you are already friends with the guy, fate would do only so much. you would have to take the rest yourself.
know exactly what u want from this guy, a lover, a confidant, a husband. also ask yourself which u want- the school or the course, the experience or the appearance.
Now, have u ever asked to be invited to his house? friends do visit each other, and when invited can you stoop to sweep, clean, wash clothes, cook. if he demands for sex, never go all the way because its against your principle, but give something so he's relaxed after u leave. also provide for him occasionally from your own resources and don't be too much liability. have other friends and interest so u won't be needy and clingy. It would start by him calling you more... good luck.
he wont b inviting u to his hse anytime soon as he likes u.
i hpe things r fyn btw both of u...there r 2 ways to it, one doesnt lyk u two he does a lil but..... he is either playing games (cuz he noes u lyk him more) or he doesnt wanna pursue it further for personal reason...either way it screams drama so leave him b, u r a princess n shudnt settle 4 a man that treats u any less than that
reminds me of this joke,
Some people say there is no diff btw 'finished' and 'complete', so here goes......
Marry the right person & ur 'complete'
Marry the wrong person n u r 'finished'
and u girlie r too strong to settle 4 "finished", but that wots in store 4 u if u continue force things with this guy. forgets the gifts (u not buying his lurve), forget the calls (u not pursuing him)....even if it hurts walk away with ur heads held high...u knows with men talk. If he has the chance to give u a reference to ur potential hubby (i kno long shot), will it b? "she is quite a lady, treat her with respect" or "she is desperate"
Posted: at 24-08-2010 10:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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