Would You Quit Your Job If Hubby Insists? (Page 5)

well dat's truth and dat lady don't know right
becos thing are turn fast as we speak
for me i will let quit her job,we will take care of the family together becos dat's why we married in first place

Posted: at 22-11-2009 06:04 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

this is simple.
if the man can cater for the family's needs then she can stop work
else she shd go home and take care of the children and still do
some little stuffs to get money ( this is where skill acquisition comes in)
u see ladies, go get hand work (skill) abeg. it is important

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Posted: at 23-11-2009 04:50 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

IF JOB IS FOREFEITED FOR LOVE THEN WHAT WILL THE FAMILY FEED ON

Posted: at 23-11-2009 10:16 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Thank GOD i can not marry husband with village mentality LET HIM QUIT his job and c how nice it is to stay in the house witho doing anything when d landlord will brush us out of the house no b only quit

Posted: at 23-11-2009 04:43 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It will only take the grace of God for understanding to come in, so i'll advice the husband to take up the issue with love and understanding bcos of this Economic Melt-down, Naija is going through now.

Posted: at 24-11-2009 09:20 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

funny but there should try to work it out.may be may be not somthing is fishing somewhere .she should watch out if giving up her job will bring problem she should lay low and there look for a solution rather than  her quitting, there decide an alternative.she works in a low hours  job so peace will reign.

Posted: at 24-11-2009 10:47 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

the simple truth! plan on how you're going to live your marriage life while single so things don't get complicated.
and sure, everybody is happy.

Posted: at 24-11-2009 11:25 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Marriage comes with great responsibilities and sacrifices are part of it.

Both man and wife must also know that marrige also helps each other in realising personal goals and aspirations.
While I agree that it is quite an unpleasant ewxperience for the wife to give up her career, she has to weigh that against the future of her children. Is it better to sacrifice the future of her children at the alter of career?
I just heard somebody ask:

WHY NOT THE MAN?

It is primarilly the RESPONSIBILITY OF THE MAN to provide for his family while the woman is a A HELPER.

However, both parties having a sincere open minded discussion on the issue will go a long way to solving the problem. That way, there will definitely be a point of compromise reached  where everybody will still be happy MAN, WIFE & CHILDREN) without anyone feeling uneccessarilly denied of personal aspirations

Posted: at 24-11-2009 12:15 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Marriage comes with great responsibilities and sacrifices are part of it.

Both man and wife must also know that marrige also helps each other in realising personal goals and aspirations.
While I agree that it is quite an unpleasant ewxperience for the wife to give up her career, she has to weigh that against the future of her children. Is it better to sacrifice the future of her children at the alter of career?
I just heard somebody ask:

WHY NOT THE MAN?

It is primarilly the RESPONSIBILITY OF THE MAN to provide for his family while the woman is a A HELPER.

However, both parties having a sincere open minded discussion on the issue will go a long way to solving the problem. That way, there will definitely be a point of compromise reached  where everybody will still be happy MAN, WIFE & CHILDREN) without anyone feeling uneccessarilly denied of personal aspirations

Posted: at 24-11-2009 12:25 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

well i will not quit my job because nowadays is not the husband that is going to provide for the family .you do not have quit rather think of the support the salary at the end of the month what you can assist the family with

Posted: at 24-11-2009 02:58 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie