ALARMING!!!LATE MARRIAGE PROMINENT IN IGBOLAND (Page 14)

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Posted: at 1-07-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Looking for emmmm emmm to ....

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Posted: at 1-07-2010 02:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

But that's the fact !! Let them go on with their "child marriages" we are not ready to join them . Check staitics of VVF and divorces and tell me how many of such cases is IGBO related !

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Posted: at 1-07-2010 02:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

MADAM, WELDONE. GOOD TALK

Posted: at 1-07-2010 04:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Another senseless post over-emphasising the importance of marriage, just after the other senseless Weird MC post. Is that the only thing that Nigerian youths dream about these days is to get married? It is only in this part of the world that we still see getting married as an achievement.

Meanwhile, I announe the arrival of my first child on Friday 25 June. pics on my facebook page.

Posted: at 1-07-2010 05:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

The reason Igbo can not marry in time is that,We are wise and we understand that marriage is not easy just like that you have to pass many procedures and you can never Jump any Procedures,and we always understand that we marry only once in life time,for that reason before you marry you have to take time and think very well,and its well noted that the way someone that is 36 years old understand life is not same with someone that is 26 years old,We Igbo did not like kids marriage maybe when we marry today next day story will come out,

BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED WE HAVE TO CONFIRM YOUR PROFILES ,ALL YOUR FULL PROFILES HAVE TO BE CONFIRM,FROM THE BOTH FAMILY,WE MUST TO CONFIRM WHAT YOU ARE DOING FOR YOUR LIVING,IF HAVE TO CONFIRM IF YOU HAVE MONEY OR NOT IF YOU HAVE NO MONEY WE ARE SORRY FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU CAN NOT CARE FOR YOUR WIFE AND IT HAVE NO MEANING THAT YOU MARRIED AND YOU CAN NOT CARE FOR YOUR LIFE IF YOU HAVE MONEY SOME FAMILY WANTS TO KNOW THE OUT COME OF YOUR MONEY,IF YOU HAVE GIVEN YOUR LIFE TO EVIL JUST TO GET MONEY IF THEY FIND OUT THAT YOU HAVE DO SO THEY CAN NEVER AGREED,SO WHEN ALL YOUR PROFILE HAVE BEEN CONFIRMED AND 100 PERCENTS GOOD WE SHALL PROCEED AND GET YOUR MARRIAGE DONE

My brothers non of them have married both me i have not,we are upto ages but we can not because we must to understand what is marriage before we enter into it,You can not Just JUMP into marriage if you JUMP in into marriage life the next is that you have to JUMP out,You can be called divorced divorced is from bad,

IN MY SIDE WE NEVER HARD ABOUT DIVORCE BEFORE,IF EVE YOU WANTS TO divorce UMUNNA CAN NEVER ALLOW YOU AND THAN YOUR AGE IS UP AND YOU HAVE UNDERSTAND WHAT IS MARRIAGE,ITS NOT EASY TO MARRY IN IGBO LAND AND ITS NOT EASY TO DIVORCE,I LIKE IT ITS BETTER YOU TAKE TIME TO GET MARRIED THAN YOU MARRIED SO EASY AND GET DIVORCED

Divorce is a Sin — God hates divorce,God hates divorce because of the damage it does. "For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce, 'for it covers one's garment with violence,Malachi 2:16 "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith.

THANKS FOR YOUR GREAT UNDERSTANDING AND PLEASE NEVER SAY YOU HATE IGBO LIFE ITS THE BEST IN THE WORLD,WE IGBOS ARE HONEST WHEN IT COME TO HONEST WE ARE CARING WHEN IT COME TO CARING WE ARE TOO MUCH I LOVE BEEN IGBO

Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:02 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

The reason Igbo can not marry in time is that,We are wise and we understand that marriage is not easy just like that you have to pass many procedures and you can never Jump any Procedures,and we always understand that we marry only once in life time,for that reason before you marry you have to take time and think very well,and its well noted that the way someone that is 36 years old understand life is not same with someone that is 26 years old,We Igbo did not like kids marriage maybe when we marry today next day story will come out,

BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED WE HAVE TO CONFIRM YOUR PROFILES ,ALL YOUR FULL PROFILES HAVE TO BE CONFIRM,FROM THE BOTH FAMILY,WE MUST TO CONFIRM WHAT YOU ARE DOING FOR YOUR LIVING,IF HAVE TO CONFIRM IF YOU HAVE MONEY OR NOT IF YOU HAVE NO MONEY WE ARE SORRY FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU CAN NOT CARE FOR YOUR WIFE AND IT HAVE NO MEANING THAT YOU MARRIED AND YOU CAN NOT CARE FOR YOUR LIFE IF YOU HAVE MONEY SOME FAMILY WANTS TO KNOW THE OUT COME OF YOUR MONEY,IF YOU HAVE GIVEN YOUR LIFE TO EVIL JUST TO GET MONEY IF THEY FIND OUT THAT YOU HAVE DO SO THEY CAN NEVER AGREED,SO WHEN ALL YOUR PROFILE HAVE BEEN CONFIRMED AND 100 PERCENTS GOOD WE SHALL PROCEED AND GET YOUR MARRIAGE DONE

My brothers non of them have married both me i have not,we are upto ages but we can not because we must to understand what is marriage before we enter into it,You can not Just JUMP into marriage if you JUMP in into marriage life the next is that you have to JUMP out,You can be called divorced divorced is from bad,

IN MY SIDE WE NEVER HARD ABOUT DIVORCE BEFORE,IF EVE YOU WANTS TO divorce UMUNNA CAN NEVER ALLOW YOU AND THAN YOUR AGE IS UP AND YOU HAVE UNDERSTAND WHAT IS MARRIAGE,ITS NOT EASY TO MARRY IN IGBO LAND AND ITS NOT EASY TO DIVORCE,I LIKE IT ITS BETTER YOU TAKE TIME TO GET MARRIED THAN YOU MARRIED SO EASY AND GET DIVORCED

Divorce is a Sin — God hates divorce,God hates divorce because of the damage it does. "For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce, 'for it covers one's garment with violence,Malachi 2:16 "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith.

THANKS FOR YOUR GREAT UNDERSTANDING AND PLEASE NEVER SAY YOU HATE IGBO LIFE ITS THE BEST IN THE WORLD,WE IGBOS ARE HONEST WHEN IT COME TO HONEST WE ARE CARING WHEN IT COME TO CARING WE ARE TOO MUCH I LOVE BEEN IGBO

Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

is personal...

Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

I think every1 ve there individual choices 2 make....dey marry wenever dey feel like

Posted: at 2-07-2010 01:28 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Hmmm... see as people just dey provoke for this post in ethnic defence. Na the girls wey dey yarn "marriage is not by force" and the likes sef dey baffle me pass. Admitted it isn't but that's healthy when its more of the exception than the rule.

Truth is if a sample survey were carried out among the three major ethnic groups, data collected would most likely would show that the tribe in question has the greater number of people that marry within an older age group than the average. Igbo men don't marry early usually cos they want to hammer first and prove a point. Igbo women sometimes don't marry as early as girls from the other two tribes either and sometimes it's cos they are waiting for the "hammered man" to come and marry them.

I think it's the same reason why its not until recent the age difference between Igbo couples used to be much. Where a man in his late fourties marries a girl in her mid or early 20's. Cos he took all that time waiting to hammer and she found him when he had hammered.

It's not like there's something soo wrong with it. I guess the poster just wanted some liht shed on this?

Anyway, I've spoken in general from my personal observations and admit that I have nt spoken for all cases and there myt be inaccuracies in what I have had to say.

WE still have individual reasons why a trend is followed.

Posted: at 2-07-2010 08:29 AM (13 years ago) | Hero