I need some tips people. HELP PLSssssss! (Page 3)

no idea, i have never had cause to woo a guy and i cant imagine myself doing that.

Posted: at 24-08-2010 02:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

        I will suggest u leave him for a while, pretend u don't really notice him, just be ur self, a simple hello when u meet will do. don't call him either, just give him a space. dress cute, look sweet, soon he will notice u.
           There is nothing wrong in dating ur co worker, love can be found anywhere. u just need to present ur self well, and handle

If U are very good friends, pull away. See him less, communicate with him less. Chances are if he's not like some of us he will pull closer to U. U may be standing too close to him for him to see the good things he has with u and how better they could get if U were more than just friends.


these two post are definitely the answer you need

Posted: at 24-08-2010 02:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

sorry sir' pardone the poster...all she ever wanted is Office Romance

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Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

abi oooooooooo if  no noe look ur side girl make u  bounce :'(

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Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

here we go  again!!!!!!!!!!!!

why not naked yourself and get on  a plate to woo tis guy u fancy....

hisssssssssing

What a SENSELESS POST



Thanks

Posted: at 24-08-2010 04:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I believe That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them,heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. So go ahead and take the risk of doing it your way, no advice.

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Posted: at 24-08-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Become a serious person. Look professional. Act professional. Do your work to the best of your ability. Smile when it is funny. Cry when it is sad. Be a real human. What is yours will come. What is not will go.

It kind of hurts, right? But that is the beauty of life. You can not see beyond the next bend. So let this guy that makes your heart beat faster alone.

Like if his picture of an ideal woman, is one who is thin, he may never consider you for a relationship.

Likfe if his picture of an ideal woman, is one who is tall, it may never cross his mind.

If he likes his women with big ikebe and yours is not, he may never cross his mind.

If his picture of an ideal woman is one who likes chelsea and high octane blood pumping action movies and you are like the soap opera, cat loving and mills and boons chick, then sorry, You are not the one.

It hurts, I know. We all have hearts. But, hell this is life.. No guarantees. The universe is more in control than we are.
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I would say it again. Act professionaly, dress professionaly. To be classy means to act towards perfection.
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Funny, a colleague were I work has asked me out to lunch severally. Gave her some story and story and stories cause I don't see me and her happening. And if I don't see us happening, I aint leading you on. Am not a saint. I am a complete Nigerian. If a girl fits my profile and she throws herself at me, I will fall. Cause she fits my profile and God created the woman to have power over me. Ikebe Supper Power. ISP. Ha ahahahahahah. Never mess with the ISP. They might take away your internet connection. Ha ahhahaha. But, if a girl doesn't fit my profile and she throws herself at me, then it kinds of make me decide instantly that we will never happen. If she hadn't, the possibilities would have existed. She could have metamorphosed overnight. And I could have reconsidered.

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If you do not look like that girl, it may never happen. We guys are visual. We are very visual. And when we see a woman that looks like our subconcious wife and she has all the other goodies, we hunt for her.
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My dear Naijapal, forget about this guy and love yourself. You are important. And you deserve a guy that wants you and wishes to treat you special. women do not hunt in Nigeria. It is unethical. It is unusual. 4get that guy. 4get that guy. Circulate. Mingle. Attend Seminars. Attend Ceremonies. Go to church. Attend picnics. Go to the cinema if you can afford it. 4get about the guy. If he likes you he will step up. Stop wasting your mental energies on some guy that doesn't know if you exist or not.
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And one more thing. If a guy is not looking, then no matter how you flash he won't see you except playing chicks are his hobby. And then he will use you and dumb you. If a guy is not looking, he is not looking. Guys are not like chicks that are always on the look out for a guy in their life. Some of us are worried about money. Some of us are fighting for power. Some of us want to change the world. Some of us want to shoot the president.

And some of us are looking for the one. So be careful. Before you end up like dinner dishes. Before you become that exciting Pounded Yam and Some Calabar soup he had a long time ago. Damn he did enjoy that meal. And the guy will be like, wow life sure throws us gifts once a while. Ha ahahah ah.
And he will smile and people will not know why.

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Goodluck. Thanks for posting a topic I found worthy of a reply. U have made part of my day. Thanks.

Goodluck. May the Gods of the hunt, be with you if you choose the cleopatra way.
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I think there is this naugty book out there called the The laws of seduction or something. Some naughty boook for naughty humans. Go get a copy if u choose to hunt. Just remember that some guys are IMACANDI. And they will EAT-YA-CANDY. Be you Orobo or Lekpa-Shandi. Hmn.

GoodLuck once again.

Posted: at 24-08-2010 04:45 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

wow! am short of words. thanks a lot

Posted: at 24-08-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Agabs had said it all, there is nothing else left pretty lady, take his advise ok?

Posted: at 24-08-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

@mallorca the guy might have see her like a ship type
beside you and i don't know the real truth of the story
so my advise for her is stay clear cause no nigeria men we ever respect you in this manna pls stop

Posted: at 24-08-2010 07:26 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming