Would You Quit Your Job If Hubby Insists? (Page 6)

[email]A woman is not expected to totally take up the work of a man ,so she should be ready
to quit anytime but with a clause that the man will take care of all the other responsibilities.

Posted: at 24-11-2009 03:01 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

 can't quit my job for any thing! It means the guy wants to limit me, its not possible!Expect he's ready to give me a huge amount of money to start a businees, i can consider it! That is the only condition! At least he knew my job before marrying me, can he quit his job too A career i've spent so many years of my life building, kts not possible! These are some of the things we ought to be putting into consideration during relationship and courtship, but we focus on unneccesary things. Mr Biggs, sweet sensation and the likes! May God help us!

Friend,
Issues like this are very sensitive and we should not let emotions rule us. The future of your children are at stake and the position you take may make or break their lives and that of your marriage. Rather than put up a brickwall approach, let the husband and wife come to the table like two grown adults and DISCUSS IT and find a way forward around the challenge. Dialogue with honest and sincere heart will clear the way.

Posted: at 25-11-2009 11:17 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

if i have 2 quit,he has 2  b ready 2 look after us

Posted: at 25-11-2009 02:09 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Every woman loves her family. Every working class wife loves her job and is also a supporter in teh family. It is not a matter of quitting job. It is what can be discussed between the two parties. Can't another house maid be employed?

Posted: at 26-11-2009 08:36 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Honestly my family comes first b4 my/my wife's job. Who are we working 4? Primarily, we work 4 our families. However, there could be a better way of resolving such issue. From what I read, d house-help's intention to leave has greatly contributed to the man asking the wife to quit her job. If that's a major contributory factor, then they (husband/wife) should get another house-help who could competently fill the vacuum that'd be created when the serving hose-hepl leaves. The wife should learn to come back home as early as she could. Some women/wives are in the habit of leaving the running of thir homes for the house-helps. Too bad! If this cannot resolve the issue, then let her resign. If quiting becomes the solution, then the man has got more financial challenges to contain with. Better still, another job that can allow the wife take care of the home could be sought, especially teaching.

Posted: at 29-11-2009 11:02 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

my family will come first, i have to take a good care of my husband & children. so if it warrant quitting my job i will do so. but i have to engage myself in some other things, like getting a shop and start something..

Posted: at 30-11-2009 08:59 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

it is not easy but think of this, assuming she was working and get marry to someone who is working in abroad, will she quit the job and go for the marriage or remain in her job? or she is not working and after the marriage the husband lost his job, will she pack out of the house? poster be very careful or you may forfeit your marriage, obey before complain. he did not marry u because u are working but because he love, remember he can do anything to protect that love he has for u. answer dis question, is your certificate only have value in the company that are working presently or not? don't lost your faith in God.

Posted: at 30-11-2009 04:19 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Wel dey didn't plan it wel at d beginnin. So in a situation lyk dis, she has to quit her job

Posted: at 3-12-2009 04:15 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

d man ve to be ready to face all the financial challenges without complains then

Posted: at 4-12-2009 09:37 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Why must it be de woman?

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Posted: at 6-12-2009 10:14 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac