![-]( "mikendem") mikendem at 21-03-2011 07:37 PM (13 years ago)  (m) bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb | Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 21-03-2011 07:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?
A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname. God bless u my sista. After my papa suffer train me, one man go come xpect me 2 throway my papa name. Na lie o. MAKE U GO MARRY YOUR PAPA OOOOOOOOOOOOO | Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 21-03-2011 07:51 PM (13 years ago) (m) this issue was just treated here last week,in the country like nigeria,the law/culture has elustrated it so wide,
its opter for a woman to change her maiden/surname to her husbands,thats ur new family and where u belong
search nigerian marital law, chapter 407 article (4)13c,that will help u enough.it is ur right not force
IT IS NOT ONLY NIGERIA OOO BROS, IT IS ALMOST EVERYWERE IN D WORLD | Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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na name dey course all this | Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "funichi") funichi at 21-03-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) I and my friend was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?
i know what you mean. my sisters married but kept their surname as a middle name, so for example, itohan bassey, becomes itohan bassey-uche. Its important as far as am concerned for kids to have both father and mother's name,because after all they belong to two family coming together. I know definately the guy am dating now if i marry him i immediately take his title as doctor.... so it become Dr. Mrs.......phd, and if he wants he can attach my phd to his name too, so it becomes dr.....engr.phd. At least thats what the law in the state i live in says. If we divorce he can no longer attach my accomplishments to his name, and me vice versa. | Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "funichi") funichi at 21-03-2011 07:59 PM (13 years ago) (f) niaja is fast loosin out her cultures, one day wmen go start to dey pay dowry for man head
but already it is the women that pays dowry in the indian community it happens in parts of naija, especially among the fulani. | Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "funichi") funichi at 21-03-2011 08:01 PM (13 years ago) (f) I and my friend was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?
i know what you mean. my sisters married but kept their surname as a middle name, so for example, itohan bassey, becomes itohan bassey-uche. Its important as far as am concerned for kids to have both father and mother's name,because after all they belong to two family coming together. I know definately the guy am dating now if i marry him i immediately take his title as doctor.... so it become Dr. Mrs.......phd, and if he wants he can attach my phd to his name too, so it becomes dr.....engr.phd. At least thats what the law in the state i live in says. If we divorce he can no longer attach my accomplishments to his name, and me vice versa. oh yeah i wont mind keeping his name, because our last name is the same lol, but we are not related...at alll | Posted: at 21-03-2011 08:01 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "akibirna") akibirna at 21-03-2011 08:11 PM (13 years ago) (m) It is not by force for women to change their maiden to their husbands after being llegally married but it is so stupid to consider how your father suffered to support you right from infant up to your matured age. Firstly, sorry to ask, is your mom having your dad´s name or her maiden name? If your mom is having your dad´s name, that means your mom is more civilised than you. Your university education does not really teach you what is right from what is wrong. | Posted: at 21-03-2011 08:11 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "interpo77") interpo77 at 21-03-2011 08:22 PM (13 years ago) (m) niaja is fast loosin out her cultures, one day wmen go start to dey pay dowry for man head
but already it is the women that pays dowry in the indian community thats indian community noy naija | Posted: at 21-03-2011 08:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 21-03-2011 08:26 PM (13 years ago) (m) I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?
A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname. God bless u my sista. After my papa suffer train me, one man go come xpect me 2 throway my papa name. Na lie o. k..goodluck then | Posted: at 21-03-2011 08:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "aisha89") aisha89 at 21-03-2011 09:08 PM (13 years ago) (f) she must been insane for sayin a man owns the wife wat? the wife belong to nobody except her sef alone and GOD
eyaaaa,its never reach like that na,oya come make i own u  lol funny u
Aishababy | Posted: at 21-03-2011 09:08 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 21-03-2011 09:12 PM (13 years ago) (f) all this blaabla just 4 a name
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 21-03-2011 09:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Anzua") Anzua at 21-03-2011 09:23 PM (13 years ago) (m) It is not by force for women to change their maiden to their husbands after being llegally married but it is so stupid to consider how your father suffered to support you right from infant up to your matured age. Firstly, sorry to ask, is your mom having your dad´s name or her maiden name? If your mom is having your dad´s name, that means your mom is more civilised than you. Your university education does not really teach you what is right from what is wrong.
i lov to hear that bruv......................... | Posted: at 21-03-2011 09:23 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Anzua") Anzua at 21-03-2011 09:25 PM (13 years ago) (m) niaja is fast loosin out her cultures, one day wmen go start to dey pay dowry for man head
but already it is the women that pays dowry in the indian community thats indian community noy naija | Posted: at 21-03-2011 09:25 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 21-03-2011 09:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?
A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname. God bless u my sista. After my papa suffer train me, one man go come xpect me 2 throway my papa name. Na lie o. easy nna huh!! not a must, but don't sound like that b4 your guy send you packing..
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 21-03-2011 09:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "dhowafe") dhowafe at 21-03-2011 09:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) At times i wonder where all these Nigerian girls get's this their mentality from. Miss poster... i guess u shuld be in ur late teens and early 20's.. don't worry, u will soon get there; by the time u start going frm church to church 4 deliverance to a husband, u won't be thinking of ur father's name. | Posted: at 21-03-2011 09:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 21-03-2011 09:57 PM (13 years ago) (m) just imagine the way she sounded
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 21-03-2011 09:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "dhowafe") dhowafe at 21-03-2011 09:58 PM (13 years ago) (m) At times i wonder where all these Nigerian girls get's this their mentality from. Miss poster... i guess u shuld be in ur late teens and early 20's.. don't worry, u will soon get there; by the time u start going frm church to church 4 deliverance to gt a husband, u won't be thinking of ur father's name. | Posted: at 21-03-2011 09:58 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "nnennababe") nnennababe at 21-03-2011 10:04 PM (13 years ago) (f) its no big deal..u can bear both ur dad and hubby's name | Posted: at 21-03-2011 10:04 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "dhowafe") dhowafe at 21-03-2011 10:22 PM (13 years ago) (m) God bless u my sista. After my papa suffer train me, one man go come xpect me 2 throway my papa name. Na lie o. as 4 u, i jst pity u, who 4 train u b4? so at ur age, u no knw say it's ur father's duty to take care of u till u leave his house... hahahahahah na wa!!! go to churches & see handful of ladies wit wrong mentalities lik u, i'm sure some time past, they must hv said something of this nature too, bt 2day, they ar willing to gv d largest offerings to attracts Gods favor for a husband, dress half naked, jst so that a brother will look their way. keep deceiving urself.... | Posted: at 21-03-2011 10:22 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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