The first thing that happens is attraction, this is followed by communication where the man tells the babe his mind and she also gives him the positive feedback. Then comes interest based on what has been communicated. This is followed by love, which is a product of the 3 pillars already mentioned. To sustain this, there must be tolerance of the other sides of each other and this involves perseverance. Respect is what strengthens tolerance and it is brought about by comfort which determines compatibility. Trust is needed in this case to always reinforce compatibility. Above all is the fear of God which will regulate the things wife does when the husband is not available and vice versa.
Your point of view is pretty different of mine for example, that's why I told DP before that it's not something applicable to the all couples!
You started there to describe how a relationship starts,which that wasn't the point, but rather the pillars which sustain that relationship on long term!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 05:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Sure, I know it is not applicable to every couple or every relationship.....but then in all of these, there must be a meeting point or rather, something in common........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 05:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Sure, I know it is not applicable to every couple or every relationship.....but then in all of these, there must be a meeting point or rather, something in common........
Yes,I understand your point,but I'm not agree with the way he enumerated them there, their order! It's a guy,no wonder he put attraction on the first place! For example for me,there wasn't attraction at all at beginning, it took some time for that!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 05:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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BOSS IN THE HOUSE
You? Ha! In your house maybe! the only guy in the house still bossing Since when men=the boss???  Keep dreaming,Wallas! Moreover, another guy appeared, so what u gonna do now? Give your contribution!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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we may drop gender pride at this point and face reality. it is when the babe attracts the guy that or vice versa that communication can be initiated. true or false? | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:07 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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we may drop gender pride at this point and face reality. it is when the babe attracts the guy that or vice versa that communication can be initiated. true or false?
False in my case!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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hello bittersweet, be only sweet and not be bitter with me plz | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:17 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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hello bittersweet, be only sweet and not be bitter with me plz
Come on! I'm not so, I just don't agree with u fully! We didn't look for the things which bring us in a relationship, but the ones which sustain it(once formed) , for long time!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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alright, mine starts from the formation stage to sustenance just like a building. u know the foundation of a building determines its strength and durability. | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:29 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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alright, mine starts from the formation stage to sustenance just like a building. u know the foundation of a building determines its strength and durability.
So your foundation is the attraction! Come on!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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my foundation includes the preliminary actions like attraction, communication, interest and love | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:34 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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my foundation includes the preliminary actions like attraction, communication, interest and love
So apart of attraction, your foundation is similar with the pillars! Interesting building you have!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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thankgod u understand me | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:43 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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thankgod u understand me
We are all unique, my friend! Different principles, different views of life,different expectations and so on! So, therefore, different "buildings"!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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but there must be a universal standard in everything, irrespective of our differences | Posted: at 26-07-2010 06:56 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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but there must be a universal standard in everything, irrespective of our differences
It's exactly what we were trying to settle down when u've started getting out of the track!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 07:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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was i really getting out? i dont think so. u were just over reacting by bringing in gender issues | Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:30 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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was i really getting out? i dont think so. u were just over reacting by bringing in gender issues
Never mind! I got your point
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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ok, thanks | Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:41 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ok, thanks
No problem
Live and let live! | Posted: at 26-07-2010 09:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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bittersweet
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