anything wrong for woman to finance marriage? (Page 5)

Paying for groom price is Indian culture.  Paying for bride price is African culture.

Posted: at 25-09-2009 11:58 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Women's possition in the family/relationship should be complementary - not taking the whole burden.

If they man is not capable (not being lazy this time cus some are), then the woman should empower him and let him take over from there.

WOMEN DO NOT FINANCE YOUR WEDDING!

CONTRIBUTE INSTEAD.

Posted: at 25-09-2009 12:44 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

ok mr kisser

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Posted: at 25-09-2009 12:52 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

LET THE PARENTS PAY IT OR FAMILY PUT MONEY TOGETHER AND CELEBRATE

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Posted: at 25-09-2009 02:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

this is the worst.

Posted: at 25-09-2009 11:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

anyhow sha.

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Posted: at 26-09-2009 04:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

There is everything wrong in finncing and even contributing in anyway to assist a man financilly when he does not have. i had taken over the responsibility of catering for our son, myself, him and his youbger ones but for one day i was never allowed any happines from him and his family members.

out of the food stuff i struggled to buy, the younger ones give them out to friends, the father and sister come regularly to attack me that i dnt give them money even when they know their son had lost his job and he just sits and watches to the extent his father came to phisically abuse me callking me all manner of names and accusing me to be from a cursed family, if not thyeir son wouldnt have lost his job less than two years after our marriage.

when he got his job he became very terrible and even accused me of not wantin him to get a job.   

Posted: at 27-09-2009 08:07 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

i dont tink its kul

Posted: at 27-09-2009 04:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

If the woman is able financially, she can assist d man; but if to leave everything for her, hell No!. cos it seems she's d one  marrying d man then

Posted: at 27-09-2009 07:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

She can carry all d family financial problem if d husband lost his job or.....; but financing marriage alone by d woman No! unless if d woman  is using dat to buy d guys love, which i n u know dat (often) such marriage don't last, dat's why am still saying no in women financing marriage alone

Posted: at 27-09-2009 08:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac