Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS  . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on! You could surely overcome it, for Life is a stage. If it didn't work out,it's better to not see him around! Thats is correct. so that you could over it easly. and move ahead with your life.
You got it,my friend! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-08-2010 02:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 04:45 PM (13 years ago)  (f) "I feel for you, I just wonder how two of u can not discuss your relationship on phone since both of you are not together for some time now. The tel. is the only means of comm. with him now. so in future conversation with him, be bold to ask him how he feel about you now that both of you are not together. it is a pity you gave it all and your love for the relations to go on and just the way you feel and so love him, Try a bit study on your guy very well to know if it worth given it all your heart to him and the family. If he told you that both of can not be talking on tell.abot it. then ask him why and put your ear and eyes open to understand why the relationship has been like this all this why." It is really wonderful piece of advice, thank you  . Sometimes it is difficult to talk via phone, when I cant see and feel him at all, I suppose that for him it is also not easy, especially these issues that are soft in relationship. I just feel that we dont have enough time for each other, maybe this is an excuse... . As I said, he is wonderful man, I dont tell it only because of Love . I hope that everything will be fine, but it requires wisdom from both of us. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 04:45 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
![-]( "solojaro") solojaro at 13-08-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago) (m) "I feel for you, I just wonder how two of u can not discuss your relationship on phone since both of you are not together for some time now. The tel. is the only means of comm. with him now. so in future conversation with him, be bold to ask him how he feel about you now that both of you are not together. it is a pity you gave it all and your love for the relations to go on and just the way you feel and so love him, Try a bit study on your guy very well to know if it worth given it all your heart to him and the family. If he told you that both of can not be talking on tell.abot it. then ask him why and put your ear and eyes open to understand why the relationship has been like this all this why." It is really wonderful piece of advice, thank you . Sometimes it is difficult to talk via phone, when I cant see and feel him at all, I suppose that for him it is also not easy, especially these issues that are soft in relationship. I just feel that we dont have enough time for each other, maybe this is an excuse... . As I said, he is wonderful man, I dont tell it only because of Love .
I hope that everything will be fine, but it requires wisdom from both of us.What a beatiful corrage you have, and I hope it will be fine for both of you later. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago) (f) Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on! You could surely overcome it, for Life is a stage. If it didn't work out,it's better to not see him around! Its only an illusion, in my opinion, no matter -- you can avoid someone for months, but then, when you see that somebody or hear, it will bear the same emotions that you had earlier . | Posted: at 13-08-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
![-]( "mat-James") mat-James at 13-08-2010 04:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) Most Nigerian men like to DOMINATE.........am sure you dont like dat!
DV so u don the report us? u go see yourself | Posted: at 13-08-2010 04:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 04:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) "I feel for you, I just wonder how two of u can not discuss your relationship on phone since both of you are not together for some time now. The tel. is the only means of comm. with him now. so in future conversation with him, be bold to ask him how he feel about you now that both of you are not together. it is a pity you gave it all and your love for the relations to go on and just the way you feel and so love him, Try a bit study on your guy very well to know if it worth given it all your heart to him and the family. If he told you that both of can not be talking on tell.abot it. then ask him why and put your ear and eyes open to understand why the relationship has been like this all this why." It is really wonderful piece of advice, thank you . Sometimes it is difficult to talk via phone, when I cant see and feel him at all, I suppose that for him it is also not easy, especially these issues that are soft in relationship. I just feel that we dont have enough time for each other, maybe this is an excuse... . As I said, he is wonderful man, I dont tell it only because of Love .
I hope that everything will be fine, but it requires wisdom from both of us.What a beatiful corrage you have, and I hope it will be fine for both of you later. I hope also. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 04:55 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 05:00 PM (13 years ago) (f) Question has already came to my mind. Does man like when his woman is possessive towards him (I mean she shows jealousy or shows other girls that this man is her, but WITH RESPECT TO MAN)?? | Posted: at 13-08-2010 05:00 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on! You could surely overcome it, for Life is a stage. If it didn't work out,it's better to not see him around! Its only an illusion, in my opinion, no matter -- you can avoid someone for months, but then, when you see that somebody or hear, it will bear the same emotions that you had earlier . Not really! If it had been passed enough time,and if I'm also involved with somebody else, those emotions wouldn't be there anymore ,at least not so intense to not be able to throw them away! It would be an ended chapter! And I never go back!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-08-2010 05:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 05:06 PM (13 years ago) (f) Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on! You could surely overcome it, for Life is a stage. If it didn't work out,it's better to not see him around! Its only an illusion, in my opinion, no matter -- you can avoid someone for months, but then, when you see that somebody or hear, it will bear the same emotions that you had earlier . Not really! If it had been passed enough time,and if I'm also involved with somebody else, those emotions wouldn't be there anymore ,at least not so intense to not be able to throw them away! It would be an ended chapter! And I never go back! Ok, in such type of situation -- you're right. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 05:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 05:14 PM (13 years ago) (f) Question has already came to my mind.
Does man like when his woman is possessive towards him (I mean she shows jealousy or shows other girls that this man is her, but WITH RESPECT TO MAN)??
| Posted: at 13-08-2010 05:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 08:54 PM (13 years ago) (f) Question has already came to my mind. Does man like when his woman is possessive towards him (I mean she shows jealousy or shows other girls that this man is her, but WITH RESPECT TO MAN)?? No Nigerian man wants to answer... | Posted: at 13-08-2010 08:54 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
![-]( "solojaro") solojaro at 14-08-2010 04:41 PM (13 years ago) (m) Question has already came to my mind.
Does man like when his woman is possessive towards him (I mean she shows jealousy or shows other girls that this man is her, but WITH RESPECT TO MAN)??
No Nigerian man wants to answer...
We will talk about it later. | Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
![-]( "Beauti4") Beauti4 at 14-08-2010 04:54 PM (13 years ago) (f) all Nigerians are diff so i won't knw wat he did or say. but give me some example. | Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
|
i cant hold it o....if u guys not married and he didnt answear ya call for 2 weeks awww girl wake up...
mmm 2 weeks is not small...depends on d argue also, mayb he need to cool downMaybe, this is why I asked abt differences... maybe Nigerian men have... different attitude . Aye Hun, sorry to burst your bubble, but if your man do not call or pick up the phone 2 weeks following an argument, I will honestly and boldly tell you that he is seeing another woman. Think about it.. the long distance, the argument, the time frame he is still pissed off. I am not sure i have met a Nigerian man that is upset for that long just because of an argument UNLESS there is more to it about what caused the argument. I am a nigerian man, Ibo... and married to an american woman.. and african american woman for that matter, but surprisingly we get along just fine. She even cooks Nigerian food and soups for me(she learnt the cooking from my cousin's wife who is nigerianas well).
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
Question has already came to my mind.
Does man like when his woman is possessive towards him (I mean she shows jealousy or shows other girls that this man is her, but WITH RESPECT TO MAN)??
First of all if your man really Loves you and respects you, he wouldn't put you in a position where you have to be possessive. If he loves you being possessive, then he is just another actor who cares about the attention ONLY. Two people in a r/ship should always be relaxed and be free of possessiveness of each other. He should surround himself with women Nor should you surround yourself with men. it is called respect. It is true that most people find it more civilized to have opposite sex friends, but for the betterment of your r/ship, you have to have the courage to avoid friends of the opposite sex. You got to always be cautious.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 14-08-2010 11:38 PM (13 years ago) (m) I don't write in order to make me confident in my realtionship, but to receive another view at things . Im in relationship with Nigerian man and Im from Europe: sometimes I don't understand his bexaviour, although I love him, sometimes his attitude and seeing things make me consider if he truely respect me or not. What is the culture of relationship in Nigeria? What is important for naija man? Regards, God bless you all ! The most important thing is dat they want yu to show that yu Respect them in everything yu do
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:38 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
|
![-]( "Michro") Michro at 15-08-2010 02:29 AM (13 years ago) (m) Oh it's a pity. Not all Nigerians
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 15-08-2010 02:29 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 15-08-2010 09:20 AM (13 years ago) (f) Thank you all , it's nice to read answers, fortunately -- extremely smart. | Posted: at 15-08-2010 09:20 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 15-08-2010 09:23 AM (13 years ago) (f) i cant hold it o....if u guys not married and he didnt answear ya call for 2 weeks awww girl wake up...
mmm 2 weeks is not small...depends on d argue also, mayb he need to cool downMaybe, this is why I asked abt differences... maybe Nigerian men have... different attitude . Aye Hun, sorry to burst your bubble, but if your man do not call or pick up the phone 2 weeks following an argument, I will honestly and boldly tell you that he is seeing another woman. Think about it.. the long distance, the argument, the time frame he is still pissed off. I am not sure i have met a Nigerian man that is upset for that long just because of an argument UNLESS there is more to it about what caused the argument. I am a nigerian man, Ibo... and married to an american woman.. and african american woman for that matter, but surprisingly we get along just fine. She even cooks Nigerian food and soups for me(she learnt the cooking from my cousin's wife who is nigerianas well). Do you think that it is possible? How could man do like this...? | Posted: at 15-08-2010 09:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
![-]( "Evve") Evve at 15-08-2010 08:12 PM (13 years ago) (f) I FEEL THAT I HAVE SEARCHED ANSWER SOMEWHERE, WHERE REAL PROBLEM HASNT EXISTED, SO I DELETE IT  . But it was nice to talk, I think that it may be interesting topic: HOW LOOKS LIFE IN MIXED COUPLES. | Posted: at 15-08-2010 08:12 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
|
bittersweet
Evve
solojaro
mat-James
Beauti4
typicalman84
Kennee
Michro
TRENDING GISTS 
"I Told My Wife Whenever I Slept With Another Lady" – Charly Boy Shares Insights On Activism, Marriage, And Gender Roles In Candid Interview
Ex-FCMB Manager, Nwachukwu Placidus Sentenced To 121 Years For Embezzling Customer's Funds In Onitsha
Veteran Actress, Shan George In Desperate Plea As Fraudsters Clear N3.6m From Her Bank Account (Video)
Ex-Lagos Gov. Babatunde Fashola Proudly Walks Daughter, Yewande, Down The Aisle In Grand Ceremony (Photos)
Manchester City v Wolves: English Premier League Match,Team News,Goal Scorers and Stats