Whatever name we give it; White Wedding, Church Wedding, Oyibo Wedding etc. the meaning is what matters in the end. A church wedding is a wedding that follows the priciples enlisted IN THE BIBLE unless your are inspired to write another book in the bible. It is not impossible to stay virgin untill marriage for sure. What will one enjoy after marriage if he/she losses his/her virginity and most probably having a baby prior getting married, My God! besides Jesus died for everyone so there's nothing like Oyibo wedding unless you are not a christian. I plan to stay virgin untill Church marriage after which we can have all the Sex and Children in the world happily with pride! I feel for the couple that had their wedding cancelled because it appears they'll live with that Story all their live eww..  | Posted: at 19-06-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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no be small tin ooo.
no be small virginity test
u right bro!
for me: to hell with dia church wedding
my dowry has been paid..
so.. i can live with him..YES!
correct babe Thank God! There are clear minded people, who cannot be allowed to cowed, deceived/misled and controlled by conservative, backward thinking Pastors. Church marriage is not even legal and cannot be enforced in the law court. It is just ceremonial, hence the MOST IMPORTANT is the TRADITIONAL and Court Wedding. pls dont be canal. How would you say a Church marriage is not legal..  of cos its not else it would be a court wedding besides anyone that calls himself a pastor has given his life as a property to God and God now owns that person so it would'nt be wise calling such a person backward thinking else you might not know where your problems are coming from. | Posted: at 19-06-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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across d street | Posted: at 19-06-2011 02:07 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "AJALA") AJALA at 19-06-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago)  (m) What is this? make una go yahoo messager. | Posted: at 19-06-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 19-06-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) na ghost you dey see so , me no dey go accross the street , na along the street me dey walk --ok? | Posted: at 19-06-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 19-06-2011 02:57 PM (13 years ago) (m) What is this? make una go yahoo messager. whats your business in that? make you take your eyes off it , na by force? | Posted: at 19-06-2011 02:57 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 19-06-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) (m) the church is not serious AND PLS NAME THE CHURCH,THEY ARE JUST HYPOCRITES
Yu just Assume they're Hypocrites cos yu're thinking they Probably Commit Sin themselves... Listen to yurself. If a Church Preaches Something and do not Practice it, who will??
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 19-06-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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The church can do whatever,but not in this our modern day one would not be real sure what he/she is getting into. I wish they would relax on that rule considering many factors as social changes sweeping all over,but notwithstanding gays and lesbians can't be compromised. | Posted: at 19-06-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "AJALA") AJALA at 19-06-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) (m) What is this? make una go yahoo messager. whats your business in that? make you take your eyes off it , na by force? But una don change the topic to I SEE AND WETIN YOU SEE. | Posted: at 19-06-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "solozos") solozos at 19-06-2011 03:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) Well..i am not going to address any body specifically on this issue, but i need ask one question...who instituted marriage? is it God? or man? if any one of you out there....who dont think or reason, will say his father or mother instituted marriage then i will say....yes your comments are good...but if its not your father, or your great grand father that instituted marriage then....pls and pls...respect the Church. God is not a man, and he cant be mocked..for those mocking...its your time.....he has set a standard for the church.....for all those who thinks marriage is all about traditional..feel good and free.....BUT DID YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER IN THE OLD DAYS.....DO ALL THESE ACTS....IF YOU CANT FEAR GOD, OF RESPECT HIM.....THEN WAIT A WHILE FOR HIS JUDGMENT......it was very simple the church has set a standard......if u feel its not necessary then....there is a way which seems right unto a man...the end is death......says the HOLY BIBLE.....every thing in the world is been changed by men and women...but there is a God watching.......dont worry.....just see what happens on the day of the Lord...... | Posted: at 19-06-2011 03:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 19-06-2011 03:53 PM (13 years ago) (m) The church can do whatever,but not in this our modern day one would not be real sure what he/she is getting into. I wish they would relax on that rule considering many factors as social changes sweeping all over,but notwithstanding gays and lesbians can't be compromised.
Have yu Hear o' the Saying "God is the Same Today, Tomorrow and Forever"??
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 19-06-2011 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 19-06-2011 04:42 PM (13 years ago) (m) Every church have their own different ways of doctrine and we must respect that. If this coulples belong to this church, they ought to have understand the modalities of how this church operate their wedding system. The couples have been committing fornication before wedding after being born again. for this cause, the church is right to cancel the wedding. | Posted: at 19-06-2011 04:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 19-06-2011 05:12 PM (13 years ago) (m) The church can do whatever,but not in this our modern day one would not be real sure what he/she is getting into. I wish they would relax on that rule considering many factors as social changes sweeping all over,but notwithstanding gays and lesbians can't be compromised.
Have yu Hear d o' the Saying "God is the Same Today, Tomorrow and Forever"??
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 19-06-2011 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 19-06-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) (m) The church goofed. Apostle Paul in bible book of 1Corinthians Chapter 7 verse 36 endorses sex before marriage.
1 Corinthians Chapter 7 verse 36 reads "If any one thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his betrothed, if his passions are strong, and it has to be, let him do as he wishes: let them marry -- it is no sin." RSV
You are the only true christian that have time for this sensitive discussion. I just wish others will put down their authentic quotation that convey their arguement instead of resounding what pastor did right. Thanks for thiS LIGHT. am just enlightened.  | Posted: at 19-06-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 19-06-2011 08:41 PM (13 years ago) (m) it baffles me everyday how some ppl will go about bragging, making noise, claiming to be Christians while they are worst....some ppl will rather quit church prior to their marriage but they are Christian... ask yourself what does the bible really say about this??... not acting out of your selfishness and be stoning pastors for your selfish desires...
those days when churches were practising what the bible teaches, sex before marriage was even a taboo let alone being pregnant... ppl will know the truth yet deviate because they cant embrace it .... im very happy that there re still pastors like that in this world.... we are now in a world where Christians will sleep with their partners to know whether they are compatible..SHAME! .. hear this from me, "u re not better than ur next door neighbour"...
if you can not do what the bible says, stay at home.. or better still u can go to any other church. if u like take/leave it, the truth must be said...
I am as free as air to call your comment 'railing' if you don't quickly back it with bible quotation to let the light shine or are you ashamed of quoting bible reference for back-up? TAKE A LOOK AT THIS and know the best thing to do --------- The church goofed. Apostle Paul in bible book of 1Corinthians Chapter 7 verse 36 endorses sex before marriage.
1 Corinthians Chapter 7 verse 36 reads "If any one thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his betrothed, if his passions are strong, and it has to be, let him do as he wishes: let them marry -- it is no sin." RSV
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nt saying what they did was right but they have already commited the sin, why nt forgive them like christ wud have forgiven every sinner why judge them like the devil | Posted: at 19-06-2011 08:46 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-06-2011 08:46 PM (13 years ago) (f) it baffles me everyday how some ppl will go about bragging, making noise, claiming to be Christians while they are worst....some ppl will rather quit church prior to their marriage but they are Christian... ask yourself what does the bible really say about this??... not acting out of your selfishness and be stoning pastors for your selfish desires...
those days when churches were practising what the bible teaches, sex before marriage was even a taboo let alone being pregnant... ppl will know the truth yet deviate because they cant embrace it .... im very happy that there re still pastors like that in this world.... we are now in a world where Christians will sleep with their partners to know whether they are compatible..SHAME! .. hear this from me, "u re not better than ur next door neighbour"...
if you can not do what the bible says, stay at home.. or better still u can go to any other church. if u like take/leave it, the truth must be said...
pastor media-----
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-06-2011 08:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 19-06-2011 09:05 PM (13 years ago) (m) the church is not serious AND PLS NAME THE CHURCH,THEY ARE JUST HYPOCRITES
Yu just Assume they're Hypocrites cos yu're thinking they Probably Commit Sin themselves... Listen to yurself. If a Church Preaches Something and do not Practice it, who will?? Preaching is one thing, practice is another thing. What i value most is teaching. My reason is that teaching will leave some space for me to ask question and use my brain for my own and whatever advantage i care, knowing fully well that i will give account of all at the end -not now-b/w me and God. Also, teaching creates room for reconciliation and peace making. Some preachers don't like teaching just b/c they want to be all in all in the church and in your private life thereby living many b/livers with 'implicit' type-of-faith', unlike St Paul who would like Timothy and other b/livers to know everything in case of his death, absent or backsliding bcos all human are mortal despite the volume of their anointing. I expected ardent christian to back the church decision with bible verse but instead what i see is railing and anger. That is a lot immaturity in expression. | Posted: at 19-06-2011 09:05 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Innoutt") Innoutt at 19-06-2011 09:11 PM (13 years ago) (m) the church is not serious AND PLS NAME THE CHURCH,THEY ARE JUST HYPOCRITES
Yu just Assume they're Hypocrites cos yu're thinking they Probably Commit Sin themselves... Listen to yurself. If a Church Preaches Something and do not Practice it, who will?? Preaching is one thing, practice is another thing. What i value most is teaching. My reason is that teaching will leave some space for me to ask question and use my brain for my own and whatever advantage i care, knowing fully well that i will give account of all at the end -not now- and that is b/w me and God. Also, teaching creates room for reconciliation and peace making. Some preachers don't like teaching just b/c they want to be all in all in the church and in your private life thereby living many b/livers with 'implicit' type-of-faith', unlike St Paul who would like Timothy and other b/livers to know everything in case of his death, absent or backsliding bcos all human are mortal despite the volume of their anointing. I expected ardent christian to back their view with bible verse but instead what i see is railing and anger. That is a lot of immaturity in expression. I couldn't imagine what would av been happening if all the defenders were spiritually matured to the extent of striking with bible references than railing and trying to force people b/live their mind blindly. | Posted: at 19-06-2011 09:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 19-06-2011 10:06 PM (13 years ago) (m) What is this? make una go yahoo messager. whats your business in that? make you take your eyes off it , na by force? But una don change the topic to I SEE AND WETIN YOU SEE. na so now my brother , thats the system now , its so in almost ever topic | Posted: at 19-06-2011 10:06 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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