Friendship between a man and a woman! (Page 6)

Date: 30-07-2010 9:21 am (13 years ago) | Author: Bittersweet
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- bhl72 at 30-07-2010 06:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 05:53 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 05:47 PM
in many cases, they are open ended, too undefined, too natural till. but slowly and surely, it comes to the point when the internal chemistries defy some form of resistance... you then try to place restrictions which come in too little, too late... it was never intended ab initio

Well,yes,but if the both are involved in serious relationships,that chemistry should not even occur!


Come on BS, you sound so far off, so unearthly. Come back to earth; we are humans, you know and sentiments build around our passions... in this case, if it is open and not a subject of definition, you will find that the natural impulse will be a strong pull towards the other... The serious relationships as mentioned hereinabove, should serve as some form of delimitation for the range of the friendship so that from the outset, it is clearly asserted and agreed upon.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 30-07-2010 06:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 06:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 05:53 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 05:47 PM
in many cases, they are open ended, too undefined, too natural till. but slowly and surely, it comes to the point when the internal chemistries defy some form of resistance... you then try to place restrictions which come in too little, too late... it was never intended ab initio

Well,yes,but if the both are involved in serious relationships,that chemistry should not even occur!


Come on BS, you sound so far off, so unearthly. Come back to earth; we are humans, you know and sentiments build around our passions... in this case, if it is open and not a subject of definition, you will find that the natural impulse will be a strong pull towards the other... The serious relationships as mentioned hereinabove, should serve as some form of delimitation for the range of the friendship so that from the outset, it is clearly asserted and agreed upon.


Yeah,it should be so!
But I really believe that if you're really in love with someone, you can't even taking in consideration other guys!
Come on!
Yes,I may seem unearthly, I was told before, because I'm an idealistic!

Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- tantabanana at 30-07-2010 06:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 06:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 05:53 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 05:47 PM
in many cases, they are open ended, too undefined, too natural till. but slowly and surely, it comes to the point when the internal chemistries defy some form of resistance... you then try to place restrictions which come in too little, too late... it was never intended ab initio

Well,yes,but if the both are involved in serious relationships,that chemistry should not even occur!


Come on BS, you sound so far off, so unearthly. Come back to earth; we are humans, you know and sentiments build around our passions... in this case, if it is open and not a subject of definition, you will find that the natural impulse will be a strong pull towards the other... The serious relationships as mentioned hereinabove, should serve as some form of delimitation for the range of the friendship so that from the outset, it is clearly asserted and agreed upon.
BS,
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 06:12 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 06:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 05:53 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 05:47 PM
in many cases, they are open ended, too undefined, too natural till. but slowly and surely, it comes to the point when the internal chemistries defy some form of resistance... you then try to place restrictions which come in too little, too late... it was never intended ab initio

Well,yes,but if the both are involved in serious relationships,that chemistry should not even occur!


Come on BS, you sound so far off, so unearthly. Come back to earth; we are humans, you know and sentiments build around our passions... in this case, if it is open and not a subject of definition, you will find that the natural impulse will be a strong pull towards the other... The serious relationships as mentioned hereinabove, should serve as some form of delimitation for the range of the friendship so that from the outset, it is clearly asserted and agreed upon.


Yeah,it should be so!
But I really believe that if you're really in love with someone, you can't even taking in consideration other guys!
Come on!
Yes,I may seem unearthly, I was told before, because I'm an idealistic!

are we talking about friendship or love here?
Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:14 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xter at 30-07-2010 06:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Both

Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:14 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 30-07-2010 06:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 30-07-2010 06:14 PM
Both

Thank you, Xter!

Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 30-07-2010 06:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Neva mind

Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bhl72 at 30-07-2010 06:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 06:12 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 06:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 05:53 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 05:47 PM
in many cases, they are open ended, too undefined, too natural till. but slowly and surely, it comes to the point when the internal chemistries defy some form of resistance... you then try to place restrictions which come in too little, too late... it was never intended ab initio

Well,yes,but if the both are involved in serious relationships,that chemistry should not even occur!


Come on BS, you sound so far off, so unearthly. Come back to earth; we are humans, you know and sentiments build around our passions... in this case, if it is open and not a subject of definition, you will find that the natural impulse will be a strong pull towards the other... The serious relationships as mentioned hereinabove, should serve as some form of delimitation for the range of the friendship so that from the outset, it is clearly asserted and agreed upon.


Yeah,it should be so!
But I really believe that if you're really in love with someone, you can't even taking in consideration other guys!
Come on!
Yes,I may seem unearthly, I was told before, because I'm an idealistic!

a panoramic reflex from the 'hell experience' remember? but you never inboxed to let me in on that one... still waiting if you will oblige me, dear BS...
Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tantabanana at 30-07-2010 06:19 PM (13 years ago)
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i think it would do us good to differentiate them. they are too different to be combined.
Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:19 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 30-07-2010 06:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 06:18 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 06:12 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 06:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 05:53 PM
Quote from: bhl72 on 30-07-2010 05:47 PM
in many cases, they are open ended, too undefined, too natural till. but slowly and surely, it comes to the point when the internal chemistries defy some form of resistance... you then try to place restrictions which come in too little, too late... it was never intended ab initio

Well,yes,but if the both are involved in serious relationships,that chemistry should not even occur!


Come on BS, you sound so far off, so unearthly. Come back to earth; we are humans, you know and sentiments build around our passions... in this case, if it is open and not a subject of definition, you will find that the natural impulse will be a strong pull towards the other... The serious relationships as mentioned hereinabove, should serve as some form of delimitation for the range of the friendship so that from the outset, it is clearly asserted and agreed upon.


Yeah,it should be so!
But I really believe that if you're really in love with someone, you can't even taking in consideration other guys!
Come on!
Yes,I may seem unearthly, I was told before, because I'm an idealistic!

a panoramic reflex from the 'hell experience' remember? but you never inboxed to let me in on that one... still waiting if you will oblige me, dear BS...

That "hell" u're talking about it may really purify you, you know?

Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 30-07-2010 06:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: tantabanana on 30-07-2010 06:19 PM
i think it would do us good to differentiate them. they are too different to be combined.

They are,but it came out,because one may go deeper, from friendship to love!
It happens really often!

Posted: at 30-07-2010 06:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wunzie at 30-07-2010 08:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 11:23 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 11:17 AM
Can men and women really be just friends (as in platonic frienship)? of course not.  Let's face it, when you come right down to it - there are just too many impediments for cross gender friendship to work.  I think our men in most cases agree to be friends because they are hoping the right opportunity to take things to another level will present itself if they hang in there long enough.

If you dispute this theory, tell me about one male friend who's never made suggestive comments or flirted with you, and i will do anything to have this person as a friend too Grin

I have a friend like that!
He knew from the first place that I was in a relationship, and he respected that!
He uses to make me compliments now and then, but not indecent ones, and I really can talk with him
better than I do it with my best girlfriend!


I don't believe you.  Several examples are bound of members of the two opposite sexes attemping to forge platonic friendships (sometimes sincerely) they have turned out to be furtile.  In addition, what most guys are saying on this issue reinforces what my argument.

Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 30-07-2010 08:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 08:42 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 11:23 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 11:17 AM
Can men and women really be just friends (as in platonic frienship)? of course not.  Let's face it, when you come right down to it - there are just too many impediments for cross gender friendship to work.  I think our men in most cases agree to be friends because they are hoping the right opportunity to take things to another level will present itself if they hang in there long enough.

If you dispute this theory, tell me about one male friend who's never made suggestive comments or flirted with you, and i will do anything to have this person as a friend too Grin

I have a friend like that!
He knew from the first place that I was in a relationship, and he respected that!
He uses to make me compliments now and then, but not indecent ones, and I really can talk with him
better than I do it with my best girlfriend!


I don't believe you.  Several examples are bound of members of the two opposite sexes attemping to forge platonic friendships (sometimes sincerely) they have turned out to be furtile.  In addition, what most guys are saying on this issue reinforces what my argument.

That's your problem!
But it's true!
And I'm not a singular case!

Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wunzie at 30-07-2010 08:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 30-07-2010 12:07 PM
Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 11:17 AM
Can men and women really be just friends (as in platonic frienship)? of course not.  Let's face it, when you come right down to it - there are just too many impediments for cross gender friendship to work.  I think our men in most cases agree to be friends because they are hoping the right opportunity to take things to another level will present itself if they hang in there long enough.

If you dispute this theory, tell me about one male friend who's never made suggestive comments or flirted with you, and i will do anything to have this person as a friend too Grin

I have a very good male friend, i know his girlfriend and he knows my boyfriend. infact we ar more like siblings and bliv u me, he has never flirted wit me or made suggestive comments as u said so ur theory isnt valid


Oh, if i am not mistaken, were you not the lady that posted a topic about you tripping for a guy and not knowing how to tell him? As it is, your action on that topic contradicts your personal view point on this topic!

Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 30-07-2010 08:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 08:45 PM
Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 08:42 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 11:23 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 11:17 AM
Can men and women really be just friends (as in platonic frienship)? of course not.  Let's face it, when you come right down to it - there are just too many impediments for cross gender friendship to work.  I think our men in most cases agree to be friends because they are hoping the right opportunity to take things to another level will present itself if they hang in there long enough.

If you dispute this theory, tell me about one male friend who's never made suggestive comments or flirted with you, and i will do anything to have this person as a friend too Grin

I have a friend like that!
He knew from the first place that I was in a relationship, and he respected that!
He uses to make me compliments now and then, but not indecent ones, and I really can talk with him
better than I do it with my best girlfriend!


I don't believe you.  Several examples are bound of members of the two opposite sexes attemping to forge platonic friendships (sometimes sincerely) they have turned out to be furtile.  In addition, what most guys are saying on this issue reinforces what my argument.

That's your problem!
But it's true!
And I'm not a singular case!


Hmmmmm.....i hear ya!!

Posted: at 30-07-2010 08:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sweetrae at 30-07-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago)
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it exist...i've several male "friends"...no string attached
Posted: at 30-07-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebonykc at 30-07-2010 09:26 PM (13 years ago)
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is only God dat no both of there mind
Posted: at 30-07-2010 09:26 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- wunzie at 30-07-2010 10:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 08:42 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 11:23 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 11:17 AM
Can men and women really be just friends (as in platonic frienship)? of course not.  Let's face it, when you come right down to it - there are just too many impediments for cross gender friendship to work.  I think our men in most cases agree to be friends because they are hoping the right opportunity to take things to another level will present itself if they hang in there long enough.

If you dispute this theory, tell me about one male friend who's never made suggestive comments or flirted with you, and i will do anything to have this person as a friend too Grin

I have a friend like that!
He knew from the first place that I was in a relationship, and he respected that!
He uses to make me compliments now and then, but not indecent ones, and I really can talk with him
better than I do it with my best girlfriend!


I don't believe you.  Several examples are bound of members of the two opposite sexes attemping to forge platonic friendships (sometimes sincerely) they have turned out to be furtile.  In addition, what most guys are saying on this issue reinforces what my argument.



Correction

Abound, futile and reinforces my argument

Posted: at 30-07-2010 10:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 31-07-2010 07:40 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 10:05 PM
Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 08:42 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 30-07-2010 11:23 AM
Quote from: wunzie on 30-07-2010 11:17 AM
Can men and women really be just friends (as in platonic frienship)? of course not.  Let's face it, when you come right down to it - there are just too many impediments for cross gender friendship to work.  I think our men in most cases agree to be friends because they are hoping the right opportunity to take things to another level will present itself if they hang in there long enough.

If you dispute this theory, tell me about one male friend who's never made suggestive comments or flirted with you, and i will do anything to have this person as a friend too Grin

I have a friend like that!
He knew from the first place that I was in a relationship, and he respected that!
He uses to make me compliments now and then, but not indecent ones, and I really can talk with him
better than I do it with my best girlfriend!


I don't believe you.  Several examples are bound of members of the two opposite sexes attemping to forge platonic friendships (sometimes sincerely) they have turned out to be furtile.  In addition, what most guys are saying on this issue reinforces what my argument.



Correction

Abound, futile and reinforces my argument

Don't generalize, my dear, because I'm living it,I'm not talking from stories!
The cases are rare,involves a lot of maturity from the both, but it's possible! 

Posted: at 31-07-2010 07:40 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 31-07-2010 07:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetrae on 30-07-2010 09:06 PM
it exist...i've several male "friends"...no string attached

That's good!  Smiley

Posted: at 31-07-2010 07:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 31-07-2010 07:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ebonykc on 30-07-2010 09:26 PM
is only God dat no both of there mind

ok

Posted: at 31-07-2010 07:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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