Truth will ruin our joy over baby (Page 4)

Date: 03-09-2009 5:50 am (15 years ago) | Author: Blessing MICHEAL JACKSON
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- luvvy at 5-09-2009 07:42 PM (15 years ago)
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the only solution now
let take dis pikin to the shrine for the oracle to do sacrifies
i rise!!!
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- pope12 at 5-09-2009 08:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: odibs on  5-09-2009 07:19 PM
another bastard coming to the world?
re u d 1st bastard?

atleast his paternity is not in dispute or someone in a kind of delima over it   
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- onchedu at 5-09-2009 08:33 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: rectify on  3-09-2009 05:50 AM

I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.

I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.

My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.

I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.

It was 30 minutes of madness.
 whta do ya 'll think?

Ur lucky I dont know Ur husband. I'd have helped U help the devil ruin Ur marriage straight. U got drunk? U never talk true cos U seem to remember the 30mins of madness clearly enough; meaning even if U were drunk U knew exactly what U were doing? I bet this wasn't one random colleague at work but that one U had nursed feelings for.

I hate girls like U. better handle Ur sh*t, shameless thing.
Onche, that waas straight out miserable
Thank Yuh Thank yuh... Wink
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- pepigambit at 5-09-2009 08:35 PM (15 years ago)
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he looks so innocent bt he is a ............
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- ceejay58 at 5-09-2009 10:47 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: luvvy on  5-09-2009 07:42 PM
the only solution now
let take dis pikin to the shrine for the oracle to do sacrifies
i rise!!!

hhhmm?  dont worry u 'll soon take over from Mazi....... Lips Sealed
Posted: at 5-09-2009 10:47 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 6-09-2009 12:13 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: rectify on  3-09-2009 05:50 AM




I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.

I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.

My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.

I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.

It was 30 minutes of madness.
 whta do ya 'll think?

If this's truely Ur story!   Call Ur Man n simply explain to him how it all happened. . .  I think that's gonna solve this acute quadrilateral equation

 Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-09-2009 12:13 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 6-09-2009 12:15 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: emmyG on  5-09-2009 07:32 PM
Quote from: odibs on  5-09-2009 07:19 PM
another bastard coming to the world?
re u d 1st bastard?

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Kolo Babe

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- black_samurai at 6-09-2009 01:37 AM (15 years ago)
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I still hate it when ppl use drinks and the devil as an excuse for their selfish interest and desires!
You are saying prayers to the deviil and even giving him praises for things he knew nothing about!

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- omatu at 6-09-2009 09:05 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: rectify on  3-09-2009 05:50 AM
I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.

I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.

My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.

I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.

It was 30 minutes of madness.
 whta do ya 'll think?

Keep your mouth shut until you have safely delivered your baby.

Your husband is a big liar.  He knows that he is not able to get you pregnant and he has been keeping that a secret.

He is in the navy and got a disease while sleeping with different women while travelling.  He lost the ability to get a woman pregnant a long time ago.

Keep your baby, that is your blessing.  It was meant to be that way.  If you husband does not want you after the baby is born and you tell him, see if the co-worker will make a life with you if he is not married or at least help you out financially.  If not, proudly raise this child by yourself. 

Do not pay mind to all these people that are judging you.  You waited long enough for your husband to tell you the truth and he never did and now you are being forced to tell him the truth before you give birth.  Your husband can wait a little longer.  Give birth to the baby first before any further drama.

You bring this matter up before you give birth, that wicked husband of yours will demand abortion and promise you that will save your marriage.  Do not trust nor believe him.  Once you get that abortion, he will leave your ass.  Have your baby.  He may want to hide his shame and raise the baby with you.  You are not the first woman that went outside your marriage to give birth to children because the husband could not have.  Mature men understand you had to do what you had to and they are usually very proud of you for your wisdom.

Make sure you plan your life and the baby very well right now.  If your marriage is going to end after you tell the truth, make sure you have enough money, properties, etc.

Go and sin no more woman.  I judge you not.

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- black_samurai at 6-09-2009 12:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 09:05 AM
Quote from: rectify on  3-09-2009 05:50 AM
I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.

I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.

My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.

I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.

It was 30 minutes of madness.
 whta do ya 'll think?

Keep your mouth shut until you have safely delivered your baby.

Your husband is a big liar.  He knows that he is not able to get you pregnant and he has been keeping that a secret.

He is in the navy and got a disease while sleeping with different women while travelling.  He lost the ability to get a woman pregnant a long time ago.

Keep your baby, that is your blessing.  It was meant to be that way.  If you husband does not want you after the baby is born and you tell him, see if the co-worker will make a life with you if he is not married or at least help you out financially.  If not, proudly raise this child by yourself. 

Do not pay mind to all these people that are judging you.  You waited long enough for your husband to tell you the truth and he never did and now you are being forced to tell him the truth before you give birth.  Your husband can wait a little longer.  Give birth to the baby first before any further drama.

You bring this matter up before you give birth, that wicked husband of yours will demand abortion and promise you that will save your marriage.  Do not trust nor believe him.  Once you get that abortion, he will leave your ass.  Have your baby.  He may want to hide his shame and raise the baby with you.  You are not the first woman that went outside your marriage to give birth to children because the husband could not have.  Mature men understand you had to do what you had to and they are usually very proud of you for your wisdom.

Make sure you plan your life and the baby very well right now.  If your marriage is going to end after you tell the truth, make sure you have enough money, properties, etc.

Go and sin no more woman.  I judge you not.




What kind of woman are you? Considering your other post on the other topic, you are at it again here. So you'll applaud your daughter if she get pregnant for another man while married to one. Having a child in marriage is cool but not obligatory. If this man finds out, whatever action he takes against her is justified by God and man.

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- onchedu at 6-09-2009 01:50 PM (15 years ago)
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Omatu e be like U dey integrate personal experiences inside this thing?
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- welli at 6-09-2009 02:40 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: black_samurai on  6-09-2009 12:22 PM
What kind of woman are you? Considering your other post on the other topic, you are at it again here. So you'll applaud your daughter if she get pregnant for another man while married to one. Having a child in marriage is cool but not obligatory. If this man finds out, whatever action he takes against her is justified by God and man.
Thank You jare!


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 09:05 AM
Keep your mouth shut until you have safely delivered your baby.

Your husband is a big liar.  He knows that he is not able to get you pregnant and he has been keeping that a secret.

He is in the navy and got a disease while sleeping with different women while travelling.  He lost the ability to get a woman pregnant a long time ago.

Keep your baby, that is your blessing.  It was meant to be that way.  If you husband does not want you after the baby is born and you tell him, see if the co-worker will make a life with you if he is not married or at least help you out financially.  If not, proudly raise this child by yourself. 

Do not pay mind to all these people that are judging you.  You waited long enough for your husband to tell you the truth and he never did and now you are being forced to tell him the truth before you give birth.  Your husband can wait a little longer.  Give birth to the baby first before any further drama.

You bring this matter up before you give birth, that wicked husband of yours will demand abortion and promise you that will save your marriage.  Do not trust nor believe him.  Once you get that abortion, he will leave your ass.  Have your baby.  He may want to hide his shame and raise the baby with you.  You are not the first woman that went outside your marriage to give birth to children because the husband could not have.  Mature men understand you had to do what you had to and they are usually very proud of you for your wisdom.

Make sure you plan your life and the baby very well right now.  If your marriage is going to end after you tell the truth, make sure you have enough money, properties, etc.

Go and sin no more woman.  I judge you not.


Are You married? Undecided
After scrutinizing Your detrimental advice to the poster . . . .It is safer for me to believe You were trynna crack a joke
but permit me to say . . . . . . .IT WASN'T FUNNY.
How did You come up with such a write up painted in lies and risible assumptions?
If I'm to give the poster a benefit of doubt by believing her story is TRUE . . . . .Do You know that she
could be dull enough to seee Your advice as the ''right'' thing to do and by that, You would have aided and abetted
the destruction of that marriage? Mankind would never cease to amaze me.

Poster . . . . The choice is Yours. Screen advice before You swallow.
I leave You to Your God given conscience.





Poster:

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- brightossy at 6-09-2009 03:32 PM (15 years ago)
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- blackberryPearl at 6-09-2009 03:58 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: odibs on  5-09-2009 07:19 PM
another bastard coming to the world?
is not another bastard u AS$, is another child Angry Angry
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 04:12 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: black_samurai on  6-09-2009 12:22 PM
Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 09:05 AM
Quote from: rectify on  3-09-2009 05:50 AM
I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.

I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.

My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.

I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.

It was 30 minutes of madness.
 whta do ya 'll think?

Keep your mouth shut until you have safely delivered your baby.

Your husband is a big liar.  He knows that he is not able to get you pregnant and he has been keeping that a secret.

He is in the navy and got a disease while sleeping with different women while travelling.  He lost the ability to get a woman pregnant a long time ago.

Keep your baby, that is your blessing.  It was meant to be that way.  If you husband does not want you after the baby is born and you tell him, see if the co-worker will make a life with you if he is not married or at least help you out financially.  If not, proudly raise this child by yourself. 

Do not pay mind to all these people that are judging you.  You waited long enough for your husband to tell you the truth and he never did and now you are being forced to tell him the truth before you give birth.  Your husband can wait a little longer.  Give birth to the baby first before any further drama.

You bring this matter up before you give birth, that wicked husband of yours will demand abortion and promise you that will save your marriage.  Do not trust nor believe him.  Once you get that abortion, he will leave your ass.  Have your baby.  He may want to hide his shame and raise the baby with you.  You are not the first woman that went outside your marriage to give birth to children because the husband could not have.  Mature men understand you had to do what you had to and they are usually very proud of you for your wisdom.

Make sure you plan your life and the baby very well right now.  If your marriage is going to end after you tell the truth, make sure you have enough money, properties, etc.

Go and sin no more woman.  I judge you not.




What kind of woman are you? Considering your other post on the other topic, you are at it again here. So you'll applaud your daughter if she get pregnant for another man while married to one. Having a child in marriage is cool but not obligatory. If this man finds out, whatever action he takes against her is justified by God and man.

In this case, I will support any woman's daughter.  Her husband is unable to give her a child.  He should tell her the truth from the beginning instead of bringing her into a marriage where he knows that she wants a child and he cannot give her a child.

I am the time of woman that thinks for myself.  I do not go along with the crowd and the society pressures.  I speak as I think and feel. 

This woman has not done anything wrong.  She has alleviated all the family pressures from her husband's family that she is a man and has shown she can actually get pregnant.  The husband knows that she either went out of the marriage to get pregnant or a miracle occurred. 

Why are you acting so immature.  Women go outside the marriage to get pregnant and bring the pregnancy and baby home.  So long as she is legally married to the man, she must keep quiet, and after the delivery, she can tell the man.   She does not have to tell anybody else but her husband.  If he cannot live with that she can leave him and go on her own.

She can go ahead and have as much children as she wants.  She must make sure that she has the resources to take care of them.

If the husband divorces her, he will marry another woman and do the same thing to her all over again.  The next wife will go outside again and have children for the man. 

God is on the woman's side because this marriage was built on deceit.  The husband is the deceitful woman and got this woman in a trap.  She is finally breaking free.

What do you think should happen to the man for his lies?  How about the humiliation his family had heaped on her over the years?  What are the penalties for that?

Hypocrite.
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 04:16 PM (15 years ago)
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@Samuari
In this case, I will support any woman's daughter.  Her husband is unable to give her a child.  He should tell her the truth from the beginning instead of bringing her into a marriage where he knows that she wants a child and he cannot give her a child.

I am the type of woman that thinks for myself.  I do not go along with the crowd and the society pressures.  I speak as I think and feel. 

This woman has not done anything wrong.  She has alleviated all the family pressures from her husband's family that she is a man and has shown she can actually get pregnant.  The husband knows that she either went out of the marriage to get pregnant or a miracle occurred. 

Why are you acting so immature?  Women go outside the marriage to get pregnant and bring the pregnancy and baby home.  So long as she is legally married to the man, she must keep quiet, and after the delivery, she can tell the man.   She does not have to tell anybody else but her husband.  If he cannot live with that she can leave him and go on her own.

She can go ahead and have as much children as she wants.  She must make sure that she has the resources to take care of them.  She has already married for crying out loud.

If the husband divorces her, he will marry another woman and do the same thing to her all over again.  The next wife will go outside again and have children for the man. 

God is on the woman's side because this marriage was built on deceit.  The husband is the deceitful one and got this woman in a trap.  She is finally breaking free.

What do you think should happen to the man for his lies?  How about the humiliation his family had heaped on her over the years?  What are the penalties for that?

Hypocrites and brood of vipers.
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- omatu at 6-09-2009 04:29 PM (15 years ago)
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@blacksamurai - 40% of children born in marriage does not belong to the man. and the man does not know it, and some men know and ignore it due to medical problems and reasons.

Only the woman knows who the father of her child is.  Sometimes, the woman does not even know.

Judging her is not going to change anything.  Jesus will not judge her so who am I to judge her?

Joseph stayed with Mary and the baby Jesus was not his.

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- welli at 6-09-2009 04:44 PM (15 years ago)
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I know this was directed at Samuari but permit me to answer before he gets here
as I can't keep fighting the urge to reply. Call me 'Oversabi' . . . I don't mind, I just love other people's business. Grin

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
@Samuari
In this case, I will support any woman's daughter. 
Without swerving words . . . .You may want to answer his question which was: Would You support YOUR child? Smiley


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
Her husband is unable to give her a child.  He should tell her the truth from the beginning instead of bringing her into a marriage where he knows that she wants a child and he cannot give her a child.
Show me where she said that In her post and I'll doff my hat for You and rest my case.


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
I am the type of woman that thinks for myself.  I do not go along with the crowd and the society pressures.  I speak as I think and feel. 
A few people including myself fall into this group so no biggie. Tongue

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
Shocked.  She has alleviated all the family pressures from her husband's family that she is a man and has shown she can actually get pregnant.  The husband knows that she either went out of the marriage to get pregnant or a miracle occurred. 
Shocked Shocked  Woman, are You kidding me?
If the only way to prove fertility is to shamelessly fhuck outside one's marriage while still in it  just to raise children,
then screw it . . . .I'D rather maintain my self respect, the vow I made b4 God and man and enjoy infertility with my husband.

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
Why are you acting so immature?  Women go outside the marriage to get pregnant and bring the pregnancy and baby home.  So long as she is legally married to the man, she must keep quiet, and after the delivery, she can tell the man.   She does not have to tell anybody else but her husband.  If he cannot live with that she can leave him and go on her own.

You either need Jesus or a doctor  Grin [With regards to Your age, no disrespect meant]

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
She can go ahead and have as much children as she wants.  She must make sure that she has the resources to take care of them.  She has already married for crying out loud.
Permit me to assume You fall into this group phulease. Wink


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
God is on the woman's side because this marriage was built on deceit.  The husband is the deceitful one and got this woman in a trap.  She is finally breaking free.
I don't envy You as a mother. . . . .Sorry, but the painful truth.
This is just anatha reason to be grateful to God for the wonderful mother I have. Kiss


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
What do you think should happen to the man for his lies?  How about the humiliation his family had heaped on her over the years?  What are the penalties for that?
Stop Your imaginations . . . .they are misleading You.
Re-read the poster's post . . . . Biko, she didn't mention anything like this. Angry


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
Hypocrites and brood of vipers.
Same to You woman. Grin Kiss


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- omatu at 6-09-2009 04:49 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:16 PM
@Samuari
In this case, I will support any woman's daughter. 
Without swerving words . . . .You may want to answer his question which was: Would You support YOUR child? Smiley
If I support any woman's daughter, I will support my daughter.  I am a woman, and the daughter is mine.  If it happened to you, I will support you and ask your mother if I can get to her to support you.
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- welli at 6-09-2009 04:51 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:29 PM
@blacksamurai - 40% of children born in marriage does not belong to the man. and the man does not know it, and some men know and ignore it due to medical problems and reasons.
40% of the women in Your family or women You know? Grin


Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:29 PM
Judging her is not going to change anything.  Jesus will not judge her so who am I to judge her?
You for wait make we hear Jesus' version of the story first na. . . . Pls consult the Bible.

Jesus wouldn't judge her if she's repentant but believe me, she will rot in the hottest
part of hell if she adheres to Your advice mama. Grin Wink

Quote from: omatu on  6-09-2009 04:29 PM
Joseph stayed with Mary and the baby Jesus was not his.
Don't deviate. Off topic offence is punishable by ban. Grin

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