The untold truth about American marriages [Nigerians in diaspora] (Page 4)

Date: 03-02-2010 8:00 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- Josamase at 4-02-2010 11:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Everyone jut bull talk on this issue.. This is not making any sense from some dumb contributors to this editor's story. What is the true TITLE OF THIS ARTICLE?: "African women and their Marriages in America". Or  "African women And Their Professions As Nurses in America" This is not just Nigerian Woman issue, But Africans in General, Whether you are Ghanians, Ivorians, Cameroonians etc: Ones they becouse one lousy nurse, most of them will substitute their profession for their marriages. The reasons they got married in  the first place is to come to America, and after that they compete economically in their own homes with their husbands ones they become nurses, and not to support their husbands. Well I blame some men for using Nursing profession as a cateria to choose their wives. Well God help us all. We all will account to God one day. Marriage is an institution, and not a profession ordained by almighty God
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- ajiluv at 4-02-2010 11:08 PM (14 years ago)
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azubike u are very right,why on earth we anyone come here to talk traush her skin dosint even look it i hope she isnt one of the hotel nurses,just keep ur openion to urself miss america.we in europe are even more beter than the americans ghetto life.
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- amehyaks at 5-02-2010 12:11 AM (14 years ago)
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Your tory too long I beg. I even sleep off before I finish am.

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- prince4rich at 5-02-2010 01:13 AM (14 years ago)
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BITCH ASHWO WAITING U THEY TALK,WHY U NO TALK WAITING HAPPEN TO U AND UR HUSBAND U DON GO phyuk FROM WORK UR HUSBAND DON KNOW AND HE DO DRIVE U NA U COME HERE WON COME RUN UR MOUTH NA TODAY U START TO SEE SAY LIFE NA 50-50 U THINK SAY NA BEFOR WHEN UNA THEY SHITE MEN  IF UNA WON DO HAIR U GO ASK MAN MONEY U WON GO TOLET U GO ASK MAN MONEY ANYTHING UNA WON DO AND UNA FAMILY PROBLEM UNA GO PUT AM FOR MAN HEAD MY SISTER IF U NEVER KNOW LEVEL DON CHANGE U HAER ME.HOW MUCH U THINK SAY U GET WERE MAKE U THEY INSULT MEN HERE UR PAPA BUILD COMPANY FOR THEM FOR U.S.A WHEN U THEY ADVICE WOMEN MAKE THEM KNOW THE JOB WHEN THEIR MAN THEY DO BEFOR THEM GO MARRY THEM U THINK SAY NA ALL WOMEN BE LIKE YOU,LOOK UR AGE U DON OLD AND I BELIEVE STRONGELY SAY NA U NO GET MAN AND CHILDREN FOR UR LIFE,COME NIGERIA MAKE REALLY MEN CRAK U COLLECT THAT MONEY WHEN THEY MAKE U PROUD.MINED UR OWN FAMILY LIVE IF U EVEN GET AND LEAVE OTHERS PEOPLE LIFE TEACHER.EUROPE AMERICAN ANYWERE AS FAR MAN EVERY BODY COME THERE NA GOD WITH ALL US ALL ONE ON HIS OWN HEAR WAITING I TELL U MAKE U NO THEY OPEN UR MOUTH ANYHOW BECOS U WON MAKE PEOPLE KNOW U FOR RUBBISH
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- TrillynTrully at 5-02-2010 01:29 AM (14 years ago)
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i dont get what an OWL has to do with it...
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- omatu at 5-02-2010 02:55 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: loveme4u on  4-02-2010 02:52 PM
i totaly disagree wiv u on dat nt all men in us live like dat all u wrote here is just a sheet infact u re chattin sheet i am wiv sum one who dnt have papper an dnt have moni i still pay all the bills so wt re u talkin about rubbish!!!

Thank you.
Send me some.
Posted: at 5-02-2010 02:55 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omatu at 5-02-2010 03:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: abbeyy74 on  4-02-2010 03:46 PM
it is normal that most nigeria guys will hate what Eucharia iheme has just written about but i tell u it is the owl truth,but i tell u this is in the owl europe not only america alone,and the guys dont wait until u are a nurse,i tell u anything at all that brings money.i am married and i tell u guys this thing happen here as well and am living withness to most marrages that are under going the same problem.the men will love u only when u giving money to them and after a week,if the nest money is not coming then they pick up a querel with for no reason.in america according to eucharia they share the bills between both of them,but i tell u here the wife carries all the bills and the man keeps all his money for nigeria businesses and his families.and they still ends up calling the wife a bad women after meeting end for the family,it doesnt matter whether the woman just gave birth or not she have to work and this men in question can never assist in any house work,the women will work fot the house,take care of the house and food,the children,all what the married men do is to sit by the T:V,computer and make personal phone calls where they will report to their families and their freinds how God have been favouring their wivies instead of them.pls guys once again am talking about both couples being black here.

All the men that want a wive for a nurse should all go study to become nurses.
Posted: at 5-02-2010 03:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omatu at 5-02-2010 03:02 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Vixenx on  4-02-2010 04:24 PM
EAUCHARIA IHEME HAS GOT SOME ISSUES....................................SHE IS LYING LYING LYING LYING!!!

The girl wanted to be on the front page to make some extra money , so they paid her to tell lies........Because what she is saying is not true at all, maybe a little about the part where "if you don't work you don't eat"..duhhhhhhhh that's every where and not just in America...but as far as all those other things she's claiming are lies.

Her life story may be different from you.  It is her story that she shared.  How about sharing your life story with us?
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- omatu at 5-02-2010 03:05 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Josamase on  4-02-2010 11:07 PM
Everyone jut bull talk on this issue.. This is not making any sense from some dumb contributors to this editor's story. What is the true TITLE OF THIS ARTICLE?: "African women and their Marriages in America". Or  "African women And Their Professions As Nurses in America" This is not just Nigerian Woman issue, But Africans in General, Whether you are Ghanians, Ivorians, Cameroonians etc: Ones they becouse one lousy nurse, most of them will substitute their profession for their marriages. The reasons they got married in  the first place is to come to America, and after that they compete economically in their own homes with their husbands ones they become nurses, and not to support their husbands. Well I blame some men for using Nursing profession as a cateria to choose their wives. Well God help us all. We all will account to God one day. Marriage is an institution, and not a profession ordained by almighty God
Go and become a nurse.
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- omatu at 5-02-2010 03:09 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: prince4rich on  5-02-2010 01:13 AM
BITCH ASHWO WAITING U THEY TALK,WHY U NO TALK WAITING HAPPEN TO U AND UR HUSBAND U DON GO phyuk FROM WORK UR HUSBAND DON KNOW AND HE DO DRIVE U NA U COME HERE WON COME RUN UR MOUTH NA TODAY U START TO SEE SAY LIFE NA 50-50 U THINK SAY NA BEFOR WHEN UNA THEY SHITE MEN  IF UNA WON DO HAIR U GO ASK MAN MONEY U WON GO TOLET U GO ASK MAN MONEY ANYTHING UNA WON DO AND UNA FAMILY PROBLEM UNA GO PUT AM FOR MAN HEAD MY SISTER IF U NEVER KNOW LEVEL DON CHANGE U HAER ME.HOW MUCH U THINK SAY U GET WERE MAKE U THEY INSULT MEN HERE UR PAPA BUILD COMPANY FOR THEM FOR U.S.A WHEN U THEY ADVICE WOMEN MAKE THEM KNOW THE JOB WHEN THEIR MAN THEY DO BEFOR THEM GO MARRY THEM U THINK SAY NA ALL WOMEN BE LIKE YOU,LOOK UR AGE U DON OLD AND I BELIEVE STRONGELY SAY NA U NO GET MAN AND CHILDREN FOR UR LIFE,COME NIGERIA MAKE REALLY MEN CRAK U COLLECT THAT MONEY WHEN THEY MAKE U PROUD.MINED UR OWN FAMILY LIVE IF U EVEN GET AND LEAVE OTHERS PEOPLE LIFE TEACHER.EUROPE AMERICAN ANYWERE AS FAR MAN EVERY BODY COME THERE NA GOD WITH ALL US ALL ONE ON HIS OWN HEAR WAITING I TELL U MAKE U NO THEY OPEN UR MOUTH ANYHOW BECOS U WON MAKE PEOPLE KNOW U FOR RUBBISH
She has the right to tell her own story.
Posted: at 5-02-2010 03:09 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sweetrobinb at 5-02-2010 03:21 AM (14 years ago)
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Well some of what is said is true, but most is not.
You do have to pay for every single thing here, including water...but did you know....if you have no job the government will give you money, pay for housing, food and medical?
That's why the taxes are so high...
If you fall on hard times..you collect more than what you've paid.
And women here are not 'second class'.  We don't have to depend on anyone...at all.  If you're married and have children..and your husband leaves  you for whatever reason..the government will make him pay you AND pay for all the children.  You will continue to live as you have but may not be able to shop as much. 
It's ok...all Naija women should come here..not to look for husband but to look for themselves.

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- sweetrobinb at 5-02-2010 03:27 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: TrillynTrully on  5-02-2010 01:29 AM
i dont get what an OWL has to do with it...
Me either.  LOL!

Posted: at 5-02-2010 03:27 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- sweetrobinb at 5-02-2010 03:30 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Vixenx on  4-02-2010 04:24 PM
EAUCHARIA IHEME HAS GOT SOME ISSUES....................................SHE IS LYING LYING LYING LYING!!!

The girl wanted to be on the front page to make some extra money , so they paid her to tell lies........Because what she is saying is not true at all, maybe a little about the part where "if you don't work you don't eat"..duhhhhhhhh that's every where and not just in America...but as far as all those other things she's claiming are lies.


If you don't work you WILL eat.  Go to the government and get foodstamps...trade them in for whatever you want to eat..the government will pay.  Here..the poorest are the fattest..and a sign  of wealth is being slender...

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- caseycute at 5-02-2010 03:33 AM (14 years ago)
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okay i read dis long azz sh.it and dis woman is just generalizing...big deal..any type of health care job makes lots of money..duh!! but d whole violence and stress crap pls i dnt buy dat if she has been unlucky with men oh well but she shldnt come and say all dis like she is studying men...am sure she is single tho

its obvious a man dat isn't doing so well wld want a woman dat is finacially stable..and some1 without paper wld try to get with some1 dat has to betta his own life...but dis is d same with a woman. Wat lady wants to marry a poor man or some man dat is paperless like her...

she keeps saying Nurses make shit load of money but dats cos dey work a lot of overtime hours..
lastly there is no Place in d world whr every1 aint concerned bout money....erry1 wants to b successful.
so basically she is making too much noise...she needs to get married n shut d hell up.
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- sweetrobinb at 5-02-2010 03:35 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Josamase on  4-02-2010 11:07 PM
Everyone jut bull talk on this issue.. This is not making any sense from some dumb contributors to this editor's story. What is the true TITLE OF THIS ARTICLE?: "African women and their Marriages in America". Or  "African women And Their Professions As Nurses in America" This is not just Nigerian Woman issue, But Africans in General, Whether you are Ghanians, Ivorians, Cameroonians etc: Ones they becouse one lousy nurse, most of them will substitute their profession for their marriages. The reasons they got married in  the first place is to come to America, and after that they compete economically in their own homes with their husbands ones they become nurses, and not to support their husbands. Well I blame some men for using Nursing profession as a cateria to choose their wives. Well God help us all. We all will account to God one day. Marriage is an institution, and not a profession ordained by almighty God
What are you squawking about?  Most American women are not nurses because they don't want to be..you have to wipe the backsides of others and all that. Yuck!  Accountants, teachers,  InfoTech, stuff like that for women here..make lots of money and keep your hands clean.

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- sweetrobinb at 5-02-2010 03:40 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Angelaaa on  4-02-2010 10:48 AM
Those men are called parasite....
Amen, Sister.  They are so accustomed to women doing something for them!  Ugh!  both do for each other here...or get packing!!

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- sweetrobinb at 5-02-2010 03:44 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ch33sbabe on  4-02-2010 10:43 AM
Wink this is xzactly wat is happpenin 2 me ooooo Lips Sealed     
Go get another man who makes as money as  you do..you'll be fine and happy too!
If you make enuf money you can have house help if you choose it BUT if you teach your children to be clean, you will NOT need much help!1 What help  is there you need?  run the vacuum, put the clothes in washer and dryer...sweep the floor and mop it with the disposable mop thingy...it's easy.  Spray the bathrooms..wait a few minutes and rinse..
Come on now...if you live here, you know this!!

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- pnwagod at 5-02-2010 05:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Eucharia is one of those bad women destroying men and other people's marriages.  In fact, this unqualified marriage counselor is not a good woman. If she wants to challenge me, I will publish her case record of the web. It is only a stupid Nigeria girl that will listen to a family destroyer like Eucharia. Ask this Ms marriage expert how many time Police has come into their house? What her type are good at doing is to run from one state to another seeking for refuge and young Nigerian men to destroy. Some of them goes for Onyibo "D" who will dump them after using toys on their Eve; then they will begin to look for a Nigeria man's neck to hang their wahala. Some goes home to buy what we call Mkpi...that is Nigerian men that are desperate to come to America. I pity you Eucharia because you are a bad woman.
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- Azubuike1 at 5-02-2010 08:10 AM (14 years ago)
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Toyosidada, with due respect, I'm an American college educated. Don't worry, I shall surely respond to your ignorance, with regards to the above matter when time permits me to do just that, but let me ask you:what's your mother's tax bracket to Uncle Sam, with an annual salary of $90,000? From experience, only nurses with an MSN degree may earn much from a single job, depending on area of specialization.  Besides, how long has your  mother been on the job,  what's her degree(s)?  A.S, BSN or MSN dual with MPH or even higher? So, don't even start those lies, now.  You'll hear from me soon.
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- Azubuike1 at 5-02-2010 08:24 AM (14 years ago)
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Toyosidada, with due respect, I'm an American college educated. Don't worry, I shall surely respond to your ignorance, with regards to the above matter when time permits me to do just that, but let me ask you:what's your mother's tax bracket to Uncle Sam, with an annual salary of $90,000? From experience, only nurses with an MSN degree may earn much from a single job, depending on area of specialization.  Besides, how long has your  mother been on the job,  what's her degree(s)?  A.S, BSN or MSN dual with MPH or even higher? So, don't even start those lies, now.  You'll hear from me soon.
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