men sleeping with their house maids...who's to blame? (Page 2)

marriage without self-control...is like confee without sugar or honey.

@poster...Well I don't about "greater blame". Every party (Husband, wife and maid) had a part in such a situation.

Husband: He's the man of the house and he should make sure his house is in other. He shouldnt stoop so low as to having an affair with his maid. He shouldn't take advantage of the a maid (even with her consent, it is called Psychological rape).

Wife: A wife should be up and doing, always attractive to her husband and never failing in her duties. As a woman, she should know the home better, sensitive enough to smell any crooked ways b4 it blows out to an affair. I must add, no wife should see a maid as a rival, (and step down) that's a complex issue.

Maid:The less-experienced one in the "love-triangle" lol. If she refused to the husband's advances, the worst he can do is send her out of the home and men are not known for that. She gets the blame for granting access to the man. No man (sane or insane) will see a ripe young lady in his house and not make a pass or at least a second look. When the babe no be him daughter and she dey chop him food. e easy?

well, both parties ar at fault....but it tends to be to wife's fault, cuz a maid suddenly bcame the woman of the house suddenly...so she took dat opportunity given to her by the wife, to have a taste of the wife's bed space.
On the second note, the man is also at fault, cuz he is jst irresponsible, even tho his wife put him on a knife edge.
He shld hav atleast had self control and repected the term "marriage"

chicken,duck?lol....i'll never be satisfied with either......i'll rather go for turkey

Both of them are to blame, but let the ladies sit up and stop been madam outside and inside the house. remember the man also is human and not a super angel.

SLEEPING WITH HOUSE MAID IS NOT THE ISSUE........................MY QUESTION IS THIS............IS THE MAN MARRIED?..IF YES IS WRONG............BUT IF NO NOO TO BE BLAME