didn't say people don't make mistakes . . . . .Don't mis-read my posts.
My point is not to crucify her but to attack YOU on the kinda advice You gave.
How can You say she did something right and blame her husband for inability to impregnant her?
Re-read Your first comment and You'll notice how You sounded. . . .I still stand to disagree witchu.

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 05:53 PM
A pregnant woman with such stress does not need additional stress because she asked for advise. 
Remain blessed.
Nature cannot be cheated. You don't hurt people and expect to go free w/ paying.
If stress and a guilty conscience is the only punishment she gets for this act. . . .then she's super lucky.
Stay blessed too sweetie.

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- welli at 6-09-2009 06:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  6-09-2009 05:47 PM
Does that mean Ur not talking to me? What's the emotcon with the crossed mouth?
You know where I will answer that. Tongue

Posted: at 6-09-2009 06:07 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- black_samurai at 6-09-2009 06:11 PM (15 years ago)
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@amatu, you were asked if you are married, you mind answering that? You told us you'll side your daughter, what about your son? Would you be happy for him?
The poster here, i.e if she's not someone you know, never gave details about the medical condition of her husband.
Wouldn't you advise to get a divorce first before looking for a son from whoever could? Why hid under the canopy of being married to this man?

Welli has just said all i' left with no words.

Welli thank you, sei il numero uno!

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- omatu at 6-09-2009 07:05 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: godfirst1 on  6-09-2009 06:23 PM
well, if i get you right, you said you and your husband have been looking for baby for an age, could be your husband is not capable, but the truth is God has bless you and him with what you have been looking for. so be best thing is to tell him and ask for his  forgiveness and make it to understand you never did that internationally and dont try to blame yourself for what as happen. because if you do, you will get yourself hurt the more, pray and ask God to touch him. also be sure you get a DNA test but the question is now how will you get your husband's specimen for the test if he is not around to be sure.. i wish you good luck
Out of the mouth of babes.  You are 100% accurate.  God bless you.
For safe delivery, I think she should wait till after the baby is born to tell her husband to avoid any mishaps on the husband's part just in case.

DNA could be obtained from the husband's tooth brush, hair brush, etc.
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 07:08 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on  6-09-2009 06:05 PM
Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 05:53 PM
@Welli - my own brother supports the woman.
I really don't care about what Your brotha thinks . . . .I'm concerned about what the poster does afterwards.

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 05:53 PM
People make mistakes.  Nobody is perfect.  The poster came here for advise and not chastisement.  She is already carrying the heavy weight of her actions.  She may think she was drunk, but what if the co-worker slipped a date rape drug to her drink and she participated in something that she may never have done if she was sober and only had alcohol in her system?
I didn't say people don't make mistakes . . . . .Don't mis-read my posts.
My point is not to crucify her but to attack YOU on the kinda advice You gave.
How can You say she did something right and blame her husband for inability to impregnant her?
Re-read Your first comment and You'll notice how You sounded. . . .I still stand to disagree witchu.

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 05:53 PM
A pregnant woman with such stress does not need additional stress because she asked for advise. 
Remain blessed.
Nature cannot be cheated. You don't hurt people and expect to go free w/ paying.
If stress and a guilty conscience is the only punishment she gets for this act. . . .then she's super lucky.
Stay blessed too sweetie.

No attack is necessary.  This is just a dialogue where people share their ideas and advise to the poster.  You may not like my advise but it was not given to you.  Do not take it personally.

You believe strongly in your own point of view.  You should also know that I have equal conviction in the advise that I am giving her.  It is upto her to gather all the advises given to her, after much prayer, decide which one to follow or a combination of all that she liked.

I wish her Divine Guidance and God's richest blessings.


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