Getting Rid of Jealousy (Page 2)

Date: 28-09-2010 10:40 am (13 years ago) | Author: Oluwafemi Owoseeni
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- phemzy2 at 28-09-2010 11:48 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: youngk on 28-09-2010 11:34 AM
she don't know what she want....and again
she won show now and u too go bold am...since u know wetin u want...just let her be...
u will see,she will one time come ur office come follow u talk....just maintain ur respect...


I did this before but she complained a lot about my distance and we get back on the track.
Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:48 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 28-09-2010 11:49 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: phemzy2 on 28-09-2010 11:48 AM
Quote from: youngk on 28-09-2010 11:34 AM
she don't know what she want....and again
she won show now and u too go bold am...since u know wetin u want...just let her be...
u will see,she will one time come ur office come follow u talk....just maintain ur respect...


I did this before but she complained a lot about my distance and we get back on the track.

You got back on the track because YOU allowed that!
Don't you know to say NO?

Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- phemzy2 at 28-09-2010 11:52 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-09-2010 11:40 AM
of course u r jealous now, cos u enjoyed d attention

tht gal is afta money or fame cos d way she fly like butterfly from one to an oda

not outa luv eh


Yeah I'm jealous. Being close to somebody after when she apologies to me about the Assistant Director issue, I forgive her thinking she is different now. So I have a better confidence in her. When I notice another colleague is coming up again, whaoo I feel betrayed and very jealous. So jealousness is normal to human being because we feel.
Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:52 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- phemzy2 at 28-09-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-09-2010 11:49 AM
Quote from: phemzy2 on 28-09-2010 11:48 AM
Quote from: youngk on 28-09-2010 11:34 AM
she don't know what she want....and again
she won show now and u too go bold am...since u know wetin u want...just let her be...
u will see,she will one time come ur office come follow u talk....just maintain ur respect...


I did this before but she complained a lot about my distance and we get back on the track.

You got back on the track because YOU allowed that!
Don't you know to say NO?

After saying NO, do i need to explain my reason or just tell her that my reason is best known to me?
Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 28-09-2010 11:58 AM (13 years ago)
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bein jealous of sometin tht will b gud for u is fine

but jealousy for nottin is stupid! why feel like dat when afta ur coleague it will b somebody else again...

dont pay attention to her.... talk d tins for work and when she say sometin private, u just say

i dont wanna hear such
Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:58 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- macgreat at 28-09-2010 12:01 PM (13 years ago)
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You don't have to tell her...

If you want her to stay permanently away from you Lash,slash and cut if necessary.  

Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 28-09-2010 12:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: phemzy2 on 28-09-2010 11:56 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-09-2010 11:49 AM
Quote from: phemzy2 on 28-09-2010 11:48 AM
Quote from: youngk on 28-09-2010 11:34 AM
she don't know what she want....and again
she won show now and u too go bold am...since u know wetin u want...just let her be...
u will see,she will one time come ur office come follow u talk....just maintain ur respect...


I did this before but she complained a lot about my distance and we get back on the track.

You got back on the track because YOU allowed that!
Don't you know to say NO?

After saying NO, do i need to explain my reason or just tell her that my reason is best known to me?

Of course u don't need to tell her!
Do the little talk possible!

Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- youngk at 28-09-2010 12:07 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster,is like u are growing feeling for her from this ur comment....

do u want her?
Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- macgreat at 28-09-2010 12:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Him wan enter the 'Place'

Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- phemzy2 at 28-09-2010 12:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-09-2010 11:58 AM
bein jealous of sometin tht will b gud for u is fine

but jealousy for nottin is stupid! why feel like dat when afta ur coleague it will b somebody else again...
dont pay attention to her.... talk d tins for work and when she say sometin private, u just say

i dont wanna hear such


Thanks.

I remember when we just started, that was when she tell me about her pre-marital relationship, so one day i decided to share mine with her and she was not happy (she was thinking about something else of which i don't have a clue)  so I stopped and did not continue the conversation.

I'm still asking myself now, what makes her feel bad when sharing with her my own relationship. Maybe she was thinking that she can use her pre-marital relastionship to get me into her or what? I still don't understand.
Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 28-09-2010 12:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: youngk on 28-09-2010 12:07 PM
@poster,is like u are growing feeling for her from this ur comment....

do u want her?

Ehen!
It what it seems to me too!

Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- phemzy2 at 28-09-2010 12:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: youngk on 28-09-2010 12:07 PM
@poster,is like u are growing feeling for her from this ur comment....

do u want her?
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Quote from: macgreat on 28-09-2010 12:09 PM
Him wan enter the 'Place'

Yeah I was having feeling for her but I was aware of the risk/danger in office romance so I decided to swallow my feeling. And I prefer my job to one unreasonable relationship that won't work again once you are ditched out of the job.

Quote from: bittersweet on 28-09-2010 12:11 PM
Quote from: youngk on 28-09-2010 12:07 PM
@poster,is like u are growing feeling for her from this ur comment....

do u want her?

Ehen!
It what it seems to me too!

No
Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- phemzy2 at 28-09-2010 12:17 PM (13 years ago)
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@Bittersweet

My comment is just about our past.

I already know what to do.
Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 28-09-2010 12:18 PM (13 years ago)
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For your sake, I hope so!

Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mykelly at 28-09-2010 12:22 PM (13 years ago)
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i ll advise you to stay away from that BITCH,if not you will become a BEAST
Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- phemzy2 at 28-09-2010 12:27 PM (13 years ago)
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@Bittersweet

Thank you very much.

More grease to your elbow

How come you're good at this?

@mykelly

Thanks
Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 28-09-2010 12:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: phemzy2 on 28-09-2010 12:27 PM
@Bittersweet

Thank you very much.

More grease to your elbow

How come you're good at this?

You're welcome!  Wink

Posted: at 28-09-2010 12:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 28-09-2010 07:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Guy life is too short to be playing games i can see how confused u r right now but not to worry ur a man whatever happens to a man is equal to a man.let her go and try as much as u can as a real man and concentrate with ur life geez
Posted: at 28-09-2010 07:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- adeshnaija at 20-09-2011 04:38 PM (12 years ago)
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God knows best, wat is urs must surely b urs..
Posted: at 20-09-2011 04:38 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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