I am so so confused

Date: 08-10-2009 3:23 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Ayanfe
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- at 8-10-2009 03:23 PM (14 years ago)
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My guy is in the UK - he wont be coming home till next year.
The problem am having now is that i feel very bad anytime i turn a guy down cos i always feel like hmmm - 
what if the one am chasing them off for decides to mess up?

And again, most of my friends are not helping matters cos they feel my guy can end up disappointing me.

What do u think I should do cos I really love this my guy so much. Huh? Huh? Huh? Undecided Undecided Undecided

Posted: at 8-10-2009 03:23 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- Akpan01 at 8-10-2009 03:27 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmm...he is not garantee...

Posted: at 8-10-2009 03:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Temmysam at 8-10-2009 03:32 PM (14 years ago)
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pray over it my dear sister
Posted: at 8-10-2009 03:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- adedun at 8-10-2009 03:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: badex11 on  8-10-2009 03:23 PM
My guy is in the UK - he wont be coming home till next year.
The problem am having now is that i feel very bad anytime i turn a guy down cos i always feel like hmmm - 
what if the one am chasing them off for decides to mess up?

And again, most of my friends are not helping matters cos they feel my guy can end up disappointing me.

What do u think I should do cos I really love this my guy so much. Huh? Huh? Huh? Undecided Undecided Undecided

A LIVING DOG IS BETTER THAN A DEAD LION; SO TAKE YOUR CHANCES NOW
Posted: at 8-10-2009 03:33 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- adedun at 8-10-2009 03:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Temmysam on  8-10-2009 03:32 PM
pray over it my dear sister
yes prayers could move mountain but wisdom is essential
Posted: at 8-10-2009 03:35 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Akpan01 at 8-10-2009 03:52 PM (14 years ago)
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SIS GUY ABROAD R NOT GARANTEE

Posted: at 8-10-2009 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- oyez at 8-10-2009 04:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: badex11 on  8-10-2009 03:23 PM
My guy is in the UK - he wont be coming home till next year.
The problem am having now is that i feel very bad anytime i turn a guy down cos i always feel like hmmm - 
what if the one am chasing them off for decides to mess up?

And again, most of my friends are not helping matters cos they feel my guy can end up disappointing me.

What do u think I should do cos I really love this my guy so much. Huh? Huh? Huh? Undecided Undecided Undecided

he'll be coming home Next Year u say, well just wait for another 365 days..if he disappoints, you wont be too old to start searching again..afterall, u'l just be a year older.

Posted: at 8-10-2009 04:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 8-10-2009 04:52 PM (14 years ago)
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HMMM U THINK SAY E GO BE BACK IN 1 YEAR ABI??O BOY GO SLEEP..HE WILL NOT BACK IN THE NEXT 5 TO 10 YEARS...

Posted: at 8-10-2009 04:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- SexyJuly at 8-10-2009 04:57 PM (14 years ago)
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I believe u know him more than anyone does so dont just conclude by what ur friends say. Again, Is there any sign of the ralationship crumbbling? If yes, then something is wrong somewhere but if not, why bothering urself!
Posted: at 8-10-2009 04:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- around_d_corner at 8-10-2009 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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GURL TRY HOL BODI IF U KNOW HIS YA MAN..........
Posted: at 8-10-2009 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- SexyJuly at 8-10-2009 05:03 PM (14 years ago)
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No be to hold body be the issue. She didnt say she's tempted.
Posted: at 8-10-2009 05:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Hearthrob at 8-10-2009 05:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Don't know what to say, just pray n then follow your heart
Posted: at 8-10-2009 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SexyJuly at 8-10-2009 05:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmmnn......Sister in da Lord! Grin Grin Grin Lips Sealed
Posted: at 8-10-2009 05:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- badex11 at 8-10-2009 05:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: SexyJuly on  8-10-2009 04:57 PM
I believe u know him more than anyone does so dont just conclude by what ur friends say. Again, Is there any sign of the ralationship crumbbling? If yes, then something is wrong somewhere but if not, why bothering urself!

Thanks...just the kinda encouragement i needed.
Posted: at 8-10-2009 05:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- PreetyInstinct at 8-10-2009 05:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: badex11 on  8-10-2009 03:23 PM
My guy is in the UK - he wont be coming home till next year.
The problem am having now is that i feel very bad anytime i turn a guy down cos i always feel like hmmm - 
what if the one am chasing them off for decides to mess up?

And again, most of my friends are not helping matters cos they feel my guy can end up disappointing me.

What do u think I should do cos I really love this my guy so much. Huh? Huh? Huh? Undecided Undecided Undecided
[/quote]@By d way y r u waiting 4 him?is he coming bck 2 continue ur relationship or marry u?2 much doubt is not gud sha confusion wurreva u call it chow!

Posted: at 8-10-2009 05:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 8-10-2009 06:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: badex11 on  8-10-2009 03:23 PM
My guy is in the UK - he wont be coming home till next year.
The problem am having now is that i feel very bad anytime i turn a guy down cos i always feel like hmmm - 
what if the one am chasing them off for decides to mess up?

And again, most of my friends are not helping matters cos they feel my guy can end up disappointing me.

What do u think I should do cos I really love this my guy so much. Huh? Huh? Huh? Undecided Undecided Undecided

lol

Posted: at 8-10-2009 06:35 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- around_d_corner at 8-10-2009 06:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: SexyJuly on  8-10-2009 05:07 PM
Hmmnn......Sister in da Lord! Grin Grin Grin Lips Sealed
SIS U NO FIT TALK BETA NAWA.
Posted: at 8-10-2009 06:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- GlamourPuss at 11-02-2010 05:12 PM (14 years ago)
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u hav just to wait. dts d best u can do 4now.b patient. den u will decide if hes worth of ur waitin
Posted: at 11-02-2010 05:12 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- docreala at 11-02-2010 05:46 PM (14 years ago)
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dey do am softly
Posted: at 11-02-2010 05:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 11-02-2010 07:15 PM (14 years ago)
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prepare for any eventuality....
but try not to blame urself if anything should go wrong.
after all u did wot u did cos u believed....but put a time limit to it nd and move on afterwards.
so dat u dnt wait endlessly
Posted: at 11-02-2010 07:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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