For love will you marry a jobless man? (Page 7)

It depends. Was he doing something before now? Are the potentials there that he would likely bounce back? What is his level of education? With his qualification can he get a meaningful job? The fact that he is jobless today does not mean he cannot get one tomorrow. Supposing he was a successful business man and something happened that made him to be temporarily down, would that mean his end, No. We should not be quick to say Yes or No.          
By and large, the man should not go into marriag at that time he is jobless

Posted: at 1-03-2010 11:04 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Well, there is no reasonable man that will be thinking that his wife should head his family, because once a man can not provide for all the needs in the house is an incomplete man. So, a complete man is one with a job. But, if is after marriage one of the parties lost his/her job, life should continue because she/he will sure surly get one later. I wish i could advice we men of this generation  to know how to handle somethings doing as backup no matter how small it is apart from jobs.

Posted: at 1-03-2010 02:30 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Na wa oh!

Posted: at 1-03-2010 03:38 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Marrying a jobless man is not the problem here but staying true to your woman whn the silver linning appears on ur cloud of joblessness.

I have seen women who married jobless men for love and suffered to cover whatever humiliation it may bring on the man and the family only for those men to either abandon such women for fresher ones. since suffering wuld have made the original wife to shrink in her looks.

I will not make such mistake. I will rather wait for u to get sumtin doing no matter hw little. I will wait for him.

Posted: at 1-03-2010 04:00 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

From all indication, it seems like there is misconception about the whole issue and if i want to get it clear, this topic suppose to be'' CAN YOU MARRY A JOBLESS MAN'' and not SHOULD YOU BE MARRIED TO A JOBLESS MAN.
IF you really take a critical look at the whole topic, it's very dicy one but to be very frank, as a man that has the intention of getting marry to a lady one day.you must first of all try as much as possible assess yourself whether you are fit financially knowing fully well that the whole bulk of the expensive will come from you as a man.Then if you are jobless -whether will the money come from ever if you intent to borrow if the case may be. But the other way round,  if you were already into  marriage proper and just of suddently you husband lost his job ,as a lady you have no other option than to weather the storm with the hope that no condition is permanent and again, the fall of a man never the end of his life. MY ADVICE to aspiring sprinter is that look very well before you lip.

Posted: at 1-03-2010 04:20 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Am handsome but de only thin i am jobless any body like 2 mary me.

Posted: at 2-03-2010 09:40 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Irresponsibility is not good for men, though to get a good job is not easy in 9ja but pls get a job and take care of our women they deserve it. 9 months is not easy and 18 years of caring and teaching our babies is not a play. tombs up for all 9ja women. i love 9ja women nwem kissss...

Posted: at 2-03-2010 10:41 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

  MARRY A JOBLESS MAN IS NOT A CRIME BUT MARRY A LAZY MAN IS D ISSUE BECAUSE A JOBLESS MAN CAN STILL GET A JOB AND WORK, BUT A LAZY MAN WILL ALWAYS FIND A JOB BUT LAZY TO WORK. MY FELLOW SISTERS THINK OVER IT, HORZZLER AMN IS THE BEST.

Posted: at 2-03-2010 03:51 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

i wil not eat love ma dear so you ve to get a job 4 urself to be able 2 pay ma bills

Posted: at 2-03-2010 04:29 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

U really have good MENTALITY of reasoning and understanding.

Posted: at 2-03-2010 07:50 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac