hello budds!just want to share this and see ur views on still keeping some1 u have feelings for as closefriend even though the person is not down for realtionship with u after expressn ur feelns.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 12:48 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Empress_Ameera at 30-07-2010 02:05 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Yes I do believe I can keep someone as a mere friend that I have feelings for, as a matter of fact I have a few friends like that. However it started off the other way around, they liked me and I was not interested in them as such, however as time went on, talking and building a wonderful friendship feelings developed.
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Posted: at 30-07-2010 02:05 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Some friendships are just worth not ruining with a relationship, yes i can keep someone i have feelings 4 as a friend, better 2 av them close to me than not at all.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 07:33 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
handsomeemmy1 at 30-07-2010 08:28 AM (13 years ago) (m)
@poster you just spoke my mind, because am having the same problem right, she feels it will be better if we remain friends.
Life can only get better can only get better for me, i don't know about you. But just be calm remain focus because you never can tell where God is taking you to. smile.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:28 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
handsomeemmy1 at 30-07-2010 08:30 AM (13 years ago) (m)
@poster you just spoke my mind, because am having the same problem right, she feels it will be better if we remain friends.
Life can only get better can only get better for me, i don't know about you. But just be calm remain focus because you never can tell where God is taking you to. smile.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
hmmm its hard...but its depense on u...cause if she gonna enter teraltionship with some1 else u gonna suffer it...i ques its better if u stay away from her for a while...and when ya feelings less...maybe u can get back to her as a friend
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 30-07-2010 10:43 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bali4real at 31-07-2010 02:43 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Empress_Ameera on 30-07-2010 02:05 AM
Yes I do believe I can keep someone as a mere friend that I have feelings for, as a matter of fact I have a few friends like that. However it started off the other way around, they liked me and I was not interested in them as such, however as time went on, talking and building a wonderful friendship feelings developed.
hmm.urs seems nice but they ate just mere fiends i guess but not intimate
Posted: at 31-07-2010 02:43 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bali4real at 31-07-2010 03:15 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: ade_su_wa on 30-07-2010 02:47 AM
poster...kip on ur faith, someday she wil come to undastand u n who knows she might luv u even more than u think
yeah but faith u mentioned.its kind of complicated cos initially didnt ve this feelings but she made me to and after xpressing d feelings,she never admits hvn any for me but that she might ve had a relatnship but based on religion n tribal stuff ,there is no point going into it.tried to give her d space not to hurt my self but she kept coming back tactically n still did not admit vn any feelns but still want to be around me.though she gains some stufs from me not financialy but just dnt know what she wants.i guess ll just keep her as mere friend n find somtn real.thanks anyways
Posted: at 31-07-2010 03:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac