Alot of singles in Nigeria.... what is the cause? (Page 11)

u r sorry 4 wot?

Posted: at 27-09-2008 07:48 AM (16 years ago) | Hero

ok...i got ya...u know u r ma sista 4rm da east...so cool temper.

Posted: at 27-09-2008 07:58 AM (16 years ago) | Hero

So, you think that is the reason??

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Posted: at 27-09-2008 01:11 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

beein single na flu one kind oo
even adam GOD no leave am single

Posted: at 27-09-2008 02:30 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I believe you Mazi.................hinest women are too far from seen

Posted: at 27-09-2008 03:19 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Alot of singles in Nigeria...the cause:
The main cause of many unmarried singles in Nigeria is unseen fisibile and visibile abundant cash by the people that ought to be married at the ripe marriage period. The ripe but umarried ones  feel that money is the general in the making of a marriage and belittle the ancient saying that two heads are better than one.
The Nigerian unmarried youngsters never appreciate that marriage is a faith thing and always visualize marriage as a thing that must yield 7children when it starts and that must require abundant money resources, so they become afraid of the non-visible resources and foot the unprecedented love that ought to oil the marriage process.
Many ripe marriable Nigerians are umarried today because the females are not really engineering the process. I know of a female that picked on a ripe young man that seemed okay to her liking but without "pay": she was wise to make the young man who needed marriage to become married with her: Of course every reasonable young man in the street loves sweet thing like sex and would love it to be parmanent and not a stealing thing as we get when we are boy friends and girlfriends. Moreso, every reasonable young man wants  to be seen as responsible to his mom and dad who would joy in seeing their grandchild/ren before they die. The wise lady cleaned the reasonable young man up and till today the young man is become a pastor and wears clothings/suit that are so expensive that could tempt other money mongering ladies out there to want to compete with the wise lady or want to snatch her making of a married family.
Many ripe marriable Nigerians are umarried today because some ripe men and women are seen unreasonable and irresponsible: some ripe young men and young females are still in their game of testing testing of different styles, length, thickness, robustness, money and stature. Who is to be blamed? of course the female who throw herself to such a man without a concrete mission in a relationship is to be blamed and the man who goes about giving his all without knowing the money mongering type in females is also to be blamed, but I tell you when a man discovers you are meant for his money he tries every styles possible to make you a shaft after the relationship, do you know that? And when a woman discovers you are meant for her wealth she could strategize any avenue always to make your life miserable: All these contribute to why we do not see ourselves intact enough to choose our mates for marriage: marriage should be a case of "look before you leap process."
Trust is another thing that never make we unmarried folks get setteld down, but I see this reason as irrational because to make a relationship wax 100 years or 90 years, one in a relationship must tolerate, play the fool, and be ready to see whatever: "for better for worst untill death do you part" So it is not an excuse to say, "he never trust me and she never trust me", any body with this excuse seems to want freedom to cheat because in a relationship you must be 99% to 100% transparent to each other. Meet your parents or grandparents who have achieved the feet of a wonderful years in a marriage to let one be wiser alright.
I drop my wisdom here, but with more to say in other topics!

Posted: at 27-09-2008 03:50 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

lol.real ....................

Posted: at 27-09-2008 04:17 PM (16 years ago) | Hero

 

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Posted: at 27-09-2008 06:47 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

u funny oooooooooooooooo

Posted: at 27-09-2008 06:57 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

how funny

Posted: at 27-09-2008 07:06 PM (16 years ago) | Hero