A big girl in da UK wants to marry. (Page 3)

if you love her marry her age is not a barrier, because i have witness similar case in my formal compound were i live the lady his older than the guy, but today they are happily married with beautiful childrennnnnnnnnnnn so my brother don't be confused or let another person confused you. you know the right thing to do, do it fasttttttttttt.

Posted: at 2-09-2010 08:55 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Think before you do is better than do before you think,my advice is this,try to spend some times with her and study her properly so that you can know the type of person she is,then if she is ok with you go ahead and marry her but mind you,not all that glitters is Gold

Posted: at 2-09-2010 09:34 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Please Naijapals:  "Age" matters a lot in every relationship especially if the woman is older than the man but if the man is older, then there is no problem, in fact a man can even be 20(twenty)years or more older than his wife. Even though some school of thoughts believe it doesn't matters if there is love, trust and peaceful co-existence between both parties to the marriage contract and i am sure  it doesn't really matters in places like Europe and America but here in Africa!!!  I'm afraid, it's a different ball game though it happens once in while but not a common place.
                         Well my guy, the only advise i have for you is that even if you are going to marry her, make sure you:
                        1.      Love her so much (i. e. she's your sweetheart, the apple of your eye and so on).
                        2.      She loves you equally as well as you know life is giving and taking.
                        3.      Religious compatibility.
                        4.      Good background and lineage.   
                        5.      She's reserved (i.e. someone preserving her chastity even at her age, doesn't mingle and gallivant with men
                                 unnecessarily).       
                        6.      She's polite.
                        7.      She's obedient and respectful to you and she should be glad as having you as her husband.
                        These are just few of the numerous things you can do to checkmate her. Lest i forget,as regards the respect, you have to respect her in return even though you are her husband but remember that respect is reciprocal. Goodluck   
                           

Posted: at 2-09-2010 05:41 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

well, u guys never think about life and happiness, all u think is travel travel,
ur country dey pepe u, abi the girls wey dey there no bi woman?
don't allow urself to be used by those white people,
if she is decent as she thought do u think that men there will leave her for u?
think twice my brother, am outside also i know what is going over here,
i know their game.

DEM BI TOKOMBO MOTOR, DEM BI OLD SPOILED PROPERTIES

Posted: at 2-09-2010 05:59 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

passing

Posted: at 2-09-2010 10:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

u one run because u done hammer her finish 

Posted: at 3-09-2010 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

How do we help you when we don't know your choice, marriage is by choice and not by right; Make a right choice and you won't regret it later. You can date anybody but when it comes to marriage, broda you need to think over it over and over, unless you are for some material reasons then later you can back off then you don't need to bring her home so she won't look for you when you leave her. Any way you have the last decision by yourself.

Posted: at 3-09-2010 10:34 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

do wetin u wan do

Posted: at 4-09-2010 12:27 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

he shd nt try it,

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Posted: at 4-09-2010 11:24 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Dear DP, i really do look  forware to your comensts, but i must confess this is one is not really one of them,


The abouve guy wanted help but he didn't stated in any of his sentence that  the laydy in question IS doing any "runs"

That bring me to the next  why do every man or woman  thinks that all the ladies or mature gurls outside Nigeria tah has money hads done prostitution or something in that nature?...

Posted: at 4-09-2010 09:09 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming