Candid Talk

Date: 25-04-2010 5:23 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Solomon Nsumei
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- at 25-04-2010 05:23 PM (14 years ago)
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If your fiancee is raped few days before your wedding, how will u feel? will you continue with the wedding or call it off?

Posted: at 25-04-2010 05:23 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- HOPEA23 at 25-04-2010 06:23 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmm..guys topic

Posted: at 25-04-2010 06:23 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ksurrina at 25-04-2010 10:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 25-04-2010 06:23 PM
hmmm..guys topic

lmao remember that men can be raped too  Grin Grin

Posted: at 25-04-2010 10:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ksurrina at 25-04-2010 10:57 PM (14 years ago)
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I will continue with the wedding if he is able to survived the ordeal. If he is raped by a woman then I will subdue my jealousy ask him if he is up to have the wedding on par. If he said yes I will be thinking deep down if he was lying that he was rape. If he was raped by a man then I know that the wedding has to postpone because he will definately need counseling and support after going through that ordeal. Then again he can be a gay and tell lies that he was rape that after the wedding he come tell me that it was because of his being rape he become gay when he started acting fetish. lmao lmao

Posted: at 25-04-2010 10:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- YOUNGDON at 25-04-2010 11:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 25-04-2010 10:57 PM
I will continue with the wedding if he is able to survived the ordeal. If he is raped by a woman then I will subdue my jealousy ask him if he is up to have the wedding on par. If he said yes I will be thinking deep down if he was lying that he was rape. If he was raped by a man then I know that the wedding has to postpone because he will definately need counseling and support after going through that ordeal. Then again he can be a gay and tell lies that he was rape that after the wedding he come tell me that it was because of his being rape he become gay when he started acting fetish. lmao lmao
NP needs more people like you who always make responsible responds to issues.... I think i share your ideal in this case..
Posted: at 25-04-2010 11:38 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 26-04-2010 08:14 AM (14 years ago)
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i will investigate and know if she was the cause of the rape before knowing what to do cos some gurls will walk down to a guys house herself and after everything she will call it a rape..

Posted: at 26-04-2010 08:14 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- docreala at 26-04-2010 03:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Ksurrina don talk am.finito
Posted: at 26-04-2010 03:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- solkings at 27-04-2010 04:25 AM (14 years ago)
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It is confirmed to be a rape incident
Posted: at 27-04-2010 04:25 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Chyno at 27-04-2010 04:36 AM (14 years ago)
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For me, d weddin shld be postpond, dere hs 2 be investigation 1st, den followd  by proper counsellin by a professional cos rape hs psychological effects & if nt properly handled, d aftermath re alwyz disheartening.
Posted: at 27-04-2010 04:36 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sabiti at 27-04-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago)
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sory o,i bin tink say na candy dem dey share na im make me sho face
Posted: at 27-04-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- rbest at 27-04-2010 11:43 AM (14 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 27-04-2010 11:43 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ade_su_wa at 27-04-2010 01:00 PM (14 years ago)
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me too
Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 27-04-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Chyno on 27-04-2010 04:36 AM
For me, d weddin shld be postpond, dere hs 2 be investigation 1st, den followd  by proper counsellin by a professional cos rape hs psychological effects & if nt properly handled, d aftermath re alwyz disheartening.
Thats true, cos the emotional trauma she's passing through might be a dent to our happiness. No need to claim the hero and rush into the marriage. There has to be some psych evaluation on both sides cos the other patner might be distressed whaile the raped person might carry that burden of guilt into the marriage. Face it, being the good guy only destroys your hapiness here.

Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Miss_precious at 27-04-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 25-04-2010 10:52 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 25-04-2010 06:23 PM
hmmm..guys topic
lmao remember that men can be raped too  Grin Grin

only if he is drunk and u have yur friends around lool

Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 27-04-2010 01:12 PM (14 years ago)
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You want to rape me? I'm drunk

Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 27-04-2010 01:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Miss_precious on 27-04-2010 01:08 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 25-04-2010 10:52 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 25-04-2010 06:23 PM
hmmm..guys topic
lmao remember that men can be raped too  Grin Grin

only if he is drunk and u have yur friends around lool
I guess she did it before

Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Miss_precious at 27-04-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 27-04-2010 01:25 PM
Quote from: Miss_precious on 27-04-2010 01:08 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 25-04-2010 10:52 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 25-04-2010 06:23 PM
hmmm..guys topic
lmao remember that men can be raped too  Grin Grin
only if he is drunk and u have yur friends around lool
I guess she did it before

lol dont start o

Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Miss_precious at 27-04-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: OB3ICE on 27-04-2010 01:12 PM
You want to rape me? I'm drunk

wetin i wan rape..your nose or ur dyk??

Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 27-04-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago)
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You no like my face? we go cover am na

Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- docreala at 27-04-2010 01:39 PM (14 years ago)
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ok oo
Posted: at 27-04-2010 01:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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