KEEPING DIARIES: IS IT ADVISABLE? (Page 5)

Date: 29-07-2010 12:49 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- Adikpe at 30-07-2010 12:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Na wetin concern chicken with chewing gum wey no get teeth. I don't have any dairy, so that one no concern me.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 12:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HearMyCry at 30-07-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago)
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I used to, but I stopped
Posted: at 30-07-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blessedme at 30-07-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago)
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OK
Posted: at 30-07-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 30-07-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: princedafe on 30-07-2010 12:15 AM
Quote from: divineproject on 29-07-2010 12:49 PM
The stories that I have been hearing about how the secrets contained in these diaries are destroying relationships are becoming rampant.  So why do people keep diaries? Is it advisable to keep a tab on the happenings in one's life, especially when such information could be so damning and the other party may not understand?  If you find an unpalatable piece of information in your partner's diary, would you believe the explanation given to defend such information?  Would you allow any ugly incident as written in your partner's diary destroy your relationship?............

Oya, lets go there!

Na you know

What a senseless post

I am waiting for that you own post that has sense............This thing is tearing marriages apart and u sit down there and call this senseless......must you comment?............ Huh?
Posted: at 30-07-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 30-07-2010 03:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 30-07-2010 10:23 AM
Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 03:39 PM
Quote from: waco on 29-07-2010 03:14 PM
really! i just visited ur page to see this pix wella
i com see say u make sense die. can i...........
well make we yarn for inbox

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i go don do finish. U no asbi say na same region
me with the babe dey for Eko? dey there na

For where? l no far at all at all... l fit Dey yur Backyard sef, yu no know  Smiley
Posted: at 30-07-2010 03:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Maxodus at 30-07-2010 06:17 PM (14 years ago)
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I think d dairy the porter was talking about still contained what was happening in her life at present so it was implicating to her,i think had it been things she wrote that was in the past,it wouldn't have been a problem. There's nothing wrong with keeping a dairy but some are better kept in the heart just as Onyiis said
Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:17 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ahrdonais at 30-07-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 01:44 PM
Personal Choice

Diaries Help yu know/remember where yu're Coming from and Guide yur Steps, and they're fun 2 read too once in a While

Personal Choice girl

If yu're Confident in who yu've become, then people reading it won't bother yu

diaries are worth it takes u back to moments and helps u realize the present as the past is never what it seems. but to avoid scandals one has to use code when writing some incidents/thoughts.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Umbrella at 30-07-2010 06:55 PM (14 years ago)
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I'm too busy to keep a diary. And I don't want anyone seeing my shit lolol
So personally, I don't think it's advisable.

You could make notes regarding time/date/place of birth of ur baby, when u were engaged and all that...But if it's important to u then something like that shouldn't skip ur memory....unless of cos maybe one day u might lose ur memory or something.

MEhn, i dno...each to their own.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:55 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gangerman at 30-07-2010 07:08 PM (14 years ago)
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i dont think keeping dairies is good cause ti brings problem 4 people
Posted: at 30-07-2010 07:08 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- mydicksweet at 30-07-2010 07:16 PM (14 years ago)
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There's no point keeping diaries when u have good head to think and capable of remembring ur past
Posted: at 30-07-2010 07:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 30-07-2010 07:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Diaries are personal, what is my partner doing looking through my diary? If there's something there that affects him he got what he deserves. Besides secrets always have a way of coming out, i hope i have enough material to actually publish mine before i die.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 07:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- XxSkyGurlXx at 30-07-2010 07:37 PM (14 years ago)
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i used to do dt buh i dnt tink its a nice idea doing it!
Posted: at 30-07-2010 07:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- TOSKYESQ at 30-07-2010 07:45 PM (14 years ago)
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People are no more use to diary anymore. But it a wise ideal keeping records of your daily activities.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 07:45 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 30-07-2010 07:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Umbrella on 30-07-2010 06:55 PM
I'm too busy to keep a diary. And I don't want anyone seeing my shit lolol
So personally, I don't think it's advisable.

You could make notes regarding time/date/place of birth of ur baby, when u were engaged and all that...But if it's important to u then something like that shouldn't skip ur memory....unless of cos maybe one day u might lose ur memory or something.

MEhn, i dno...each to their own.

l no even wan see yur Shit... Where yur Piss instead?  Tongue
Posted: at 30-07-2010 07:48 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Umbrella at 30-07-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Hahahaha
Kennee ur so silly Tongue
Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 30-07-2010 08:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Hehehe  Lips Sealed
Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- RealityDancer at 30-07-2010 08:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmmm...keeping Diaries are a good idea in my opinion because it allows reflection, expression and release of pent up emotions you may not want to share with people. The question that should be asked here is why are these partners poke-nosing in other people's diary?? That is an intrusion of privacy so whatver they read is their own fault. This however does not mean that I am in support of the antics these cheating partners are up to...

If you know soemthing is wrong, why do it and then write about it...it is your own fault if your relationship breaks down. It is like being aware that fire burns, yet you stand there with your finger over that gas ring...STUPID!

Also, if you go about not trusting your partner and you read what you don't want to read, abeg! Who sent you???

I am the kind of person who when I find out I am not trusted, I will do soemthing to make sure that their STUPID MISTRUST is validated...

I will write something extremely stupid and watch the reaction...haha

But at the end of the day, if we are following God's rules...none of the above should be a problem no?!...
Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:46 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- sweetrae at 30-07-2010 09:08 PM (14 years ago)
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i've a journal and it is well understood dat readin' it can be detrimental to ur feelings...Smiley
it's a personal item dat shouldn't be invaded!!
Posted: at 30-07-2010 09:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- agabs at 30-07-2010 09:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetrae on 30-07-2010 09:08 PM
i've a journal and it is well understood dat readin' it can be detrimental to ur feelings...Smiley
it's a personal item dat shouldn't be invaded!!

Well for us psychologists out here, what can be more entertaining than stumbling across profiling data of a humanoid? What beats it? The insecurities and aspirations for ones consumption; wow!
 
Ha ah ahhaha.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 09:19 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pineheart at 31-07-2010 12:09 AM (14 years ago)
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Kipin diaries has it gud sides n bad. I read off my guy's diary dt d mum doesn't lik me n i feel bad. D truth is i knew he kept one n read it in his absence. Sincerely its nt advisable. U can put notable stuff in ur phone
Posted: at 31-07-2010 12:09 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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