Sometimes I didn't have doubts that he loved and respected me..., but sometimes... I know that human being isn't simple, culture is not everything abt it. He always said that Im "joker".
If any man in love could say, even in jokes, that don't trust or don't love anymore his woman...?
Dear they can say a lot while joking, dont take everytin 2 serious...
And i guess it is normal tht when u dont live together, communication is even more difficult then normaly...
But when u misunderstand him or u dont knw whts up, just wait untill u c him again to have a better conversation...
Dont make decisions based on wht u hear on d phone, cuz it is not always easy!
BS, no be small tin ooo !
Many times i tell my bf, baby how come it is so difficult to show luv and care...
Sometimes he reply me, when i tell u 3 months ago tht i love u, wht makes u think it is changed by now 
As if we women, only wanna hear tht once in 3 months hahaWell, thx God,I didn't have that problem! We say "I love you ",daily, but he's really not a guy who talks schmalzy, and sometimes I need that, u know? 
Yeah of course dear, who doesnt need tht... it is so nice to hear from d person u love, all those sweet sweet talks...
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![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 12:51 PM (14 years ago)  (f) We are together as a couple almost from the first time we met  , so -- maybe that was always not the good order of things  , so it is two years full of different situations and more... | Posted: at 13-08-2010 12:51 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 13-08-2010 12:52 PM (14 years ago) (m) scared of love | Posted: at 13-08-2010 12:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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We are together as a couple almost from the first time we met , so -- maybe that was always not the good order of things , so it is two years full of different situations and more... You're lucky. My (boy)friend is really... hmm... he can change his behaviour easily: one he is so sentimental and tell that he loves me, but then he is extremelly male and its hard for him to say sth... God... .
Everythin gets better in time...but only when u both serious and ready to 'change' d things u dont like abt urselves and compromising...
When u r dating for 2 years now, maybe it is time for a next step? | Posted: at 13-08-2010 12:54 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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scared of love
Tell me about it!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-08-2010 12:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 12:55 PM (14 years ago) (f) And about family: well, I respect my family and of course would like them to accept him. Now, I dont know if it has sense..., cause as I said, Im considering continuing relations with him as with friend, cause we need that... maybe it sounds foolish, but I dont know what will be with us as a couple, too much issues... | Posted: at 13-08-2010 12:55 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) (f) He also said that I can change in two minutes, from smiling to crying, but it is only when I am with him . Scared of love? | Posted: at 13-08-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 12:58 PM (14 years ago) (f) "When u r dating for 2 years now, maybe it is time for a next step?" How you mean "next step"? | Posted: at 13-08-2010 12:58 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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And about family: well, I respect my family and of course would like them to accept him. Now, I dont know if it has sense..., cause as I said, Im considering continuing relations with him as with friend, cause we need that... maybe it sounds foolish, but I dont know what will be with us as a couple, too much issues...
hmmm d only tin i can say is, when u feel d effort ur doin is 2 much u betta b friends...
cuz when it feels like a heavy load it is not worth it, not for u and not for hum...
it is not gonna feel natural to him and is gonna b headache for u...
Well, i was thinkin thins were goin kinda gud between u guys, just d differences u had to work on.. tht is why i said
maybe time for a next step, like living together ?? But when i hear u thinkin abt bein just friends, tht is an other story | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:00 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 13-08-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) (f) Thinking
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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And about family: well, I respect my family and of course would like them to accept him. Now, I dont know if it has sense..., cause as I said, Im considering continuing relations with him as with friend, cause we need that... maybe it sounds foolish, but I dont know what will be with us as a couple, too much issues...
hmmm d only tin i can say is, when u feel d effort ur doin is 2 much u betta b friends...
cuz when it feels like a heavy load it is not worth it, not for u and not for hum...
it is not gonna feel natural to him and is gonna b headache for u...
Well, i was thinkin thins were goin kinda gud between u guys, just d differences u had to work on.. tht is why i said
maybe time for a next step, like living together ?? But when i hear u thinkin abt bein just friends, tht is an other storyMy God!I couldn't remain "just friends " with a guy I loved a lot,and maybe I still do! If is not working, from various reasons, it's better to stop any kind of contact!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 01:05 PM (14 years ago) (f) Hmm... he's my biggest joy in life, that Love was worth everything for me. But I am really affraid..., cause Im not sure if for him it is the same..., sometimes he behaved as if that relationship was not important for him. Living together is good idea, but hard to create now. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) (f) Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS  . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) (f) Hmm... he's my biggest joy in life, that Love was worth everything for me.
But I am really affraid..., cause Im not sure if for him it is the same..., sometimes he behaved as if that relationship was not important for him.
Living together is good idea, but hard to create now.
This is why I asked, how it is, how Nigerians are, behave, etc..., maybe I dont understand his behaviour well. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Evve") Evve at 13-08-2010 01:16 PM (14 years ago) (f) Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on! Maybe... this is why Im still considering, we don't have a way to meet now, so we dont talk abt it via phone. But Im affraid that he would tell me that we should be friends. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:16 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "solojaro") solojaro at 13-08-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago) (m) Hmm... he's my biggest joy in life, that Love was worth everything for me.
But I am really affraid..., cause Im not sure if for him it is the same..., sometimes he behaved as if that relationship was not important for him.
Living together is good idea, but hard to create now.
I feel for you, I just wonder how two of u can not discuss your relationship on phone since both of you are not together for some time now. The tel. is the only means of comm. with him now. so in future conversation with him, be bold to ask him how he feel about you now that both of you are not together. it is a pity you gave it all and your love for the relations to go on and just the way you feel and so love him, Try a bit study on your guy very well to know if it worth given it all your heart to him and the family. If he told you that both of can not be talking on tell.abot it. then ask him why and put your ear and eyes open to understand why the relationship has been like this all this why. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "solojaro") solojaro at 13-08-2010 01:54 PM (14 years ago) (m) Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on! You could surely overcome it, for Life is a stage. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 01:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on! You could surely overcome it, for Life is a stage. If it didn't work out,it's better to not see him around!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-08-2010 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "solojaro") solojaro at 13-08-2010 02:27 PM (14 years ago) (m) Its not easy to be friends, but it is harder to stop all contact, BS . He means too much for me, I prefer to be his friend ("sister") than loose everything. Well,I couldn't! It would be too painful, and I couldn't pass over it and move on! You could surely overcome it, for Life is a stage. If it didn't work out,it's better to not see him around! Thats is correct. so that you could over it easly. and move ahead with your life. | Posted: at 13-08-2010 02:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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