KEEPING DIARIES: IS IT ADVISABLE? (Page 7)

Date: 29-07-2010 12:49 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- divineproject at 31-07-2010 02:17 PM (13 years ago)
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what about single people............introverted people who dont feel cool telling anyone anything.......or dont you know that there are people like dat?

Posted: at 31-07-2010 02:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- stevwill at 31-07-2010 02:25 PM (13 years ago)
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depends on choice
Posted: at 31-07-2010 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 31-07-2010 05:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 31-07-2010 02:17 PM
what about single people............introverted people who dont feel cool telling anyone anything.......or dont you know that there are people like dat?

We were talking about the One dat was Ditched before Wedding night, weren't we?

Posted: at 31-07-2010 05:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Umbrella at 31-07-2010 09:28 PM (13 years ago)
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The ex hubby to be is a dick! He read his relatives were being mean to his ex bride to be, yet the only thing he acted on was the last thing she wrote in the diary. So unfair. He's as bad as his relatives she was complaining about. By God's grace she'll find someone much more better than him.
Posted: at 31-07-2010 09:28 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 31-07-2010 10:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Yeah but l don' think she Complained to him about it, but if she Did and he didn't Support her, then she musta Stayed there for Stupid Financial Benefits

And she got what she asked for

Posted: at 31-07-2010 10:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- un9ja-9ja at 1-08-2010 01:09 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 31-07-2010 10:02 PM
Yeah but l don' think she Complained to him about it, but if she Did and he didn't Support her, then she musta Stayed there for Stupid Financial Benefits

And she got what she asked for
My bros, but u really harsh o!..see as u dey counter all d points raised 4 u 2 see reasons wif d poster..na wah ooo ppl like u still dey dis world...i mean ppl dat can never go wrong or better still ppl dat doesn't accept dat human beings are not equal..my GOD!!!
Posted: at 1-08-2010 01:09 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Bismack at 1-08-2010 02:32 AM (13 years ago)
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I don't own a diary,its 4 ladies..
Posted: at 1-08-2010 02:32 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- TosinCoker at 1-08-2010 01:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 29-07-2010 12:49 PM
The stories that I have been hearing about how the secrets contained in these diaries are destroying relationships are becoming rampant.  So why do people keep diaries? Is it advisable to keep a tab on the happenings in one's life, especially when such information could be so damning and the other party may not understand?  If you find an unpalatable piece of information in your partner's diary, would you believe the explanation given to defend such information?  Would you allow any ugly incident as written in your partner's diary destroy your relationship?............

Oya, lets go there!


I'd say it depends on the kind of content you put in your diary. When I was a teen I used to keep a diary with code names for anyone I mentioned. My little sister stole and read it, and though there wasn't anything too detailed in there, I felt exposed and angry.

Years later I started writing my thoughts down in a blog. Sometimes just making funny observations about my day or incidents that happened to cause me joy, upset or the need to moan. I didn't know anyone was reading it until months later someone commented about how much they enjoyed reading my posts as they drank their morning coffee. Again I felt terribly exposed, but more people started encouraging me to the point of complimenting my gift for writing. The positive result was, I eventually wrote my first novel.

Now though, I feel like I have no personal outlet for me to write down my most intimate thoughts that wouldn't somehow harm my reputation. I don't like book or phone diaries, because they are easy to lose or for people to happen upon. It's bad enough that I keep notes for my storylines in book format, but then it assists me by being evidence of copyright ownership.

Posted: at 1-08-2010 01:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 1-08-2010 05:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: un9ja-9ja on  1-08-2010 01:09 AM
Quote from: Kennee on 31-07-2010 10:02 PM
Yeah but l don' think she Complained to him about it, but if she Did and he didn't Support her, then she musta Stayed there for Stupid Financial Benefits

And she got what she asked for
My bros, but u really harsh o!..see as u dey counter all d points raised 4 u 2 see reasons wif d poster..na wah ooo ppl like u still dey dis world...i mean ppl dat can never go wrong or better still ppl dat doesn't accept dat human beings are not equal..my GOD!!!

Yu no even know the Argument wey we dey now yu just dey jump in from no where

Try read the thread Properly ehn young man

Posted: at 1-08-2010 05:54 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 1-08-2010 06:46 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmm i had a diary when i was 12, when i read it now it is 2 funny  Cheesy

i dont keep them now, it is useless for me...if my man wud hav one, i dont wanna read it
Posted: at 1-08-2010 06:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- un9ja-9ja at 2-08-2010 12:00 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on  1-08-2010 05:54 PM
Quote from: un9ja-9ja on  1-08-2010 01:09 AM
Quote from: Kennee on 31-07-2010 10:02 PM
Yeah but l don' think she Complained to him about it, but if she Did and he didn't Support her, then she musta Stayed there for Stupid Financial Benefits

And she got what she asked for
My bros, but u really harsh o!..see as u dey counter all d points raised 4 u 2 see reasons wif d poster..na wah ooo ppl like u still dey dis world...i mean ppl dat can never go wrong or better still ppl dat doesn't accept dat human beings are not equal..my GOD!!!

Yu no even know the Argument wey we dey now yu just dey jump in from no where

Try read the thread Properly ehn young man
No be 2 have 1 million response 2 a sensible post we dey talk but 4 u 2 try see small reason as a human being dat u are bros, no be fight o na beg i dey beg sir!
Posted: at 2-08-2010 12:00 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 2-08-2010 09:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  1-08-2010 06:46 PM
hmmm i had a diary when i was 12, when i read it now it is 2 funny  Cheesy

i dont keep them now, it is useless for me...if my man wud hav one, i dont wanna read it


hehehehe, afraid to find something unpalatable?

Posted: at 2-08-2010 09:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 2-08-2010 10:37 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  2-08-2010 09:44 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  1-08-2010 06:46 PM
hmmm i had a diary when i was 12, when i read it now it is 2 funny  Cheesy

i dont keep them now, it is useless for me...if my man wud hav one, i dont wanna read it


hehehehe, afraid to find something unpalatable?
heehehe yea well some thing r private and i respect tht...

everybody got secrets, not tht u r hiding sometin bad but there r always things u prefer to keep to urself...

who knws wht he wud b writing  Grin

Posted: at 2-08-2010 10:37 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 2-08-2010 11:28 AM (13 years ago)
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Do you think there should be secrets even amongst married couples?

Posted: at 2-08-2010 11:28 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 2-08-2010 12:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  2-08-2010 11:28 AM
Do you think there should be secrets even amongst married couples?
Not tht it SHOULD b like tht...but wht am tryin to say is,

even when ur married it can happen u hav an untold story tht ur spouse dont

even knw about...it is not a crime and it doesnt always mean it is a bad thing ur r hiding...

Posted: at 2-08-2010 12:38 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- solid_solid at 2-08-2010 02:29 PM (13 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 2-08-2010 02:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 2-08-2010 02:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  2-08-2010 12:38 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  2-08-2010 11:28 AM
Do you think there should be secrets even amongst married couples?
Not tht it SHOULD b like tht...but wht am tryin to say is,

even when ur married it can happen u hav an untold story tht ur spouse dont

even knw about...it is not a crime and it doesnt always mean it is a bad thing ur r hiding...



ok..........but then it is expected that as couples get older, they should be able to bare their hearts to their spouse...........

Posted: at 2-08-2010 02:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 2-08-2010 04:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: un9ja-9ja on  2-08-2010 12:00 AM
Quote from: Kennee on  1-08-2010 05:54 PM
Quote from: un9ja-9ja on  1-08-2010 01:09 AM
Quote from: Kennee on 31-07-2010 10:02 PM
Yeah but l don' think she Complained to him about it, but if she Did and he didn't Support her, then she musta Stayed there for Stupid Financial Benefits

And she got what she asked for
My bros, but u really harsh o!..see as u dey counter all d points raised 4 u 2 see reasons wif d poster..na wah ooo ppl like u still dey dis world...i mean ppl dat can never go wrong or better still ppl dat doesn't accept dat human beings are not equal..my GOD!!!

Yu no even know the Argument wey we dey now yu just dey jump in from no where

Try read the thread Properly ehn young man
No be 2 have 1 million response 2 a sensible post we dey talk but 4 u 2 try see small reason as a human being dat u are bros, no be fight o na beg i dey beg sir!

Young man l say Read again before yu talk... Dat way yu will know what we are Arguing about

Posted: at 2-08-2010 04:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sweetrae at 2-08-2010 06:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: agabs on 30-07-2010 09:19 PM
Quote from: sweetrae on 30-07-2010 09:08 PM
i've a journal and it is well understood dat readin' it can be detrimental to ur feelings...Smiley
it's a personal item dat shouldn't be invaded!!

Well for us psychologists out here, what can be more entertaining than stumbling across profiling data of a humanoid? What beats it? The insecurities and aspirations for ones consumption; wow!
 
Ha ah ahhaha.

do i know u?... Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 2-08-2010 06:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 2-08-2010 06:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Keepin dairies is a sign of unforgiveable spirit. keep off that person!
Posted: at 2-08-2010 06:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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