In a chat with Punchng, Muiz Adebiyi who is married to an older American, Susan Smith. and lives in the US with her opened up on their over two-year-old marriage and his reason for marrying her.
Q: What attracted you to your wife despite the obvious disparity in your ages?
A: I am attracted to her because she is very cool, loving, understanding and protective. She has a better behaviour than slay mamas.
Q: How long did you know her before you proposed?
A: We had known each other for two years before we decided to get married three years after.
Q: What profession are you into?
A: I am a soccer player and also a car dealer.
Q: When there are disagreements between the two of you, who apologies first?
A: We both apologise when there are disagreements. But she does that first and more than I do because she is a wise wife who knows that the husband is the head of the house. She knows what marriage means.
Q: Tell us about her.
A: She is a nurse and from the United States of America. She is a short person but with a high intellect. She is quite understanding and the best woman in my life after my mother.
Q: Some people believe you chose her to get a permanent stay or something related. What do you have to say to that?
A: Yes, I know that most people will think that way. But I do not care because I was already a US citizen and that’s not from her.
Q: Having dated a Nigerian lady and now married to an older American, what comparison can you make between the two?
A: My wife is far better than Nigerian ladies in every positive way. She is a wife material.
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Posted: at 3-09-2017 08:17 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
whether he's saying the truth or not, he has a point... An average American girl knows how to treat/respect and take care of a guy very well... but here in Naija, the reverse is the case. Only a few know that marriage is all about sacrifice. and those few are difficult to see. this is not to say that we(men) don't have our faults/loopholes, but rather to emphasize on the need to always be submissive and respect your man.
Posted: at 3-09-2017 10:36 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
whether he's saying the truth or not, he has a point... An average American girl knows how to treat/respect and take care of a guy very well... but here in Naija, the reverse is the case. Only a few know that marriage is all about sacrifice. and those few are difficult to see. this is not to say that we(men) don't have our faults/loopholes, but rather to emphasize on the need to always be submissive and respect your man.
An average American girl knows how to treat a guy, that ain't true . I live in USA , companies and studies, done all these here for years. I have the experiences from friends and families . An average Nigerian girl will treat you good more than a Caucasian or American girl will treat you , the only problem why people in the western countries are afraid of marrying them or bringing them over is just cause of them turning to tigeress immediately they get to the western world. An average Africa girl once over here will learn the western culture and wants you to wash dishes , get her water to drink, feed the kids ,things her mum never had the chance to do lol. While an average western world woman already had done that in their previous marriage before separation or divorce. She will then learn to change her ways coz it didn't work. In all the best is finding a Nigerian girl that is willing to stay with the African culture in western world, believe me she will treat you like a king more
Posted: at 3-09-2017 11:53 AM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
Though 65% of nigerian girls want to turn theirselves to runs girl.. on an average,nigerian girls are far or way better than white ladies. Unless you never dated properly before travelling abroad.. why is it that after marrying white ladies alot of them get back to naija after many years to marry a nigerian girl?
Posted: at 3-09-2017 04:34 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
whether he's saying the truth or not, he has a point... An average American girl knows how to treat/respect and take care of a guy very well... but here in Naija, the reverse is the case. Only a few know that marriage is all about sacrifice. and those few are difficult to see. this is not to say that we(men) don't have our faults/loopholes, but rather to emphasize on the need to always be submissive and respect your man.
Posted: at 4-09-2017 02:33 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
whether he's saying the truth or not, he has a point... An average American girl knows how to treat/respect and take care of a guy very well... but here in Naija, the reverse is the case. Only a few know that marriage is all about sacrifice. and those few are difficult to see. this is not to say that we(men) don't have our faults/loopholes, but rather to emphasize on the need to always be submissive and respect your man.
that aint true if you have good nija babe they are 100 times better that american girls.....black american is the worst
Posted: at 4-09-2017 02:35 AM (7 years ago) | Hero