Should married women go clubbing? (Page 4)

You want to dance with me?

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Posted: at 27-04-2010 07:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

who is him??

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Posted: at 27-04-2010 07:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Talk nar, no long tin

Posted: at 27-04-2010 08:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

This question is funny in view of the perceptions and attitudes of the average African man. An average African man would frown at the idea of his wife going to a club either alone or accompanied by him. The hypocrisy in this is, while they don't want their wives to be present in this environment, they have no qualms looking at or flirting shamelessly with club prostitutes. I wonder why they cannot, for God sake, be bold enough to take their wives along with them and have proper legitimate fun.

On account of this, every African unmarried ladies ought to put aside all inhibitions and have as much "healthy" fun as possible before wedlock. As it is clear that  most African men seem inclined to consigning their women to a life of boredom, because of some useless fears and ego problems.  If you ask me,  some of our men are an hypocritical bunch!!!

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Posted: at 27-04-2010 08:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Na una now!

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Posted: at 27-04-2010 08:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

uhmm i hope say ur ting no short

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Posted: at 27-04-2010 08:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U can't dance at home? Abi is the Boom box with full surround options and Mega Bass sub-woofers not loud enuf for U? Or is it that U just need an audience and Ur husband isnt enuf?

Posted: at 27-04-2010 09:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

I didnt say to dictate and i'm not an advocate of denying people of their rights. However I know that a girl needs guidance thru life and if left unchecked/unguided most girls would end up becoming women that have messed up their lives. The sad thing is that women dont teach or help women like men more effectiely do. A girl makes a mistake and sees some other girl heading towards making that same mistake, chances are she'l hope and pray the other girl does just so she can fill she's not the only one that is stupid/foolish one.

Na from clap dem dey take enter dance. Today it's just harmless clubbing and it's a high for her. Tomorrow she wants to feel that high then she meets some dude and starts leading him on. next tomorrow the devil gets blamed for some extramarital rubbish that happened in Naija while he was busy in Pakistan trying to frustrate Christians from exercising their religious rights.

Girls are too easily driven by emotions and need to have mastered balancing that with logic before they can be trusted to identify right from wrong in the long term. It's either a girl understands this and willingly appreciates it or U just take her as casually as she takes life. That's how I see it.

Don't worry, when U r in love and feeling like Iyawo, all this talk wont be necessary.

Posted: at 27-04-2010 09:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Hear yourself "a woman needs guidance..............". This sort of talk is just a reflection of the arrogance that some of our men simply refuse to shed. Guidance my foot! .  The fact is, all the necessary guidance should have been given by the parent of a lady while she was with them. So, no man should arrogate to himself that perceived duty of guidance towards the woman.

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Posted: at 27-04-2010 09:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hmmm. Ok! Whatever U say.

Posted: at 27-04-2010 09:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero