Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship ? (Page 6)

it depends...either kills or make stronger

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Posted: at 25-10-2009 10:02 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Sex on a first date harms a relationship, it dosent allow it to grow. and such relationship wont go far, it end in a short while. Absentism is the best. so zip up till u get married.

Posted: at 26-10-2009 11:19 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

hmm, have never been that sharp or lucky either to have sex on first date, its great on the score card of the guy but the woman is veiwed eventually like a tramp

Posted: at 26-10-2009 02:01 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

i don't kno about on first date, but sex na sex

Posted: at 26-10-2009 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It dosnt matter if it happens on d very get-go dt rælly affect a relationship.in fact it might not even affect if d'rs respect 4it thereafter
Though God dosnt want it b4 marriage bt dats nt d penalty
I tink d ræl monster is ABUSE. 'Cos if we av any factor dt can hlp a relationshp grow,try & abuse it then see wot happens.its like this
How&why did u start ur date i mæn was d'r any 4sex-feeling on ur first date even if managd not to!
Yes its gud 2b sexy bt d'r shld b orderliness.
Was ur expresion (Attitudes: looks,wears,talk,behaviour etc) on d very first day præching sex?
Even in ur rltnshp,do u both respect sex?
Or u're just a kind of anytime,anywia,anyday!
Do u alwz pet ur partner wt sex wen he's angry?
Do u both av sex wen u wanted OR its just dt u pleased him wen he wants it while u only managed to force him wen u wants it?(even if at all he would)

If all or any of these is yes then u'll find out ur man wld av been threatning u trying 2call it quit long ago bt all u cld do was just to try ur best plæse him wit ur sexy endowment only 2b buying urself some time till he found another sex machine bt the problem is what if he found a true love instead of a sex-machine who he respects,isnt rædy to do all u could?Then he needs 2feed his thing so u move 2sex-partner-level.

Yes u rælly dnt buy the idea bt wot about d lies he's got in2 ur head? Or u've grown too fond 4him or his thing So u just decided 2b managing till u get ur own real man which might eventually nt b ræl cos u only needed a saviour @dt time not dt u're convinced he's d man.
Then @ur quest for betterness u only worsen d case cos u'll tink wot u want&u'r doin is d solution bt lo! Its just a promotion into worse till it bcoms worst. Thats why u see those Addicts,betrayer,killer,snatcher,home-brækers etc out there


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Posted: at 26-10-2009 04:51 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Well, sex is bad on the first date becos both have not really known each other very well before engaging in it and also both should be aware that sex bonds a relationship. So if the luv is not there, the relationship will not last.

Posted: at 26-10-2009 07:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT CENTRES ON SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NOT GLORIFYING GOD AND MY HYPOTHESIS IS THAT, THE RELATIONSHIP CANNOT LAST BECAUSE GOD IS NOT INVOLVED.

Posted: at 27-10-2009 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

 depend on the party involed.what they belive in

Posted: at 27-10-2009 08:14 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

agreed with u coz i got lucky .

Posted: at 28-10-2009 01:40 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

any way to some people it might loook nice,to another coupl;e it might look awful but it's not the best to do as in the first time in the relationship

 

Posted: at 29-10-2009 11:01 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie