![-]( "Adikpe") Adikpe at 22-03-2011 03:04 PM (13 years ago)  (m) Dump and Senseless Post, @poster, is your mother not
bearing your father's name?
NONSENSE | Posted: at 22-03-2011 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 22-03-2011 03:07 PM (13 years ago) (m) Once I pay your bride price, you become my posession......so why wouldnt you take my last name.
That doesnt mean I'ma treat you as a slave as this yeye women like to say, it means we ar one, I will do to you what I want to be done to me,we have become One/United/bonded.
I agree with u on this but I don't like that term POSSESSION...... if you claim say you be christian then you shouldnt have a problem with women being a posession,abi u wan' make i quote bible for you,but there's no need, I can already sense your mind-frame.A woman is a posession love it or hate it. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 03:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 22-03-2011 03:10 PM (13 years ago) (f) Once I pay your bride price, you become my posession......so why wouldnt you take my last name.
That doesnt mean I'ma treat you as a slave as this yeye women like to say, it means we ar one, I will do to you what I want to be done to me,we have become One/United/bonded.
I agree with u on this but I don't like that term POSSESSION...... if you claim say you be christian then you shouldnt have a problem with women being a posession,abi u wan' make i quote bible for you,but there's no need, I can already sense your mind-frame.A woman is a posession love it or hate it. Na u sabi....if u like treat ur seven women like a piece of furniture, na their headache and urs be that.................. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 03:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 22-03-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) (m) REASON,THAT D Once I pay your bride price, you become my posession......so why wouldnt you take my last name.
That doesnt mean I'ma treat you as a slave as this yeye women like to say, it means we ar one, I will do to you what I want to be done to me,we have become One/United/bonded.
I agree with u on this but I don't like that term POSSESSION...... if you claim say you be christian then you shouldnt have a problem with women being a posession,abi u wan' make i quote bible for you,but there's no need, I can already sense your mind-frame.A woman is a posession love it or hate it. Na u sabi....if u like treat ur seven women like a piece of furniture, na their headache and urs be that.................. YOU HEAR OF MEN OF GOD TREATING THEIR WIVES AS FURNITURE?,ABEG FIND ANOTHER REASON, IS THAT THE BEST DEFENCE YOU CAN COME UP WITH,OR U JUST WAN' POST FOR POSTING SAKE.Shey na me talk 7 momen to One man, no be bible. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 22-03-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago) (f) REASON,THAT D Once I pay your bride price, you become my posession......so why wouldnt you take my last name.
That doesnt mean I'ma treat you as a slave as this yeye women like to say, it means we ar one, I will do to you what I want to be done to me,we have become One/United/bonded.
I agree with u on this but I don't like that term POSSESSION...... if you claim say you be christian then you shouldnt have a problem with women being a posession,abi u wan' make i quote bible for you,but there's no need, I can already sense your mind-frame.A woman is a posession love it or hate it. Na u sabi....if u like treat ur seven women like a piece of furniture, na their headache and urs be that.................. YOU HEAR OF MEN OF GOD TREATING THEIR WIVES AS FURNITURE?,ABEG FIND ANOTHER REASON, IS THAT THE BEST DEFENCE YOU CAN COME UP WITH,OR U JUST WAN' POST FOR POSTING SAKE.Shey na me talk 7 momen to One man, no be bible.  | Posted: at 22-03-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 22-03-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago) (f) I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?
A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname. God bless u my sista. After my papa suffer train me, one man go come xpect me 2 throway my papa name. Na lie o. Some of us jst say what we knw we cant do for real. Abeg jor... | Posted: at 22-03-2011 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 22-03-2011 04:32 PM (13 years ago) (f) This answer your argument Madam Poster"Ephesian 5:24...24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in EVERYTHING. " EVERYTHING means including your maiden name ok... Finally bus stop of the argument. If you know u are not ready to do that it is adviceable to remain in your father house.... The most painful things is that we find it difficult to emulate good things in African culture ...Things like this are some of the vices of divorce and separation in marriage. If your husband kick against please don't try but if he accept it good for you... A word is enough for the wise ....remain bless
Well spoken... Taking to a man's name who legally married you is nt am issue, if u love ur husband u will gladly want to bear his name. No wonder d rate of divorce keeps increasing everyday. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 04:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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anytin u lik u answer once u r my wife .. i giv no shit abt dis wahala tin oo ... My own sef keep wht is going to keep d family going and better ... | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ekechibaby") ekechibaby at 22-03-2011 05:54 PM (13 years ago) (f) I see nothing wrong in changing from my dad's to my huby's.......
gbam,tell them ooh I LOVE THAT, TELL THEM OH | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:54 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Omapri") Omapri at 22-03-2011 06:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) IT DOESN'T NOT MATTER THE WOMAN CAN KEEP HER MAIDEN NAME IF SHE WANTS...DAT DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING ALL THAT MATTERS IS U AVE THE RING!!!!!!!!!!!! N U LOVE UR PARTNER | Posted: at 22-03-2011 06:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "kethey") kethey at 22-03-2011 06:43 PM (13 years ago) (f) Reply |
since im d only 1 for my parents i decided to keep my maiden name, just 2 honour my father since he has no son, my hubby agreed and i added his family name 2 it, makes it a compound name. So what!!!!!! it's sound much beta than my hubby's family name  | Posted: at 22-03-2011 06:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "moniconyez") moniconyez at 22-03-2011 07:23 PM (13 years ago) (m) HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM | Posted: at 22-03-2011 07:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "proly") proly at 22-03-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) (f) i deyt pass oooooooooooh | Posted: at 22-03-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "proly") proly at 22-03-2011 08:29 PM (13 years ago) (f) i dey pass dey buy garri | Posted: at 22-03-2011 08:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "habilaabel") habilaabel at 22-03-2011 08:38 PM (13 years ago) (m) IS LOVE THAT MATTER NAME OR NO NAME IS ALL THE SAME | Posted: at 22-03-2011 08:38 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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It is unislamic for a woman to dump her surname because of marriage.Geting married doesnt make you the dauther of someone else.
For a descerning mind,it makes no sence to bear other peoples'surname,and a big cheating indeed.
Really? Never knew that........ Don't mind him. Millions of muslims all over the world bear their husband's names and I 'm sure it is widespread in Nigeria too. | Posted: at 23-03-2011 01:18 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "NenyeN") NenyeN at 23-03-2011 02:02 AM (13 years ago) (m) Na wetin dem oyibo dey call this one... abi na feminism? So the tin don enta Naija like this? Small girl go come say na she no go marry man over surname? Anyway, when the time comes, we go see. When hubby come dey scarce, surname no go dey for her memory.
la m hie Ngwa | Posted: at 23-03-2011 02:02 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "moniconyez") moniconyez at 23-03-2011 09:28 AM (13 years ago) (m) Reply |
![-]( "sobby") sobby at 23-03-2011 12:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) Wats d big deal? if i love my hubby i wil equally love his name. me i don de answer his name since day one... women na waa for una oh!!! Una too think sha... | Posted: at 23-03-2011 12:28 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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