I beg u, 9ja girls and boys...HELP ME! i need some advices :((( (Page 9)

hi sara, me i didnt marry naija guy i married european german ansd he was cheating on me like crazy , but why should cheating bother u seeing men r polygamous in nature, and i think u have to llearn to understand and accept him just love him and tdont expect something in return dont burg him, spend time with ur own friends or get an hobby and get yourself involved do u like reading novels, do u lolve god , lopok for something that makes u happy , dont cling unto him like that, he is only a human being, the weight might b too much for to bear, cos he still has to bear the weight of his own persobnal problem, buy dating books. learn to b logical it will help u a lot , we women r prone to b emotional but that could destroy your relationship with ur man cos its too much burden, and maybe u guys can sit n talk sometimes , so u can express all dis tzhings u feeel to him and try to listen and understand him when he is talking

Posted: at 31-12-2012 01:44 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 16-02-2013 03:44 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

Everyone wants a totally honest relationship where there are no secrets. In theory, it does not happen that way. A lot of Men, not just Nigerian men, have mountains of secrets they never tell the people they love the most. You need to keep an open mind about your man. At the same time, set the limits. You have to be open and honest about what you would take from him and what you won't take from. Peeking into his Yahoo or Facebook account will only show that he's no Angel of Fidelity (none of us are angels anyway). So, if you go peeking into his phone expecting to catch him cheating on you, don't be surprised when you get what you're looking for. There needs to be a range to decide when cheating is going too far. Besides, I would bet you would find him boring if he didn't have one or two suspicious emails from a woman. The limit is when those messages are about a pregnancy or he wants to divorce you and marry another woman. Don't hold on to him too tightly not to give him his space or not to want to let him go when its obvious the relationship isn't working anymore

Posted: at 8-01-2014 09:13 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming